Show r i ' C2 — The Herald Journal Logan Otah Monday April 5 2004 nsmmz: I YN i " I extra-ordinar- io By Hector Mendtoln To help deal with feelings Continued from Cl tactic: “Pretend someone is in ‘ - you-- ” the chair that you want to talk to about the death" she said If parents must find their own comfort during grief their children seek it from their parents But not always in a direct way They don’t always communicate their fears aloud Two talked about the fearful thoughts they had after their fathers died Both worried that they themselves would die or their mothers might die leav- mg them to be raised by an I chased you up the apple tree and made you stay there dur- ing the hail storm” The cat dabbed her whiskers with her tail “I should never have put that hairball in your water bowl” she said Bea hugged Madge “I’m sorry I scared you with the rubber spider and curdled your milk” said Bea “It’s okay” said Madge “I’m sorry about putting the bubble gum in your tuba” Minnie blew her nose “This is too much Moo" she said “Let’s move on My eyes are getting red” Moo wiped the tears from her cheeks “You’re right” she said “These onions are getting too strong It’s time to move on” : Suddenly even Elvis began to cry He reached out toward the diickenk who woe still outside the gate “It wasn’t my fault!” he cried “The roosters at the Wilkersons’ farm were having a birthday party for Little 'Willie It was thdr fault I know 1 was supposed to be with you in the coop eggs All I wanted was a fun So I put op tiie lampshade and wore it like a dress I danced the hootchie-kootch- wards"' The student-counsel- : “ITWASMErshouted Hamlet’s uiKle Snort “I did it! I’m the X one who jumped into the mud puddle! I sat in it all day and didn’t share I’m so sony” he said wlthq sob Mort another uncle of Hamlet’s stared sadly “I’m sorry” he said wiping away a tear !‘I’m Sony 1 don’) have anything to be soriy abput” “I don’t know my times tables!” said Hamlet Mr Farmer’s dog threw a paw around an orange cat that was sniffling to itself at the edge of the garden “I apolo- gize” said the dog: ‘Tm sorry ’ Although the teen group thought in a more mature way some of their worries were similar to the younger children’s including a premature ' grasp of their own mortality One girl said “I worry about how and when I’m going to i h 0 M Cazet : ie women ' ce Her- be sad some of the time “I’ll do what I can but I know it won’t make her happy” she said “I can help with dinner or something sim- ple" The teens' topic to ponder and practice in die following week was communication The strategy for good interactions can serve as a model for any age: 1 Pick the right time 2 Know what you want whether listening only or help solving a proband 4 lem 3 Use for tiieir Express gratitude time with you four-poi- nt Family free Call IHC Hospice of Cache VUey at 7164349 P Text copyright (c) 2001 ‘Denys Illustrations copyright (c) 2001 Denys Cazet Reprinted by permission of Breakfast Spriais Inc Fora study guide to go with “Minnie and Moo in the The Sevan number of free-lanwriters whose columns appear from time to time ki the pages of The ald Journal afraid that “something bad" might happen after their parent’s death Hie group’s facilitator reminded them “If you have fears people often cover them up In die darkness they seem much bigger Talk about it with someone you trust” The teens too were taught to differentiate between problems they had control over and those they didn’t You don’t have control over how your parent feels or if they lose a job said a girl but you do if you did badly on a test because you didn’t study She talked about accepting that her mother was going to ter’” or The chickens rushed into the garden and began pecking Elvis They chased him out the gate “It wasn’t my fault!” Elvis shouted “What do you expect? Ouch! I’m a rooster! Ouch! Ouch!” The chickens pecked and clucked They chased EWis down the road and into Wilkerson’s Woods Minnie wiped a tear from hejr cheek “Those are some onions!” she cried “Bermuda onions” said MoO “The Bermuda Triangle What other mysteries does Mother Nature have in store for us? Why does — ” “Look!” cried Minnie “Hie chickens are coming back They look scared And time’s Elvis He’s running right behind them!” “Monster!” screamed Elvis “Run for your lives!” Next Week: The Mystery ' Spot ' ' U E M- NITY4 C f A M U l T l I Y I t U ' f o u'q'a-'- '' s‘ ' t c h 60 ' i s y tne worn goto: ov - wwwNnewscomminniamin- ntepdf ‘p o n s " ‘ T V ft K-illilS- V UTAIII752-307- 2 ADULTS SJOOT CHILDREN $200 Airh'aHey'l) lkxurg It Di'ii'uunt ? 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We aire enjoying the spring beginning a little cold but die good community keeps us busy ' One of these activities is the one that the Department of Disabilities at Utah State University will present It is the presentation of a multicultural event of the Messiah of Georg Friederich HMndel Georg Friedrich deliwas born the 24 of February of 1685 in Halle Germany From ' chilhood he showed evi- dence of musical despite those gifts SPllfK his father who was barber and surgeon of the court wanted him to study law At the age of 18 years in 1703 he traveled to Hamburg and he found a a job as violinist in the opera of Hamburg In those years he wrote his two fust operas “Almira” and “Nero" HMndel meanwhile did not stop composing opera composing 43 altogether maintaining in London an extraordinary opera musical atmosphere After George I Lhe four for the coronation composed huge hymns of George II that still are used in the solemn royal ceremonies In 1734 one season in the Covent Garden was inaugurated with die opera-ball“Terpsicore” At night from the 12 to the 13 of April he underwent a paralysis es ber-' Continued from I i MeSfas’ Come to hear 'Messiah’ -- et Serial ' Jj : 4' locales e int&prctes pan personas con prbble mas auditivos Escuche “Gloria a Dios" canta-d- o en espafiol El 16 y 17 de abril del 2004 presentacidn noctuma a las 7 pm en la sala de conciertos Kent Concert Hall en la Univer-sida- d del Estado de Utah La entnda es gratis Patrodnado por d Depaitamento de Desdr-denComunicativos y Educacidn pan sordos de Utah State University mientrastantonodejabadecomponerdpera “It always feels better after ' P Aix-Chape- lie compuso unas 43en total manteniendo en Londres un ambicnte musical operfstico Muerto George I compuso cuatro grandiosos himnos pan la coronacidn de George II que aun se utilizan en las solemnes ceremonias reales En 1734 inaugura una tern-porada en el Covent Garden con la dpera-ball“Terpsicore" En la noche del 12 al 13 de abril sufrid un ataque de par£lisissu empresa que-br-d y su estado general era deplorable Estaba afectado del costado derecho con el cerebro lesionado y con la mano derpcha paralizada Su burst" ' i f : V depresidn era tap grande que acosado por las deiidas y el sumnuento se negate acunrse al fin algunok dq sus amigos cpnsigiuenm man donde se darlo a la tennas de lecupeiti casi de milagro En 1741 escribid “El Mesias” una de las ohms mpestras de la mtisi- ca Coral durante uno de sus periodos de mania En 1750 Handel comenzd a perder lavisidn hasta que qtiedo total- mente ciego en 1751 Su miieite se prodqjo el 14 de abril de 1759 siendo enterrado en la Abadfa de Westminster Venga a escuchar y bervar pi “Aleluya” y otros corps famosos COUJnil Foil Estamos' disfrutando el inicio de la primavera con un poco de frfo pcro la buena comunidad nos'mantiene bien ociipados! Una de estas actividades es la que prcsentarii el Depart men to de Discapacidades de la Universidad del Estado de Utah Es la presentacidn de uneven- to multicultural del Meslasde Georg' ' FriederiCh Haendel Georg Friedrich HSndel nacid el 24 de febrerh de 1685 en Halle Afemania Desde pequefio dio muestras de poseer facultades musicales no obstante esas dotes su padre que erbarbero y cinijano de la corte pensaba destinarlo al estudia de Derecho A la edad de 18 aftos en 1703 viajd a Hambqrgo y encontnS un trabajo cdmoyiolinista en la dpem de Ham- ' buigo En esos aflos HMndel escrib sus dos primeras 6peraS “Almira" y “Nero" HMndel ' : i i For H4ctor Mendlole than comparing it to some idea of normality She described being “blindsided by grief" perhaps in a supermarket w in the car Many in die group said they had experienced a sudden overwhelming rush of sadness which showed no respect for appropriate place or time Some said they sought a private place but others said they could not contain their “grief ' ’ r rV a escuchar Venga f ! t V: ' ' 1 ' SMITH journal I CONVENIENTLY AVAILABLE ATTHt THE BOOK IS PRICED JUST RIGHT AT 12995 7 HERALD JOy INAL- H ASTINGS A THE EOOK TABLE YOUR COST INCLUDING SHIFTING IS ONLY 1)395 THE IOOK II ALSO NOW AVAILABLE ONUNE AT HJNEWSCOM CAU ANGIE AT THE HERALD XTURNAL FOE COMPLETE INFORMATION AT 792-729- 2 ' -- |