Show ' IV iVw Journal Logan Utah Monday October 28 1996 Tho Horald Pago U) Public speaking a ton 0: From IIKVKI IIUOKIY age IV I xciy liiiu- I iilk in pub lie people laugh il me like I 'm i fool I veil when I ask n most intcii-slmquestion llie laugh il me I Iilk sii eii When I say something: il's like ti Ik int bib No one has talk oi smiii-lliinany interest in me A: From NINA It I i:r- ii i) ’ K S A K A II T K I iist you need to tealizc we all gel laughed at sometimes so we must accept that and just go on Also realize that teenagers often laugh without meaning to hurt someone's feelings Non have Ml'I HO I'M Truman lliili School PAIMI K and UI!IN-IIAK- 1 I) Talk time orgauizm ' I Others hav c pi that make it liul Many ate aliail of people i gi cutest speakers had slow starts FAT SCIIllDY: Speaking in public is hard for lots of people Some gel Mustered or have a hard cun also set up i John Hurringlon of Colorado Springs Culo has seen uni much ugliness in bis years as a pediatric Chil- is i ically believe “c needed address to Mui leu Suite F 101111J Information nix next year ms and questions 'iik(m )aolcom or h V 11 sio hoi Syndicate kmsas City Mo i pi pi -- ' 11 I'anel “Let’s 11 it l’i ess i u is midnight I s o litn and a S loot bv III loot o cardbuaiil boxek iumally planned I" lo hiwii In 1I1 and lamp lull hose ilein s vv 1 ell 'I n way lo expand Night” to other mu school eol- is interested hail ing whilcvri Mild vicai a blanket bie and sonielliing lie iii-- lil began til (1 In u1 ' il ' l o! i p-- I SCHUDY STATES i i 0 j ilj '’k£H£ WOKAliEV '"lyt - 31 I I 3! YOU DO l!(j a i' Smind r lOCWrlV iv si viHS CLUB J 'sLSff tl-- JIAMBER ‘LlOl‘££N NIQH1 rm DiaCfOIJ ' pm 0 rOV2S0 Alnk - 550 lnMiSmtucO50 i SCREAM 21st ot-IMums iveniini with no i -- am 12:00 firkets S500 Located al cp:i s "i ft legislation A the growing i fW N'sp r’l-- LOO W Logan V Tv - T d values and discipline of their children" ing ones that lower courts II - classroom speict attack against the parent-chilrelationship” says Andrea Sheldon al the Traditional Values Coalition 'A' u can see that in so many diffcicnt ways: When the federal government says men! to the Colmado Constitution that would give parents the “inalienable” right “to direct and control the upbringing education Biuiingiun id " 111 can help you with start huildinc sell c mishchil ing child lie-se- something every bit as abhorrent: a proposed amend s Hut '1 "1 11 into family decisions — such as how a ill i lil learns aboul sex or whether a parent may spank a dren with wells liom electric cords Children who have been thinks ihe proposal by sanctioning parental discipline would put children at greater risk lot abuse and neglect Moreover he fears j would encourage pticnls to sue teachers principals oi othet government representatives over school curriculum and other decisions that the parents didn't like Amendment suppliers including conservative lawmakers and the Christian Right call smlt statements nonsense Ihe measure grants no new tights tiny argue hut simply codilies exist- it's like to he os John “I think nunc than I used would give parents a more streamlined and economical means than they have now to challenge government inliusion surgeon Children with bones employment ' experi-- - lea-nin- hat I bureaucracies school hoards and legislators have taken away A shoti ideally worded amendment By Congressional Quarterly ai local grocery stole Dinner was scivcd Iv it ii mi Aimy rolling Siiieks weie distnb i i : Parental rights issue appearing on ballots Hurringlon worries that the amendment — to be decided by voters Nov 5 -- - has the potential to shield child abusers On Ihe surlaie Colorado's “parental rights” initiative seems an election-yea- r as issue us clean air and full I ciation studems those services iim o Indiv iduals education Ac' V to improve Remember that some of our people Indeed 1 can work with you them According a Spccch-- I unguagi willingness I Inllli less ol ' He nt 11 pi'i it hi 1 speech problem' come this with self assurance and 1 1 w In 'i focused on them There are icclnm learn to deal with all ni first you have to k problem you'ie JciIm Ask a guidane refer you to a sp i w ho can evaluak "i We are confident you can over- 1 IllIZllltlll iii"i uni seiih'1 J "i in ( llallu look pal I in ilu pun cl to hendii lain I v civ ilu n iMiiiinum ol I : a I di'll'i sIC plOl'IIIII trail llili'inallollal a LC:l S 1 we lell you were probably upset about what you said I’erhaps someone laughed al you that lirst time ami you huc let it make you too paranoid It upset you loo much to he able to do a good job of speaking before people oi even in conversation with a crowd ol burned anil scaned and worse And now Himingion think' I N a Independence Mo: Al lirst we Hy becoming loo emotional could nut decide if you were about being ridiculed and blowembarrassed aboul llie sound i ing it out of proportion you are your voice m llie wools you affecting your thinking ability spoke Ihe way your voice and concentration when you sounds ul' course can be correctspeak Too often people laugh al ed with speech instruction but others to hide their own insccuii-lie- s fractured by angry parents agers 'hU I laughed al to become so out of coutiol (hat you cannot conccn-rile while you speak I earn to speak slower and try to think before you sH'ak Tie bottom line is you should have more confidence in yourself Try not to let it worry you that someone is laughing al you Il'DON WILLIAM I I AN r allowed your leal ol being win NYU'S I) i I - istri ui t¥" s— ri i "lP P Pf' ' I l J 1 1 doesn't matter what your parents say we're going to give yon money to go oil and gel an abortion and your parents don't need to weigh in' (and when) childicn are given ipiestionniites aboul their family aboul their sexual act iv it ies und patents don't know about it” As the first state to bring a puicnlal rights amendment to a vole Colorado is at the epicenter of an cmciging nationwide move-lim- it I hioulcomc could have pioliumd consequences for public ediiealion family law and child pioieetion -- - and tiny othet area where government and Ihe rights l children and patents intersect Approval ol Colorado's initiative could give momentum to similar clforis m more than two dom othet states and pet haps ri kindle interest in paternal rights in Concuss where two such bills wue inttodiicel lOlhi'-- : Ml l! 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