Show tWm " H' i C2— The Herald Journal Logan Utah Tuesday April 6 2004 't ' ''Vr'A ' ? I I V I1 i v: V"' f V : i f' ' ' v- : : tryA ‘ ’ v - ' - ' ' v !'A ' ' i ' : V f ' ' ' r )V" v -c i cw j f f Child molestation can ruin fancies for gen-- v erations We need to keep our children safe ' Tell your readers to keep their clothes on around their childrenTeach children that their bodies are private until'thiey ari manied Sex is awesome in the right context but not other-wise — Nameless To Protect the Innocent : DEAR NAMELESS: What a sad world we live in when parents cannot trust one another with their own children It’s true that molesters ' come in all shapes and sires and you cannot always tell when one is living in your home The best advice we can give is to keep your y? and ears open supervise all activities and teach your children to respect their bodies and report anyone Who tries to touch them improp-erty Meanwhile be careful not to transmit your anxieties to your kids DEAR ANNIE: I read the letter from the g gle guy who didn’t like to meet women in bars Annie why don’t you proclaim every Tuesday night “Singles Night at the Supermarket”? Grocery managers could profit by providing a area or maybe even encourage a scavenger hunt What a great environment to meet other singles! — Pensacola Fla DEAR PENSACOLA: That’s a sweet idea sincejnany singles already meet others while shopping Some grocers might want to give this a test run on slow days and Start a new trend Who knows? Maybe love could sprout ' ' between the carrots and the broccoli ' ByKathy Mitchell A Mercy Sugar Creators Syndicate Inc i DEAR ANNIE I have 7 r' to respond to' yoqr col- umn about parents taking baths with children under the age of 5 1 agree that it is perfectly normal if the parent is not a molester The only problem is that you do not know who the molester is' Molesters do not wear a sign They can fool anyone Often they'seem to be model parents I speak from experience I am a social ser- vice worker and knew all the signs Yet the “wonderful religious man'M married was later found to be molesting his own children start- when they were 3 years old The children seemed bright happy and very outgoing Only after one of the children came forward to describe the years of abuse did the man confess! and the enormity of his perversion become apparently husband's friends were judges attorneys doctors and tainisters No one stis- ’ V ' gMfrffigfe rrmvrrn ( meet-and-ch- pectedathing There is no reason for children to bathe nude with their parents We live in a society perme- ated with sexual lasciviousness Some people simply have no control after being inundated day after day with sexual thoughts and images nil dcdt UlLDCril i AND THEY WONT BE ALLOWED TO EAT OR SWALLOW THEIR OWN SALIVA sin-in- - - - awwjw ueep lea anuMWinncea ! at ARLO AND JANIS ' OtAttMntRfMfT Does grouch i ness have a cause? t By r Pater H Gott MD Newspaper Enterprise Association DEAR DR GOTT: Is there a medical condition that causes people to be grouchy when they are hungry? My is always in grouchy the morning son-in-la- checked put with appropriate medical interven- tion that includes blood tests On the other hand some healthy people do become irritable when they are hungry This is however no excuse to be unpleasant to others Thus I agree that your needs an attitude adjustment in addition to medical intervention Don’t let him play the “victim game” by claiming that he “inherited” the con- dition can’t control it and is justified in making everyone around him miserable This is nuts So what if he feels grouchy because his breakfast is late? Big deal Maybe he ought to 7 consider children inThird World nations who don’t get breakfast at all Part of growing up is learning to moderate and control one’s feel- needs to “chill out” and ings Your stop being so juvenile All he has to do is behave decently until he eatsThis doesn’t seem to me to be an insurmountable problem I think that your daughter would be a lot happier if she weren’t expected to put up with her husband’s moods — which I’ll bet he leamed from his father rather than inherited thorn She ' is enabling him son-in-la- w until after he eats breakfast He also gets grouchy later in the day unless he eats as soon as he is hungry Our daughter says he inherited this from his father arid since it is caused by a medical condition he can’t help it She feels we should ignore his belligerence and quick temper My wife and I believe he needs an attitude adjustment DEAR READER: Hypoglycemia is a rare medicaldisorder that causes faintness malaise and hunger that usually occur 2 to 3 hours after a meal While I doubt that this is your problem it should be - tremu-lousne- ss son-in-law- ’s ' v LIFE VA6 BETTER MCU (MOVED NIMUUUTC CgA'QUUtTUim: w UXOMUTb GRIZZWELLS w son-in-la- : ‘ Horoscope ZITS Yiwk IfflHAIWSrA Ai erasfldR IFlffTAOR KIPfiflrilfiEl? been quite fearful will turn out to be nothing By Bernice Bede Osol Association but a paper dragon: Newspaper Enterprise 7 VIRGO (Aug 22) — The formula that is required for success today must be comFor Tuesday April 6 2004 prised of an equal amount of elbow grease and Your birthday ' imagination 23) — Something in Do not be hesitant to t LIBRA (Sept which you’re presently involved may appear at take on an additional first glance to offer only sparse returns How- heavy responsibility in ever you’ll find it is bigger than you think the year ahead where SCORPIO (Oct 22) — You will your work er career is have two extremely powerful forces working concerned Big opportufor you today One will be celestial Lady Luck nities are iii the offing if but the other will be your earthy practicality hard afraid work not to you’re SAGITTARIUS (Nov ARIES (March 19) — Even if all 21) —A matter which was previously wrestled from your indicators signal that you seem to be luckier for others when all is said and done you're the grip can be reclaimed today through diligent effort on your part ohe who’ll come out the best in the end - CAPRICORN (Dec! TAURUS (April 19) —Associ20) — Under your ates who have clout will tend to be supportive management a venture in which you’re involved that has proven unfruitful could now today of causes or projects in which you’re interested if you first lead the way turn around into a prolific undertaking GEMINI (May 19) — Doors of 7 AQUARIUS (Jan 20) — Use your smarts as well as any little bit of opening you opportunity will swing wide open for you to drive through if you put your shoulder (0 the' spot when it comes tp your financial affairs' CANCER (June 22) — Once you set wheel 20-- You PISCES (Feb can your mind to something today you’ll be capadouble your effectivenes8 today if you’re will- ble of achieving outstanding accomplishments! LEO (JuIy 22) — Hold positive ing to work in tandem with another whose ' have A aims and interests parallel yours ' over matter which thoughis you may 23-Se- JT ' llN9a£CHt NnHAravun lea&mLZAf pt " thnk 23-O- ct ' : GARRELD 24-No- v! 23-D- ec 21-Ap- ril 22-J- 20-M-ay an : 2l-Ju- 20-F- : 21-Ju- eb ly ALLEY OOP ch 23-A- ug : ‘ Crossword April 6 2004 ' 23 Country adds ' key 24 Medibtion - 41 Gas burner ACROSS 1 London ' ' 42 Aromatic guides ' radio 4 Showery v-'7- ' 27 Sell out 7 Promo tape Everyone 7 31 Kind of muffin 12 Bard's : 32 Uncles and tragic king 7 cousins 14 Ogden locale -- 15 Recent 34 Serving of butter in combos ' Hunior 35 14 Touche ' 36 Gas main provoker 17 RH Munra 37 Hide out - (2 wdsj 18 Sweet 39 Like most ' 20 Indelible city land design 22 Milk amts’ 40 Computer s Ha-- n Ifi 1 u L— 53 Penny— 54 Dressy event 55 Byron work 56 Pre-own- 57 Mountain curve 58Wel(-know- DOWN 9 Type '' Pimle F 4wii- n unde VHIP1 IMVIAI AtHlAlBl 1 1 FRANK AND ERNEST cheer' - : Answvsf flo Pnwious - 50 Mideast VIP 52 Stadium 11 1 seed 30 'Tosca" high- - 45 Not there ' ' 49 Swindle light ma - ICIEIDDL SB IhIadqIa - bIaIs N K metermaid It may be - 41 Jug andcool-- 28 CompanHe 29 Ouch! 42 31 Moonshine 5 Prolific ' ' diarist '33 44 Quick letter 46 Psyche's ' -- Pawn:' 21 Memo v Chong- -' EE0BHD 27 2 Stnm8 cheese State 3 Block 13 Cheap tire 4 Tips off 19 Greenish 6 mnmsa of shark 8 Coupd'- -- '7 MtBeafty:’' 35 Fr miss' 24 Come unzipped '7 Maid' - at times abbr 47 rang sharply39 Striped YOU SHOULD VKffRYOURVAHD- - I TOLDYOU THCMlNPCRCfKLR AUD IT WWW ! illch 4$ The opposing items 381bgged v- Herr'swife liine periods beloVed 36 Stovetop ) 25Europe-Asi- a 26 Beatles' 43 THE BORN LOSER side Comic drip's ' C Daisy — 7 Cv s |