Show 12— The Herald Journal Logan Utah Friday June 29 Ann Landers - Afterover)years miserable marriage 1984 - DEAR ANN LANDERS of a I have violent (now fallen In love The problem: The man is in prison We have exchanged pictures but have never seen me another My family thnk I have lost my mind but I really do love this man Ann He has admitted his crime and attributed it to alcohol At present he is involved in an alcohol-abus- e program and I believe with all my heart that he will come out a very different person from the one he was when he went in His letters and phone calls have been the most wonderful part of my life I have no desire to date other men and am willing to wait until he gets out which will be soon Ann is it possible to fall in love with a man you've never seen or is my family right? Please advise — Cupid's Special Delivery DEAR SD — They say “diatance lends enchantment" and in this case the unavailability of your friend (as well as the forbiding circumstances) lends glamour as well as an added challenge to the romance I'd say the chances of finding your dream man through the mail (in prison yet) are slim But it COULD happen especially if he dries up I wish you luck DEAR ANN LANDERS — I have a problem that la breaking my heart Our lovely bright daughter has told me that she is a lesbian Not only does she want us to accept the fact but she insists that we welcome her gay lover into the family as if it were a normal relationship - When I told her it was impossible she announced that she can have nothing more to do with us Did we raise her wrong? Is it our fault that she is like this? I should tell you that this girl was very popular in school and had lots of dates She didn't turn gay until after her divorce I don’t care whether you print this letter or not Just hurry your advice — Heartsick In Amarillo DEAR AM — No one knows for sure why people are gay Those who believe it is hormanal (inherent at birth) and those who believe it is environmental are evenly divided Unless you accept your daughter and her lifestyle (I say ACCEPT not approve of) you will lose her forever Please write to Federation of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays PO Box 24565 Los Angeles CA 90024 and enclose a long stamped envelope You will receive literature that will help you understand and cope with this heartbreaking situation BY CHARLES M SCHULTZ MR MEN AND LITTLE MISS BY HARGREAVES AND SELLERS m rr self-addres- DEAR ANN LANDERS — My job requires a lot of telephoning On occasion I have mistaken a female for a male and said "Thank you Sir” After I have put my foot in my mouth is there In a graceful way to remove it? — Tongue-Tie- d Virginia DEAR VA — The more you say the worse it will be Get off the phone as soon as possible low-voic- ed 1914 News BY CROOKS & LAWRENCE CAPTAIN EASY Group Chicago Inc Horoscope For Friday June 29 peanuts a 1984 Your Birthday Born today you have always had a problem reconciling the two sides of your nature — the forceful positive active side and the soft fanciful dreamy side The two sides need not be in opposition to each other however Attention and practice can teach you how to make your two 'selves serve each other so that your exceptional talents can be developed and exploited for pleasure and profit Your keen intuition is as necessary to your success as your ability to learn from books and experience These three sources of knowledge successfully combined enable you to make quick decisions with unerring accuracy and to act upon them wisely and well Saturday June 30 CANCER (June 21 July 22) — Check for loopholes before committing yourself to the terms of any contract You may want out if it’s too ironclad LEO (July 22) — Verbal “guarantees" from a smooth talker mean very little Check the validity of a bargain for yourself VIRGO (Aug 22) — If there is an for that opportunity requires no outlay of gain cash go for it but not before you investigate! LIBRA (Sept 22) — This is a day for completing a family project rather than begin -- 23-A- ug so-call- ed 23-Se- pt 23-O- ning a new one Teach a lesson in patience today SCORPIO (Oct 21) — Take time out from your own affairs to discuss those of younger family members A desire SAGITTARIUS (Nov 21) to test your mettle against the vagaries of nature leads you into interesting though perhaps foolish adventure n CAPRICORN (Dec 19) — Make sure intentions are dear before you begin any your endeavor requiring emotional Interaction with 23-N- ov - 22-D- 22-Ja- BYDICKCAVALLI WINTHROP another b 18) — This is a day AQUARIUS (Jan when greatness may well be thrust upon you by circumstance However you feel display modesty PISCES (Feb 20) — It is essential that you pace yourself today Take plenty of time to warm up before engaging in physical 20-Fe- VOLI NEVfSR KNOW WHEN A RABBiTMEHTBE CARRYING A LOADED CARROT- IVACNDERHOWTHEViCRD GPT AROUND THAT I'M AFRAID OF RABBITS activity ARIES (March 19) — Recent experiments with ways and means to achieve financial goals may have upset relatives in the home Talk about it ril - TAURUS (April Romantic 20) notions are justified today when a member of the opposite sex displays the emotions you fed GEMINI (May 20) — Having attained a position of leadership in the home you must not protect it or relinquish it A day for decisions! 1984 United Feature Syndicate Inc e 20-M- ay 21-Ju- ne WVWH THE BORN LOSER ART SANSOM BY Dr Lamb DEAR DR LAMB — I have a sweating problem I’m talking about sweating from doing nothing like watching TV I can’t go out at night without sweating under my arms I try to hide it by keeping my coat on but I sweat through my shirt and whatever I have over that I never wear a suit because I will sweat through the shirt and jacket I don’t dare try to pick up a girl at a bar fearing if I get one she will fed the sweat under my arms I’ve tried all the antiperspirants and deodorants but they don’t work Please help me It’s really embarrassing and I have to wear clothes that don’t show the sweat stains DEAR READER — While antiperspirants are helpful for most people with mild problems the truth is they don’t work for individuals with the more severe problem you describe Two stronger preparations Drysol and Xerac AC are sometimes prescribed and are more effective You will need to have your doctor help with your severe problem because it will require prescriptions or procedures You might get some benefits from medicines that block nerve ending actions Probanthine the medicine used to decrease stomach acid formation may help The adrenaline blocking medicines such as Inderal help in other cases The terminal nerves to the sweat glands can be cut under the arm The main nerve fibers to the area can also be cut and even the skin area under the arm has been surgically removed with its sweat glands A device that works like electrolysis has been Crossword 60 ACROSS 1 4 Wooden nail Tke-T- w Church bench Stein Genetic materia! Air defense group (ibbrj Mane l Pur' lSiAlAICI DEAR READERS — Newspaper Enterprise Assn A BY SAUNDERS & OVERGARD While you were active summer day the wax may have softened or it might have happened anyway You should see a doctor and have your ears checked as you may have still more wax in your ears That can affect your hearing People often write to ask what to do to dissolve the wax in their ears or to prevent its accumulation I don’t think people should try to do this on their own not even with various advertised products Your ears are precious and it’s better to see an ear nose and throat specialist first If you happen to have a damaged ear drum or other problems putting drops in your ear may be the wrong thing to do Let your doctor clean your ears and then if he thinks you should use something on a regular basis let him decide what is best for you That can save you a lot of trouble on a hot STEVE ROPER lirni— " FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE BY LYNN smoPSffweHTi VfeS-HRVEy- puryouR pRMSDOUJri Slop 9CRfnCHlNG JOHNSTON oU fWffilHG IN GOT fl SJfcflKKT-3RCWET- T SlZfelZ? By United Press International ODOD0 CUD Tima tone (abbrj 2 Orb 11 1 Developed 4 Priggish 12 5 Compass point 14 6 Scaicitv 7 Places 16 Talk 6 Language 18 Comedian auffw Conway 8 Ralph 18 h is (contrj Emerson 21 Of God (Let) 13 Leaping insect 22 Soviet river is Sesame plant' 24 School organi17 Knight's tide sation (aMr) 20 Chinese 25 Float in the philosophy air 22 Above 26 Fat 23 Divorce 27 Actor's capital audition (2 24 Use a lever wdtj 28 Ui ileters! (2 25 Pack away 27 Anecdote wds) 28 Secondhand 31 Bath aids 15 Of intarsaction 36 Gaudy tnfta 37 Neutered 40 Answer to Pietnous (Let) DOWN 1 10 King 1 used in some countries If a small electrical current is delivered to the sweat glands they can be destroyed This may prove to be helpful to people with your problem DEAR DR LAMB — Is it possible for ear wax to be loosened and come out when a person is just standing in deep lake water on a summer day? This happened to me I’m 76 and have been slightly hard of hearing I went bathing and was in the lake about an hour After I got out of the lake about a half teaspoon of soft wax came out I haven’t gone to a doctor but if wax is produced it should come out Today is Friday June 29th the 181st day of with 185 to follow The moon is new The morning star is Jupiter The evening stars are Mercury Venus Mars and Saturn Those born on this date are under the sign of Cancer They include William Mayo founder of the famed Mayo Clinic in Rochester Minnesota in 1861 astronomer George Ellery Hale founder of the Yerkes and Mount Palomar obNelson Eddy in servatories in 1868 actor-sing1901 and actor Slim Pickens in 1919 1984 45 Offspring 47 English 32 vvhnfl machine part 33 Pt) 34 Played m 36 Gosh 38 Fabrication 38 Sluggish 4 1 Footed vase 42 Chair part 43 Tusk malarial statesman 48 Capital of er Peru 50 Eenia msen e miney 52 Caustic substance 53 Female ovine 54 Amphetamine (alj date in history: In 1853 the US Senate ratified the 810000000 Gadsden Purchase from Mexico adding more than 29000 square miles to the territories of Arizona and New Mexico and completing the modern geographical outline of the United On tnis OUR BOARDING HOUSE WITH HOOPLE MR TWEEDY BY NED RIDDLE TrtE 6ARME CHECKED IT9UT ALWAYS VO I TrtE FINAL TUNEUP' N0B0PY UNDERA CAR STAND LIKE THE MAN WHO DRIVES IT1 States h In 1946 two years before Israel became a nation the British arrested more than 2700 Jewish Zionists in an effort to stop terrorism in Irish group 41 Information agency (a bbr) 44 indignation 45 Patioio 46 Accelerate Palestire i In 1970 the last American troops were withdrawn from Cambodia into South Vietnam In 1972 the US Supreme Court ruled that capital punishment as then administered was unronMitutionai Also that sources of information must hi- revealed to state grand juries 47 Legume 48 Voodoo god 48 Ruth s companion 51 Shorn 55 Run 58 Placa for - la beholden to 58 Notwithstanding 58 Cry of affirmation PCD 57 LI t IBM By MIA luc A thought for the day: British novelist Laurence Sterne said “The desire for knowledge like the thirst of riches increases ever with the acquisition of it" K’N Riddle be a boon to builders it iMka out and points to faulty construction" |