Show C4 — The Herald Journal Logan Utah Tuesday April 22 2003 FOR BETTER OR WORSE Sis wants to break confidence By Kathy Mitchall ft Mary Creators Syndicate Inc umwAsowMA rpsfwsMmiPWHcwV “iFHEND&ADMrTUzJ HWJ COPTS PUUmtCH MMN6 HE COULD M WOWONO AMSMueen J we invited both moms to stay in oiur apartment My boyfriend and I would sleep on separate Sugar ONIHe man They are planning to get married this summer In addition to the age difference they also are not the same religion Tiffany trusts me and has told me everything I feel she is making a ' big mistake but I'm not sure what to do If I tell anyone I would be betraying Tiffany’s confidence: But if I don’t speak up she could be ruining her life I have tried talking to her but she won’t listen to me I think Tiffany is way too young for this guy What should I do ' — Worried Sister in Texas DEAR SISTER: You need to tell your par-ents about Tiffany’s pans Sometimes you have to betray a confidence in order to save someone from harm No decent man would be involved with a 1 girl much less many her Tiffany might be angry with you but she will get over it She might even be relieved This is no time to be keeping secrets Your sister needs your protection DEAR ANNIE: My boyfriend and I moved in together last June We plan to marry when we graduate college next year Our university has an annual Mother’s Weekend and our mothers have attended in the past This year ' MMV Gr SriOUlO I m mnonon a HAVE My boyfriend’s mom is fine with the arrangement but my mother is not She refuses to stay here if my boyfriend is in the apartment She says his mere presence makes her uncomfortable Annie this place is just as much his as it is mine He is unwilling to leave especially since his mother will be staying with us I understand Mom’s objection but why did die have to wait until a month before the event to announce thpt it was unacceptable? Because it's so late thole are no nearby hotel accommodations left yet she expects me to find her a room She knows the hotels book up six months before Mother’s Weekend I say since she waited so long she should find her own accommodations She says my “situation” is the reason she has to go elsewhere so it’s up to me to take care of the ' arrangements Regardless hotel space is not going to magically appear How do we resolve this? — Washington Student DEAR STUDENT: Try to make a reserva- tion at a hotel farther away from campus where rooms are more likely to be available If you have a car offer to pick Mom up for the 60MB-VJHSKS-SO eeunoMfiMnwr sofas' DEAR ANNIE: I’m writing about my sistfcr ‘Tiffany” She is 17 years old and dating a fueeikAcriMNA (drevt VUAM A CHMC? DILBERT WALLY ITA SENDING YOU TO A COFFEE REHAB PROGRAM GABA! THEY'LL GET YOU DOWN TO FORTY CUPS A DAY ! NOT DOUBLE DIGITS! 1 1 ' weekend events Obviously it would have been helpful had she made her decision earlier but there’s no point stewing over it now Do the best you can and let her know you have made the effort If nothing turns up so be it And make next year’s reservations now Your mother will appreciate it and she can always cancel ARLOANDJANIS Physical training benefits the heart By Peter H Gott MD Newspaper Enterprise Association relax and enjoy your running If on the other hand your doctor is con- cemed he may choose to investigate you further with a stress test or a Holter monitor a method of recording your heartbeat for a period Back in the 1960s I was privileged to be able to write a paper concerning an oarsman who had an Olympic single-sculenlarged slowly beating heart and a slightly abnormal cardiogram Extensive testing revealed that this man’s heart was actually he had a condition that my colleagues and I termed the “athletic heart syndrome” — physiological changes in his cardiovascular system that were the direct normal consequence of intensive and pro-longed training Check with your doctor but I believe that your heart is probably in good shape DEAR DR GOTT: I am a longdistance runner with a resting pulse of 40 to 50 beats a minute and occa- sional extra heartbeats Myechocarditigram is normal Should I worry? DEAR READER: In my opinion no Well-trainathletes commonly have resting pulses in the range This is considered a normal adaptation to physical activity If your physician has pronounced you fit and you do not experience exercise-induce- d chest pain or unusual breathlessness you can GRIZZWELLS 24-ho- ur ls super-norm- al ed 40-to-- ZITS Horoscope By Bernice Bede Osol ' Newspaper Enterprise Association infuse new life in a situation that up until now you have been attempting on your own LIBRA Sept 23) — Be on the lookout today for a new development initiated by another that could help supplement your earnings v SCORPIO (Oct 22) — There’s a strong possibility that today you could meet someone forming what will turn out to be a dynamic new relationship SAGITTARIUS (Nov ?1 j — Due to an unexpected shift in circumstances that takes place today you may very wisely now reverse your position on something about which you had been unrelenting n CAPRICORN (Dec 19) Try not to get yourself locked in on any ideas or plans today that would tie you down too far in 23-O- ct For Tuesday April 22 2003 Your birthday The best laid plans won’t slop you front suddenly veering off in a new direction when something very opportune and unexpected happens in the year ahead TAURUS (April 20) — Today’s life is consocial where development your cerned could he construed as a new beginning of an important course GEMINI (May 21 -- June 20) — With the end ' in sight regarding an objective you've been quite anxious to attain it’ll prove as of today that your diligence and patience have paid off CANCER (June 21 -- July 22) — ticularly good day to initiate or launch a new enterprise The knowledge you’ve acquired will prove to be extremely valuable LEO (July 22) — Events that take he could responsible for raising place today where Career goals are consights your your 20-M- 23-A- cerned VIRGO (Aug 22) — Teaming up with the right type of partner today could 23-Sc- pt 24-No- 23-D- ec GARFIELD 22-Ja- advance b 19) — Operate in AQUARIUS (Jan the realm of finances or material acquisition today — this could be ah exceptionally rewarding day for you once involved PISCES (Feb 20) — The course of action you've been following for some time may suddenly take a new turn today putting you on a far more exciting path than the one you had been following ARIES (March 21 -- April 19) —An individual who is presently under some obligation to you may surprisingly wipe the slate clean 20-Fe- ch ALLEY OOP I'M BOMV ut OKAS-b- cv'eTWNfi't’ act creszv Crossword B April 22 2003 ACROSS 23 1 - 4 Differing from the usual fridge Moon in verse Takes a Urge breather Overeat quantity' (2 7 "Golly!" 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