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Hot Springs Ait: I ssWS the latter and braced ourselves to accept the u in'($ years old and have with five differ whatever enf women My wife is a courage than I thought fine person but thanks to We were pishes strict idigious upbring- (ben were not After had found so touch happinera with one another i lad our firmly she cut me off complrtcly I do darling passed awayiftrnonlhs ago and! My " stould be Perish worth it to lead a celibate life so of course I Vteuwne we?: mcrauMomffne a iI orEm'awvcecNCPflN IUH pbaOWNT i M!rhwtsaioN'BtmM! aeHooLT&DoHis-rr- s OURFrtTNEN HUIMz L'toom whb i0a&7l Mont fr ' 1 M conse-J-quenc- ‘“stred” es P"®00 ositivelyYKIC SD: My fears happened " Rapid City snrerised that so many women found me Mnctive simple cqrianatton for my decision to sedt outside companionship FREEDOM PONUTST 10 U? yes with everyfiber of my$ wuc deserved better than Ok pain iindl ta Do I regret 2? 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Na They were the lupiest times of nqr life' appeals to him?“ ViS? mam K "'if a r: vv-- j as ARLO AND JANIS W$M vs 1 fl: : K ld j Relieving the nursing hbme correct: Nothing curei a cold NonetheIess tlie syntoms can be relieved DEAR DR GOTT For yean I lave used Ube By Peter H God MD Newspaper Enterprise Association wlWiCbWlOPHXOIII n 1 HD1 TAKT T3 i IQ berries nature’s antibiotic to cure infectious Wlmt v " do you think of this? J DEAR READER: Not much I’m afraid Mo L infectks heal on their owa sooper or latet While antibiotics can apeed iq the healing process)! am J unaware of any medical studies proving thst Mue berries exert u significant effiect If 4' because they claim die only medication for colds is rest bowl fine blueberries a But of I you eiqoy suggest and fluids Since all he does that you use prescription antibiotics for any arnoua v-is rest is diere anything dse bacterial infecrion he can do? DEARDR GOTT My cphdlalmdogist refuses ctearact surgery He DEAR READER: Colds are caused by viruses to perform lou that are usually spread by dose personal contact says they are very dangerous if ajpost-opeiati- ve f£ClV & MCElv This is the reason that such infectxms we epidemac problem developf Yet many my friends are hay in schools nursing homes and other institutions ing this operatioa Are they at risk? ASK ML where people live dose together A cure for the DEAR READER: Mott ophthalmologists pets kmnrDMEs-Rwupicommon odd is dusive However there are many Jbriq laaihqdaatr fat tataracta Ih4capable hands remetfies to help praple cope with the aUmenLAsk v die proce&ue iilsafg arid dfijdjvj3four doctor hsafe tf your husband's doctor to consider ordering a decon- - every right to refuse to perform sucfa surgery but 1 B r gestantantihistamme preparation and cough med- - believe that he is being overly cautiousvlAsk for a ication when your husband is ilL The nurses are retard to an eye spetiaEat DEAR DR GOTT My husband has been in a nursing home for almost a year and he has had four or five colds The nurses refuse to medications prescribe - anti-microb-ial uiiywym d i mJ r a AiataF "jy t1' gRljQy TA V I” IV J jv Horoscope By Bernice Bede Oaol today Maintain your persistence if you want to erase conflict from your life PISCES (Feb 20) Your perceptiveness and aided faculties are two of your major assets today However be rare to udEze thou in a post dve constructive manner ARIES (March 19) You have a deep Newspaper Enterpriae Association 20-Mar- For Tuesday Oct 6 1998 Your birthday Innately you are a natural born leader Use these gilts In die coming year strive to foin-’- - GEMINI (Mr Inna resolve is your- - 20) 21-Ju- ne utt “ lize it unless youtoBcmevayoaiM feel circumstancei have tipeeztd &’£ ov an - b 19) Resolutions to a AQUARIUS (Jan problem that has vexed you for awhile will be found 20-Fe- mt isl y CANCER (June 22) Someone who likes ' i about skeptical your affections for him or hcr ALLEY y®” Today yon might hsVe an opportunity to prove your i cor nf POtea how ME MOy loyalty and show drat you can be relied upon when die chips are down LEO (July 23-A22) Those Who observe you today wiU see you have whd it fakes to be a winner However you might find this hard to believe Dis v miss doubts from your thoughts rj ''Z: VIRGO (Aug pt 22) b's imperative todiy the ides diat diere is a solution to you have faith 2i-Jul- ACROSS 13 Fomer Ramtaanltr 27Aqaatk Epkpi auaaub UCoran 2f Oeraptada ni brack 15 Cntaiaabraat SIDiac : r 5 32 Malaga I 4 “ (ntaliatioal 37 SST ruara de— k every problem The answers you seek can be resolved if you believe rv V V - v : FRANK AND 4S Cong Brat-2- 9 1 ? 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