Show LYNN MMTON 'Why do girls say they want considerate gentlemanly sincere guys — and then go after the jocksjerksP’ That’s what a bayfrom Georgia asked Here’s what some girts wrote in response: We don’t And maybe we wouldn’t be with that jerk if you’d asked us out first i Flynn 17 Kennewick FRESH REPORTS: Wuh A “jock" is a stereotype My boyfriend is athletic and be treats me with wonderful love and respect —Wendy Wafenk IB Montelle Wk What you consider “jerks” are many a time what we think of as sweet cute guys we want to be with It takes more than charm though to make us like you It takes caring lodes attitude intdligencethe list goes on VOICES “Most Admired” lists even though a lot of them are bad role models Also jocks and jerks have to win at everything So they tell the woman that they want to be noth her often They tell everyone that “we" are a couple If they think a present will persuade her they’ll often buy iL They do things that nice guys are often too nervous to do If you can't stand being compared to the jocks you get a faint idea of the way women feel when they took at skeletal beauty models who make most women feel fot and ugly It's hard for a guy to comprehend bow much pressure there is on ordinary women —Liz Rucanll 26 Rochester Minn I always fall for the “jerks” because they are more of a challenge Every girl wants to be the one who makes the “jerk” fall in love with her Also the “jerks” show more affection and seem to care To be honest I've tried to go out with nice guys but “jerks" are just more fun!— ladle Appleby 18 Belle WVa In the appealing romantic comedy “Mystic Pizza " available on video Julia Roberts falls fora handsome jerk who does reform Write Lynn Mbiton Bos 4166 Qrwtd Central Station New York NY iachida Ceytim phone number Every letter ie reed but pereonei replies regrettably ere not TEENAOEJISe WHAT DO YOU THMKP ' ''& 'm hbp ia 10163-41- 66 J?— 7 rf i forever! —Rebeoea Key Bright IB Rockdale Tex Maybe he’s only a jerk to other people but not to the giri That makes her feel speciaL Some guys play nice to the girl at first and then when they’ve snagged her they turn into Mr Wrong i Roea 16 Alta Lome Calif For many girls it is probably much easier in the long run to go out with a “jerk” than to get latched onto a guy you could care a lot about in a relationship flat probably won't last forever anyway Most girls are scared to death of heartbreak Hack 16 Kanaas City Ma Sometimes they are nicer to us Sometimes they say they love us—even though you may be the one who really loves us and wants to be with us We think they are considerate gentlemanly sincere guys We tumble head over heels for the mirage Only after the jerit dumps us do we realize that he was a jerk Or if we’re lucky we realize that he is a jerk and we back out before we get hurt — EGaa A Gonzales 14 Texas Boys who are egotistical are usually more assertive than those rV who are “nice" Their self- confidence is attractive and it makes it easier to get to know them But eventually most gixls t realize that the “jerks" are not - " worth iL To have someone who is what is they warn truly caring — Christina tteala 17 Modacta Cam hat’s a question I’ve been asking myself quite iften recently! I think it's the thrill or the chase and le intensity of emotions Also jerks tend to ommunicate more even if it’s in a negative way ightin is at least talking! Go figure huh? — I Or W Danr WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE THINKING TWICE ABOUT OSTOMY SURGERY She wears no appliance yet she has an ileostomy If you have severe medically unresponsive inflammatory bowel disease and are facing surgery or if you currently wear an appliance you owe it to yourself to find out more about the appliance free ileostomy pioneered by physicians at National Medical Enterprises today for a free package of complete information Call Ttm smiwrk mi fws SLIt Too many people automatically assumr that an attractive person is bora good and sweet— that the body mirrors the souL Actors are on the nation's The Continent Ostomy Centers NWIOML MEDCAl SNTBMISB Call KALIN CMS CENTOS Today |