Show ! JI 'S i- -' - A ' C6— The Herald Journal Logan Utah Thursday April 10 2003 repressed! YeeimireellDDDg By Kathy Mitchell A Matey Sugar Creators Syndicate Inc : DEAR ANNIE: I am a gill and would like to have the same privileges as my girlfriends My two best friends have been dating their boyfriends for about six months Their parents let them have d sleepovers I have been dating my boyfriend “Jeff” for almost three years but my parents won’t allow him to sleep over In fact they will not let me stay overnight at any of my friends’ houses because they are afraid of what might happen if ' the boys visit I have never done anything untrustworthy and don’t plan to start How can I get my folks to ease up? — Stuck at Home in Connecticut DEAR STUCK: Sony but teenage sleepovers are not a good idea You may be totally trustworthy but hormones and opportunity can create a situation that is difficult to control If the parents are home and supervu- ing very closely group sleepovers can be managed biut we do not recommend asking for trouble DEAR ANNIE: I am a single woman and co-e- co-e- d FOR BETTER OR WORSE t i’ant rfl duft ir fy-- ‘Mamdreaoo'iNinp' ATM four months ago I met a great guy “Ralph” is hardworking attentive loving and everything I want in a manThe problem is Ralph is married to someone else and has been for 15 years They have two children whom he adores but his wife is a lousy housekeeper and she is not attentive to his needs He tells me thpy fight a lot In the short time we have been seeing each other we have become intimate only three times This makes me realize that he’s not in it for the sex I tried to break things off with him but Ralph finally told me he loves me I love him too I have fallen for Ralph hook line and sinker and have decided to see it through regardless of what happens Ralph is the only piece of happiness I have ' right now My mind says one thing but my I heart says something else am so confused Am I doing the right thing? — Looking for Love in die Wrong Places DEAR LOOKING: No honey you’re not Even if Ralph is idling you the truth about his wife it is wrong for him tocheat which means it is wrong for you to be available to him If he no longer wants to be married he should get a divorce Until then however steer clear A relationship with a married man can destroy your selfesteem and bring you a lot of pain It’s not worth it GILBERT IF ASOKAS MYNELd BODY DOUBLE YOUR JOB IS TO UALK INTO AMBUSHES SOMEONE TRIES TO TRAP YOU INTO BEING HELPFUL DO LdHAT I UOULD ID GET A BODY DOUBLE DO i ARLO AND JANIS wraGowBwffiHiv umitKeuBBUb MAC Off Neurological symptoms need Specialist TIAs are treatable An aspirin tablet a day Peter H Gott MD Newspaper Enterprise Association By - DEAR DR GOTO I’m female age SS and suffered extensive left brain damage many years ago in an auto accident Doe to emotional stress at work I’ve begun having attacks that my doctor calls TLAs or small strokes During these episodes I'm unable to talk There is no weakness headache or other symptom indicative of a stroke What is your opinion? DEAR READER: Transient ischemic attacks (temporary strokes) are not caused by stress They are the result of tiny blood clots that break off from the roughened lining of arteries and are carried to the brain where they produce d neurological malfunctions such as weakness confusion and difficulty speaking short-live- will sufficiently retard blood coagulation so that small clots are less likely to form and cause symptoms Other medication such as heparin and warfarin can be used in more advanced cases Finally an operation called endarterectomy to ream out deposits in a diseased artery may be necessary Your case is complicated by the fact that you experienced a severe brain injury during your accident I do not know what role this event has played in causing your present symptoms In my opinion you need to be examined by a nt neurologist Ask your doctor to refer you The specialist will very likely order imaging studies such as an MRI of the brain to assess the degree of damage and recommend therapy I am particularly concerned because based on the sparse information you supplied you may be on the verge of suffering a more disabling and permanent stroke unless something is done right awayInsist on a neurological GRIZZWELLS VlARfeEHTT WAfctJU 5PBCA flC? sU ZITS Horoscope IBXKPHCEIPINS By Bomlce Bade Osol Newspaper Enterprise Association LEO g 22) — Don’t stand idly someone fumble 9 job you know by watching how to do well This person will welcome die assistance from an experienced worker VIRGO (Aug 22) — Tins might not be the day to rock the boat on matters that are running smoothly even if you think you have a better way of doing something LIBRA (Sept 23-O23) — Continue to hold positive thoughts today because there are some strong indications that your optimism will be justified at this time SCORPIO (Oct 24-N22) — Your will to succeed is apt to be a lot stronger than that of your associates so it might be best today to handle the challenging aspects of an assignment yourself instead of delegating them SAGITTARIUS (Nov 23-D21) — Conditions in general look promising for you today especially in situations where you are putting your head together with associates who have the same objectives in mind as you do n CAPRICORN (Dec 19) — Count on the business acumen of a trusted associate today instead of depending solely on your own impressions AQUARIUS (Jan 20-Fe-b 19) — Find a posture today by being neither too assertive nor too laidback when dealing with others PISCES (Feb 20) — Personal ambitions can be advanced today provided you go about them in a methodical fashion Then lead by example by rolling up your sleeves (July-23-Au- For Thursday April 10 2003 Your birthday Your possibilities for advancement in your chosen field of endeavor look extremely encouraging for you in the year ahead Someone you meet socially who works in your field may show you how to rise above your peas ARIES (March 19) — to feel your sbcial some need best today you might involvement with friends or family’ Don’t neglect your work TAURUS (April 20) — Don't wait until the end of the week to complete several matters that have been hanging in the fire The sooner you get them out of die way the more time you'll have left for personal matters GEMINI (May 21 June 20) — Concepts you conceive today have good chances of bong put into action because of the innate gift you have to convince others about what you believe and of your ability to get things rolling CANCER (June 21 July 22) — Today you are likely tobe both generous and wise in utilizing your resources You’re apt to spend for tilings you enjoy but also provide for the necessities of the family 21-Ap- ril 20-M- ay -- -- IHNCNGABOTGHTlNff jm&mtsms IWfHflfrWJW f ifcRMWt&te mvv pwfthbwsn o BBamamm wwstvsoc? 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