Show C4 Herald Journal Logan Utah Thursday November 20 2003 — The FOR BETTER OR WORSE Neighbors like to bare all By Kathy Mitchell & Creators Syndicate f'pmwHveTq) ine eesr nwroF lyMECLweii iHE ClM& attention People can do as they like in their oxvn homes If you don't xvant to sec them keep your shades drawn on that side of the house plant tall hushes or do whatever you Marcy Sugar Inc I AulHOff MHAT A8S VBU OOlUfir WITH ' DEAR ANNIE: Due to ibe sudden death of my oldest son I have been stuck in a depression lor the past four years I think I've developed some kind of anxiety disorder that prevents me from leaving the house Please don’t suggest I see u therapist because I have no way to pay lor such help My husband of " ' t live years hasquit every job hchas gotten so there is no insurance Is there an honest way for me to work from home on iny computer? If I could start earning :' some money! maybe I would get my voice ' back and tell him to stop being so selfish The problem is' any criticism frohy me would make' him walk I leel therc'is nothing to look forward to but ' the alterlite riii pot suicidal just impatiently waiting to die How do I dig myself out of this? WM IB 00 I 1 HONEY? Can lo improve the view liiiu' a problem with my jieiiihht'rv They win to think they nv invisible when they walk around mule in their bedroom or get out of the shower Their cur tain ami shades' are ialwuys WideopCn The Annies in imiriieijjhbdrluHRl are close together ' and xx lien their lights irre on we can see I have a their house young straight through son xlio thinks this is hiluriinis hut it's not 'spmetiting to which I xiiint him exposed I haxe gotten to know their daily routine so I can usually close our shades w hen they aa' undressed: lloxxexer I leel nudity is a private thing and they should be thrones to Close their -shades! nut me It's aifaw kward siuiiition and not 'sonielhine Licel coml'orlahle mentioning to them Vfnit ciii No? — Not So Neighborly in ' DILBERT I UJE CAN DESPERATELY NEED TO TAKE ' THIS TRAINING I'M ADED BY THE SHEER ARTISTRY OF YOUR MISMANAGEMENT T SPARE YOU SEND DALLY AND HAVE HIM TELL YOU UJHAT HE LEARNED SKILLS ' - ' ' " - ' : l '’v'v ' Please 'contact Friends: a wonderful organiza-- 1 lion for those whose children have died The Oak Brook IL address is: P() Box 36 60522-3- 6 ( wwwcompassionatefriendsorg) e You The number is will lliid free help and support there Until you can work your way out of this depression it will he difficult to find the ener-- ’ gy to deal with your husband and your anxiety Start with one small step 'Ohm I MiiVk A )l I It ): Arc these neighbors aw are that yon yim see them? You'd be surprised how oblivious some Folks are Knock on their door sure you don't realize uidsiy likely!-'Til' how easy it is to see inside' your house ’t on might want- lo close your shades i n the bedroom imd bathroom" ft they Mill leave everything open you can assume they are exhibitionists and enjoy the Imprisoned DEAR IMPRISONED: ARLOANDJANIS XOUACfA&IFlMIRtFlRW toll-fre- F&0U£V£R KICKED OUT OfAGKOttKY STOKfe' ' Causes of feeling constantly cold through perspiration In contrast those people who live in cold climates have less need to lose body heat hence they have less blood The seasonal adaptation takes several weeks during which people may experience sy ts as their Nxlies adjust to the changing ambient temperature For example "spring fever" is believed to he caused by the body's sudden commitment to produce moreblood in ' preparation for warmer weather Conversely' we commonly ‘‘feel'- the cold more acutely during the first frosty days in autumn than wedoiater in the winter whenwe havc become physiologically acclimatized Resistance lo temperature extreriics also ' depends on body build level of activity and general health Finally diseases such as hypothyroidisih cause patients to feel chilly d room sug- Your discomfort in a gests that you niay be suffering from a physical jnalady You should have an examination and hliKKl tesjsby your family physician H- Gott MD Newspaper Enterprise Association By Peter - DR (iOTf: I aiiicoiisiaiitlx co id In 75- degree weather I wear a ': Mocking cap sweatshirt flannel shirt and put a comforter oxer my fap — and I’ ni stijr cold I'm 53 arid: except lor high cho- iesterol! am healthy Can ' yoii help? Dl'ARREADER The extent t which any ojus withslandsheat Or ciild is hugely a fane- to their" lion of accommodation: Peoplc-adap" crtxiruiiiiientv f or example people living in the tropics have more blood than do those imdividuals who live in chilly surroundings! This is because an increased blood volume-is necessary to' supply addiiional'blooil in (he skin where heat is lost' DJ-A- GRIZZWELLS mp-ton- t T ACTUte A N UTTIEKID tommy VOW T! :I bW : well-heate- ZITS ntamramm NS BAH -- ITIMmM ’ IN s ANPDWJU-GE-T ewtmiv LIFE TAXES HxX ' Horoscope W3 VCTT DoNoT ' 20) U Keep your guard tip or else yoii could be drawn into a sit- uation with friends that Has political overtones ARIES (March 21 April 19) 4 Be smart and 'don’t bring up volatile issues that disturb the family Keep your nose clean and the day will - ' be "ii happy one:! v 20 — Sometinles V TAURUS (April your fixed positions can' cause others to'stir' up a battle of wills Try to be more flexibic ' ' GEMINI (May 21 June 20)' — You know - ' better than' to go to places that could tempt you to delve into funds earmarked for essentials! an CANCER (Juhe21 -- July 22) old Chinese proverb that says '“If you can be y patient iri one irioment of anger you will By Bernice Bede OsoV: Newspaper Enterprise Association (Feb! -- ch ' ‘‘Oxin yi -- Yiiur desires lx he ' active' ulid tin the jnovc could be considerably hcighicncd in the' year ahead f yxu start to make plaus'early in the cycle you'cblild easc yourrcstlessness I V 20-M- : - Tv v 'SC(lRHl()(()cl24ov227— ciin do things faf better than you! 2j SAGITTARIUS (Nqy extra care in involving yourself in investment- type situations that require a cash outlay tin your behalf I)cc'22-- J an 19) -- Vou'll 'w hen acting alone so try todav best perform Rot to he ttMi dcpcinlcrit upon others Partners ' could htig you down!-- ' : A AOI 'ARIUS tJari puir attitude about what needs to he done xx ill make distasteful tasks ex en more difficult in perform 23-D- ec Byron's daughter Sorority - 50 - - 2(K)3 23-Se- pt - - 34 ' lb Relish-tra- 37 y itefrv 3S lb BaMe"- 18 A ' Man ' 21 Baldwin 40 42 43 of films 23 Total 45 cit - FRANK AND ERNEST 60 Bridge bldr Comfy :61 sugar base Bradley and' Sneed 7?o barker Pasture Pinch off Ancient cos- metic Leaned over Chief's people DOWN TH CHILI 1$ OUP Of ' SPfClAL mm THfSTfW IS out WfBK IN I! MVlfW H n- - 13 Just out 17 Odin's hall language Antwe' to Piewoui Puzzle QUA EjD G E IVEfl P‘ T I L UNDAE I t‘ons 0“0 LOIN U Gibberish 47 Tai 24 Pirt of RS P G ' 58 Spotted wild- - - 3b Maple- - repair : 52 Bakery goody 54 Blackout 58 32 Primary color is liiiHid - ALLEY OOP 23-O- ct ' 50 Sentinels 14 Reporter's boss : ' - iilSirikecallers 12 freyk sea letter- ' "-- :: Noxt'mhi'r 20 ’ACROSS' 2h tpii 29 WALLS 23-A- ug ake ' ' escape (X) days of Mirfow" LEO (July 22) — Normally you’re sure of yourself arid viewlife in happy termsHowever' you could have a tendency toxvard and toss in the towel too early scl V iRGO 22) CAug Today you y tiiiist be very certain that the things you think you Want will truly please you once you have achieved your ends LIBRA (Sept 23) — Plan your ' moves Carefully Uiday or you may experience a great deal of distress from ' doing things the ' hard xvay I )- 'Crossword VOOR TUNA BREATH COiLJLP PEEL THE PAINT OFF THE -- Have miiit faith iri yourself or else you could allow your-- 1 self hi enter into situations believing that others : GARFIELD -- ! t Mannerism b lourth planet t' ay R B A OVA NftH tM brok‘eL1st’e A BnA'l'D m f nQzaneT TA Cl C ALM ER El FL E L E A EC E S EC 18 Praise in poetry 33 Sixth sense 35 Talk talk 20 Surprise 51 More greatly 22 Track front 23 Cul-d- e- unit — 41 sluggish Take hostage 25 Returns org 44 Pitch 27 Ms Close of 46 Fragrant com- - films 28 Look ii the books 31 Unfold pound 47 Took by the hand 48 North-fort-y THE BORN LOSER 48 Ken or Lena of film Aussie jumper 53 Dow Jones fig- - 55 Spinks defeater 56 Tar 57 Dog days in Dijon OH ALL RJ6HT - L ADMIT IT NAS MY FAULT f BUT IF YOU REALLY (JOYED1 MLYOUNOULD APOLOGIZE! |