Show g7-- - irrr- -- : V'WW'A V 'r’s® ?r-y- MrfTgii— - v- r-- iiii)ini't n '' root Opinion 15 Crossword 16 ody m xly 13 The Herald Journal Logan Utah Wednesday October 30 1996 dr cdy m dr m cdy dr dr cdy m m cdy cdy m m cdy cdy dr cdy Striking a balance may take sacrifice (A weekly questionanswer column ) MOW CAN I BALANCE MY WORK AND FAMILY LIFE? Answer by: Glen Jenson Utah State University Extension family and human development specialist Americans arc spending an increasing amount of lime at work and less time on leisure activities Families arc eating fewer meals together American families have both or the only parent employed outside the home now more than ever and when both parents work less time is spent inlcricting with children spouses and on domestic chores These factors all add up to the need to find a comfortable bal- between ance careers and personal and family lives Consider these suggestions: ican all Be willing to make changes in Mice cm in airt ime sing iton DUt- - on tch in last lore fiilc oth Jcal cks aid cen ack and not your schedule work or commitment at home and at work If you are married work to maintain the marriage relationship at a high level of satisfaction for both partners Reading talking attending seminars spend- ing time together and learning from others are excellent ways to improve a marriage Examine the career path you are choosing to take and modify if it doesn’t fit your goal of balance between work and family Examine your expectations for standard of living as well as what things arc most important to you and redefine your goals if necessary Reallocate the domestic work load and if it becomes necessary lower your features writer someone else Work to improve time management stress management and crisis management skills Seek to have good feelings of self-worPractice sound health and fitness principles and be involved in providing meaningful service to others vacant and vandalized attracting who knows what vagrants Hopefully these guests had checked out before noon when the final break-i- n occurred this one by the backhoe On behalf of the property’s new owners Zion's Bank Nyman was satisfied that they had So imagine his alarm when as the house collapsed the Polaroid picture in expectations Evaluate the domestic duties you can hire out or delegate to th for els to the be tu- bk- - es he n led ad ent hat re in als he to MOW CAN I IMPROVE MY MEMORY SKILLS AS 1 STUDY? Answer by: Terry Tcigclcr Utah State strange in the center The picture By Mike Ingraham rent Nyman had been up early Aug 14 going through the old place at 1205 S Main Provi-dcnc- c before it gave up the ghost The house had been his right hand showed something Nyman got was not the picture he took lie stared at the intruder in the photo “What’s that?” he asked and has been asking ever since Backhoe operator Claire Hibbard was working alone just yards away from Ihe figure but hadn’t seen a thing Nor had two other witnesses Joyce and Julie Wattcrson But the Wattcrsons didn’t need to sec One look and they knew what or rather who was in the picture “It’s him!" Julie said “Oh good they’ve finally got a picture of our Haunts” said Joyce They were happy Nyman was not He remembered that he had not covered the cellar during his sweep through the house Hib- bard imme-- d i University Extension director Ogden Education Center for Graduate Studies There are two ways to memorize: by role (mechanically) and by understanding Multiplication tables and telephone numbers arc learned by rote Ideas concepts and theories are best learned by understanding Never be satisfied with a hay idea of what you are reading If you are not able to follow the thought review the reading Relate new ideas to your current knowledge Survey the reading When studying break the material into parts but keep the w hole in mind Experiments indicate that a quick survey of the material headings and summaries before reading gives an orientation which increases retention Rapid forgetting which is common after a reading session (up to 60 percent) can be significantly reduced by spaced verbal or written reciting of the material Reciting can take place as you read each section or paragraph and should be in your own words Read aloud passages you find difficult Make up illustrations of the material you've studied Your own examples will be easier to remember at exam time Flash cards are useful when studying languages Outline a chapter or lecture and till in key words concepts or write in examples As you write the material you will know immediately whether you have learned the information Rex iew information immediately The best rex iew time is soon after learning has taken place The beginning and the end ot material studied is the best remembered so pay close attention to ibe middle as you study Rcvievx the material to refresh your memory before going to bid unless you are physically or menially overtired freshly learned information is better remembered after a period of sleep than after an equal period of daxlime aclixitx 2"r1 cG'uTn lop'C Quett'ons to Julenc man Sta’e rest l:T P4322 050C Phone Extension Umve-s"T- y Juieoe'-(d'e- 797-142- usu edu fa Logan 797-r?5- a t c I y combed the wreckage and nothing return to the site for days afterwards picking through (he remains just in case “We found nothing but an orange hard-ha- l" The figure in the photo “could have been an article of clothing a scarf a jacket a Photos courtesy of Brent Nyman shirt that could have picture in her kitchen and theie in the fallen in a strategic way around the photo was a child with a blanket She jagged edge of a wall or something" was scared She hated that picture but Nyman said “But I can't explain what we couldn't tell her how it happcneJ" it is” Nor can Polaroid which has yet to interesting examine the photo firsthand From appeared certainly not L) ' a-T- - v ' $ i f 3 A i ’ R Hait EvancTThe Herald Journal or bones flesh Still Nyman was nervous enough haunted you might say to Boston a technician said that it could be double exposure or a defective film But both seemed unlikely since this was just the second photo on the film and the others were untroubled “We have photos which are impossible to figure” said Vicki Russo “One woman had lost her hahv She took a FT Nyman is careful not to express an opinion on his photo saying only dial “it looks even more like an individual through the magnifying glass so I don't know what it is” He permits himself a joke oi (wo about how safe the spook will make Zion when the branch opens in a year or so But he takes seriouslx lire bank's See H U NTS I: By Bruce Hilton Scripps Howard News A year or so before the first fertilization successful a ethicist and he visiting (IVF) were able to predict some of the problems He sympathized with the couples who ached for a child Helping them was the reason ro Who should pay for the test-tubabies? Childless couples have been pressing insurance companies to pay the costs of high-tec- h fertilmeasures like test-tub- e ization Some of the companies pay But the rest argue it costs tix) much helps only a few and increases the premiums for all the rest It's the latest wrinkle in a debate that began 20 years ago in England when Cambridge be researcher RG Edwards learned how to fertilize women's ox a or eggs with men's sperm in a laboratory dish “When I began i had no idea just how much trouble I was stirring up” he once told me “When I started getting hate mail from all over the world I began looking around for an ethics committee” Edwards had started the research But there were still ethical questions: Many would consider this form of reproduction unnatural Did he have any right to proceed? Is infertility a disease? Should it be healed at any cost? Is there a right to have children? Can we juslify the effort in a world already bulging at the scams? If he w ere successful w ho should have access? Only those w ho can afford it? Oi did justice require that it be available to all who need it regardless of bank account? If IVT were used to make a “surrogate mother” pregnant what would be the legal ties between the participants? What if Ihe birth mother refuses to gix c up the child? If six ova are fertilized and only two used is it OK to discard the leftovers? Or are these human beings and is that murder? If it is all right for a woman to be a surrogate mother as a favor for a sister would it be all right for another woman to do it tor money? Most of the problems wc didn't foresee in those discussions in Cambridge involved the foundation of US health care: money Wc didn't foresee the scandal in which a doctor is charged w ith selling the leftover fertilized ova Wc didn't imagine the divorced couple suing each other for custody of frozen embryos the size of a pinhead Who would have guessed that the technology would gaggle of who matched up childless couples wilh surrospawn a gates — and pocketed a fee as h big as the surrogate's compensation? Who would have guessed so many expensive fertility clinics would spring up so early or that so many would fail because the technology wasn't nine-mont- ready ? Now the technology has matured and mosi of the surh viving clinics are places But who could have guessed they would be caught in a trade war competing tor clients the w ay Macy 's used to fight GimbeTs? On the Internet even Dial up http: www pfmccom and you'll sec how today's market iorecs make it necessary for even the best clinics to go out and push their wares “If you arc struggling with infertility yoc wan more than hope” Pacific fertility Cen top-notc- m & on Page 22 ter's web page Kgins " Vm want what every one civ v i ins a baby to low ' to have You can click to pages i'iut the reasons for infertility Impi antibodies to blocked tubes Click again loi "How Icsiicu-la- r Biopsy Helps Men Become fathers" Or Breakthroughs in IVF Surrogacy The competitive cdei begins to show when you click on “success rates" and "the difference between neat PFC and other centers and understand PIC "s commitment to honest reporting of success rales ' (Their rates we arc are audited bv : he firm of Arthur Anders n II I' i An example of ingerit' in a cost-cuttin- “shi'cJ c 'iior-- option” One donor in i p'lKedurc can pros ide eva to implant in iwo or :: ec irfertiie women PI ( ge is 'hem all readv and m it i hui'dire at ’be same tm c -- Features: 7522121 4 hLM ' ‘ informed It M- 4 ®S m Ethical dilemmas multiply in fertilization biz Thursday Religion: Faith of the Mothers R COPY ran v ' |