Show J' j K Y‘ V ' '4 'V ' The Herald Journal Logan Utah Saturday April 29 2000 Page 17 FOR BETTER OR WORSE MOM? " ’ 8 Visit your doctor You may experience a - - DEAR ANN LANDERS: A young college vcrved was her freshman raped during two football players and year by : has recently taken her case to ' the US Supreme Court making it the first of its kind to be heard by the highest court in our country r Please print my letter to help women fight sex discrimination and sexual harassment The A°encM Anocium oI Uamntty lOpwon you expencnce tex discniunahon 7 Maca& lift “ "Si Up - a SONO SMS UN MOM I MAPS UP MDUT OMCWy suEnyoopy HMByiMTtftiniil!’ whom Mbu fm$ ura sons IT SMOWPLWr SPIRIT at School i eMMttiTAfanvMyt OCT A SUNCH OP FRUMPS U ' UPMNCseAPnftlN6 UlP OONMHy-irSMO- not MAKS PSOPIS AM' IHey WANNA PUNCH esnw'y ms our : VOUR ASSIGNhENT IS PAINFULLY DIFFICULT AND PROBABLY c UNNECESSARY 10 hou? Hery coua- to help 10 women' center or dean and about the grievance procedures at your univer-DEAR ANN: 1 wrote this poem while lunch- v sity ' ‘t coffee drinkos 1 pre- I?® :£- 2 Put it b writing Keep a record of what has ' c®s5Prm Hv: Natalie Brannian dates times and placei J happened inclu 1 Do your homwrorkFbr more imormationVV-r: ' BRANNIAN: For me cof DEAR on your rights call the Equal Employment J6® dtbroakfast is a must but tea is preferred Commission hot line at Opportunity for afternoon Here s your poem: Tea Drinker s VV-4000 4 Avoid loose lips While the desire to talk 7 ' about your case is understandable be careful ' Won t somebody please take pity on me F°r in restaurant 1 order hot tea V what you say The threat of a countersuit for My friends who drink coffee are all filled defamation is real and could be costly vVV 5 Get legal advice Thlk to an attorney who with glee ' :i has but no seconds for specific experience with sex discrimination K Their cups are kept full me in the academic environment V: '7 777 6 Act quickly There is a statute of limits- - iWith coffee in hand the waitress walks fast tions on filing complaints so seek legal advice f l try to say “Please" but she’s already as soon as possibteNv' v" 7 passed 77: 7-- 7r 1 feel I’m V 7 Going to court can be expensive Talk to an neglected rejected and gee 7 attorney or accountant about the financial con- -' TpArg those who drink coffee any better than sideranoos of a lawsuit--y7y'::v 'tne? 1 ICM46TM Pwy'wJiip- VKXJPFlOMEftV physical or emotional toll that should be addressed and documented 9 Prepare for the long hauL Filing a discrimi-nation or harassment lawsuit can take a long time but others have succeeded in fighting discrimination and you can too 10 Find a support network The American Association of University Women Legal Advocacy Fund can connect you with women who have gone through similar experiences AAUW can also refer you to an attorney who special- ires in sex discrimination cases For information call Thank you Ann for all your help — Sylvia Newman President American Association of Women Lepl Adraacy Fund dear'syLVIA NEWMAN: And I thank you ft your generoua advice and aU the valu- - J UCttKAPAll - - -- r v - t'S:'"V' ARLOANDJANISo 1 I rwouoeemstMott uMKarsnnni)6Ai - - - Til)SUM-IOKHOO- O 7S-JSKTI- W w V‘-- Blues may deepen on anniversary r By Peter H Gott MD grizzwells f and strength of the emotional investment 'we v have in them Vgt Patients with emotional disorders such as ! DEAR DR GOTT: 1 yours are sometimes affected too greatly by suffer from bipolar anniversaries An important event far from mood disorder: Some-? becoming dim with time may seem to take on a times I’m happy often life of its own it may become increasingly' I’m sad My “down influential even though it is merely a date on hi limes” seem to occur on the calendar To the extent that such people anniversaries of porticu- focus on anniversaries to the detriment of their '' larly emotional times in lives and emotional outlook therapy may be my life Please discuss necessary As you know obsessive behavior in the “anniversary reac-tk'n any context is abnormal occur do in reactions Anmversary frequently DEAR READER: Anniversaries are an who people many eyenthose important part of our cultural milieu and are In "V reactions must be often very influential Most of us accept the behavioral malfunction other treated f with anniversaries inevitability of varying on their seriousness We enthusiasm tend depending tff deference and y degrees certain times --"such as Christ--? rlf your anniversary reaction is a debilitating fVitobehappr'at v' ataa birthdays and wedding anniversaries and problem for you 1 advise you to ask your fami- sad at other memorable times such as the Jy physician for al referral to an appropriated " ' ' ' anniversary of the death of a loved one or a mental health resource On the other hand if puMic figure Such anniversaries mean more V you are already m therapy you should discuss :xV or less - to each of us depending on die type this issue with your psychiatrist V o ' ?’: S' ?' y WW1’ 5- : WWT5TW& Newspaper Enterprise Association AfbUT AH : - m Jv 'j-''''’-- ' 7 - appear-well-'-'ZIT- vv---- Ysireh - s y r'y f " - y-'- p-- r'- -' - : -- : Jk" Horoscope ' By Bemico Bede Osol Newspaper Enterprise Association rVn For Sunday April 30 2000 vjy In the year ahead you’re likely to find v 24-N- yourself with more ini- tiative and courage than usual But it will enable to your liking y TAURUS (April 20) That new pro- in which you just got yourself into is ject deserving of your full time and attention Put forth the necessary effort to bring it to fruition GEMINI (May 21 June 20) If you need a favor from someone this might be the day to request the aid In general people are upbeat and ready to go to bat for those they like 7 CANCER (June 21 July 22) Knowledge you recently acquired can be put to good uses today This fresh ammo will assure a more rapid untangling of the problem LEO (July 22) Instead of taking a back seat today go for the gold when it comes to competitive elements or situations Your fight and determination will surface as needed VIRGO (Aug 22) Armed with the 20-Ma- ’ -- -- 23-A- ug 23-Se- W ' - qv : moire - k sfc:- 'A 23-D- ec you to make changes 1 Dnei IcLP la Anr 23-0- 5 s' Your birthday 7 right partner today you and your counterpart sluNild do quite well in iany undertaking you tackle together You’ll compliment each other 1 LIBRA (Sept 23) A situation not of own making occupy your time might your today However once you get going on it you'll work things out to your satisfaction d : SCORPIO (Oct 22) Chances are some friends or acquaintance will be sharing a lot of your time today engaging in activities that might be more physical than mental SAGITTARIUS (Nov 21) Working on projects for the home today will not only save you a bunch of money they’ll beautify the space in which you dwell n CAPRICORN (Dec 19) You might have to use bolder tactics than usual in order to further a personal ambition but it should be successful as long as you don’t get out of line b 19) Give financial AQUARIUS (Jan arrangements top priority today when it comes to handling the budget You can find ways to make or save more than you might realize PISCES (Feb 20) If things are happening fast enough to suit you today don’t sit around waiting for what you want to come to you Take direct action yourself ARIES (March 19) Search deep Within you today for the tools it takes to achieve your aims You already possess all the talent needed to improve your position in life pt 22-Ja- : ALLEY OOP 20-Fe- we I WANTS SOUOW VI NDUt SON ICS A ww7 Liras wmls if I AM NT VOU 20-Mar- ch MATTA id nr SSRWCB' MW is nr you 60 CA&ae U ' 21-Ap- ril Crossword April 29 2000 ACROSS 1 Vibration 7 Audition 13 Bacterium 14 Army order ttwdsj 15 Bowling tai uftanT 17 Chicago trains IS Scooby — M D C VIP 21 Like operat- 25 Ingioo —and JROBE ADORNED H E E " LED e:pji SulUvan 28 Ride a bike 52 Fraitofthe 54 Taunts 55 Shaped like a oak' 53 Writer Jong 34 La- s35 Like some chain 34 Wash away 37 Eloquent : SohmgT 44— Ham- - ' mankjold ANJ AlilJUjS P E B B L E OAS I HS TTQs EtL4Csn i s!auRsJ N STO P a Ki I NW3N Ol0)N(0T ITJWU MEnALjA RUACL D'ODJUR ' OJ EOOT'A E LAY a4lmqndS aIsseItH L QM IGjilATTrls Iji s : ' DOWN fo- -t 5 Seabirds 4 Use a cleaning tool 5 Oriental sash 4 Provide (assitance) 7 Sect's card THE BORN LOSER "oADYb I I Mapabbr by friction 22 Felt tC WKY WHMCVtRlT fOUCffCW tb I SOCRYtR-CM- C APOLOWatTD FOROW 30 Maple gens 31 Witeotalo 37 One—— 9 Deep yearning 10 Hone food II Plaintiff 19 Choose 21 Wear down WV5AYCO WOULD TCU Jacob NYDUDtD1 45 Author llarte 44 location 47 Citric drinks 49 Neighbor of Can 27 Cmwwto 41 Stuffing piece 42 River Martin's 50 Maks 52 Ncvce-thcks53 Bikini part s in Belgian I eMuosis YOU ENOW absentee 1 British 45 Youth org 48 Take for 1QR MNT - - Wisconsin 41 At$rwnUTSH- cigar 54 Certain 57 Wyoming anid ' speech 39 Building FRANK AND ERNEST vauted SlCraeabrecd I - fv |