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Show MAY3 1996 Milford Monitor K LOGAN, UTAH - By geta $50 U.S. savings bond free! Dennis Hinkamp: There is little question that men and women differ, there is great debate.as to why. Carol Tavris, Los Angeles- . - There’s been a time to teliable . based social psychologist and author of "Mismeasure "Anger: of Women," The Ericsson cellular phone, and we'll Misunderstood Emotion” prefers to look at the context. Using a male model to measure women or a female model to send you a $50 denomination U.S. Savings Bond—FREE! Stop by today for full measure men, gives you misleading Our details. Buf don't delay—this free offer ends May cultural stereotypes often disappear if you more carefully look at the context of the research. Speaking at College ERICSSON of University, Tavris debunked many preconceptions about what is the basic nature of men and women. that women have more mood swings than men is largely based on studies of PMS questionnaire, men tend to report similar fluctuations in mood swings throughout the month. "We are more similar than different. Men. and women have the same emotions, they just express them differently," she said. Studies of recently divorced people have looked at this, Tavris said. . If you use a female model of depression, it doesn't work well for diagnosing men: women who are | depressed tend totalk, eat and ery. If: you use this criteria, men register near zero on depression scales. Men tend do express depression by working too hard, drinking too much a John G. Carter » 387-2722, and driving too recklessly. Many of the differences we perceive 800-381-2355 John C. Carter * 387-5226 | ‘Later studies found that these the speech pattern were found generally era of the Vikings was * extremely aggressive nation, but now it is one of the most peaceful. just when women were talking to men. When they talked to other We need to be careful about women their’ conversation styles ' gender research. It is part of both returned to something similar to male and female nature to look for men's. Conversely, when men talked. patterns of behavior and put things to their superiors they tended more to into categories, Tavris'said. We need take on the same conversation . to look at the context of the times, not The same is true with studies of that men always get more angry than Dance The issue again is more about power than gender, she said. "Women don't generally express in the Women more powerful. do, however, : : ‘express anger to their children with little difficulty. . . — no matter what gender they are," Tavris said. She said context tempers our . behavior in larger social contexts -also. There is no argument that men as exclusively male and female are more aggressive than women, but disappear if you look closely at the ~...that is partially because that trait is aS context. For example, take the desired. Natiotis that need aggressive * research finding that "Women tend to men for defense train themn to’be this speak more hesitantly and end their way. For instance, Sweden during sentences with questions more often taskmaster declares "Just you wait Henry Higgins, just you wait! You'll be sorry but your tears will be too’ late!" uae Isa delightful battle of the sexes with love triumphing over all. An extra dash of comedy thrown” to riches but who's theme for life is that "With a little bit of luck, someone else'll do the bloomin' work." Nie Other cast members include Jenny Smith (Mrs. Pearce), Kathryn Condie (Mrs. Eynsford-Hill), Seth «. - Flanigan (Prof. Zoltan Karpathy) Trent LeBaron (Freddy Eynsford-Hill) and Jamie Barton (Mrs. Higgins).:..:°+ The play is scheduto led run Friday May 10th and Sat May 11th at 7:00 p.m. in the new High School.” Presents | | “T ife’ wie usually don't express anger to bosses Trials and tribulations abound as Professor Henry Higgins played by John Craw goes head to fioad = with Miss Eliza Doolittle played by Holly Jones. The mysteries of womankind confound Prof. Higgins and ‘\-. he asks his friend Colonel Pickering played by Reagan Fails "Why can't a woman be more like aman?" ‘ Eliza confronted for the first time by the customs of the rich and the unreasonable demands of her~~ Auditorium. Tickets are $3.00. We know you'll enjoy the production and we hope to see you there. S A Anger is rarely expres upward by either gender. That is, we _ in by Eliza's father Alfie Doolittle played by Brad Foster who's refreshing moral views take him fromrags _ Unlimited anger to men because, again, men are generally position. the way she speaks. _ The common perception is . women. BHS is proud to present the. musical comedy by Lerner & Lowe "My Fair Lady". It's a delightful : ; _ Story of an educated English womans’ attempt to transform a lowly flower girl into a duchess by changing just the gender of the people we are studying. - patterns as women, Tavris said. . anger. It's a Battle of the Sexes! an NRE 7 ~ Dance” v” TOE oe Friday - May 10th BOER, se ~*~’ than men,” Tavris said. She said these widely publicized studies about male versus female Quality : conversation styles really had more to do with power structure than gender. Both genders speak differently to ~- Construction people’ they perceive as being. in Letter To The Editor positions offpower./ "5 Eight U'S. Air Force training planes lined up on the Milford Airport runway Sunday afternoon during a brief fuel stop, in route from Lake Tahoe to their home base at the Naval Academy in Colorado. Eac of theh 260. , HP, V6 planes topped off with about 36 gallons of fuel for the 3 to 3 4 hour flight to home base. The planes cruise ) at 130 mph, with a top speed of 195. The two-pilot aircraft are used for preliminary cadet training. Beginning pilots tack up 24 to 28 hours, . : of flying time. This performance is a determining factor in which cadets will advance to fighter pilot training, Deat Editor, «>» ° I would like to comment on the recent concerts put on by the students of our elementary and high school choirs. - I have always enjoyed the programs of the elementary school over the years. They have always performed their songs with such enthusiasm! Their recent concert was one of the best. You could tell how much they enjoyed singing. Their New Construction - Remodeling efforts were appreciated by all those - who attended. My thanks to all those Roofing - Drywall - Painting - Etc. who put forth the effort to help these Serving All Your. Construction Needs In young people learn to enjoy music. It is certainly the universal language. * As our young people have left elementary school that seemed to be the end of their ‘education in music and it has been a loss not only to the students but also the community: We have all missed the concerts and band | programs of the high school.’; Milfordalways had an outstanding - music program for many years. I don't know ~ all the reasons the music was dropped from the curriculum. but it has been something we need to reinstate in the lives of our young people. - I was so grateful that Mrs. Susan Jensen took the responsibility to give the students the opportunity to participate in music the last couple of. -_ years. The results of her efforts were enjoyed by an enthusiastic crowd at their & concert last week. The choir did an outstanding program that was enjoyed by all those in attendance. Thanks, Mrs. Jensen for bringing music back to the halls of Milford High! May this be a step in the right - direction to have a permanent music department in Milford High School again. Gladys Whittaker Grass Seed - Several Varieties? $3.39 - $9.99 _ Potting Soils 20 Quart - $3.39 8 Quart - $1.99 Scotts Super Turf Builder? $1.99 ~ Southern And Central Utah Lowell Mellor ©» Phone: 387-2133 In Milford Or Toll Free: 800-594-4622 Ammonium Sulphate? $4.25 Wild Bird Seed - 20 Pound Bag? $8.49 Nelson Oscillator Sprinklers - Limited Supply? $4.99 5/8™ X 50° Swan ._ (MFG Seconds) 2°X14' $12.49ea. 2X16 2X 20' 2X24 11.95 14.95 16.95 Palmer's Metalmart 1-800-947-0249 1200 East 100 South « Lehi, Utah Hoses $10.99 ia" Planter Urns? $11.49 Build Sheds, Fences, Barnes, etc. "X8' $6.95ea. 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