Show iijl"l"H DlHyynKr-pr-ytpir1BtWyBynpgwyMygj ’' The Salt Lake Tjibuue Wednesday Jane 24 1959 r Today’ Children Hard Knocks School Has Fine Lesson By Grace Langdon ? ' ' f AV V w ' T I ¥ - Virginia Zeese Sets Eastern Nuptials V V ( Miss Virginia Zeese will be leaving for $ew York City Saturday to complete plans for her wedding there July 2 to Joel Satz Announcement of her forthcoming marriage Is being made by her parents Mr and Mrs Nicholas J Zeese 755 Elizabeth SL (1140 East) Mr Satz is a son of the late Mr and Mrs M D Satz of New York City The couple will be married in the Hotel Pierre with a champagne )runch following their exchange ’ of vows Mrs Thomas Dee Rees New York will be the bride’s soleattendant Henry Clements Great Neck NY will be best man for his brother-Ih-laThe bride prominent In fashion circles here attended St and the University of Utah Her fifmee a young manufacturing executive in New York Is affiliated with the apparel business v (PhD) and Irving W Stout (EdD) “I do believe” said the mother of three girls now 14 16 and 24 “that Instead of always protecting children from disappointments you do better to help them learn how to take them and get something out of them” Wlththis we agree fully Then the mother went on "As I look back on it now I think the most Important learnings in our family are tied up with disappointments” She said that when the oldest girl started to school at five the teacher told the parents that one of the things she hoped she could help the children to learn was how to meet disShe pointed appointments out that everyone has them and that children get a wrong Idea of living If they think they aren’t going to have them Bicycle Problem The mother said she did not think much about it until later when the next two children both wanted new bicycles which the family could not afford According to the story ‘The girls were heartbroken but the words of the teacher came back and helped me to see that some-thin- g good could come from 'that disappointment’’ It did One bicycle was purchased and the girls learned to work out their comings and goings so that both of them could see the problem ' and still benefit The mother said ’They learned more about being considerate of each other with that than they ever would have learned if they had had the two bikes and it didn’t hurt them to know you can’t always have everything you want just when you want it" Early Lesson As the mother told it one gill ‘‘was always getting over one disappointment only to have another” Finally the mother remembered something her own mother and dad had taught her when she too as a growing girl had been beset with h a r d t o take disappointments She said "They always told me that there was something good to get out of whatever happened to me and that It was up to me to get it and not be knocked down by what wasn’t" r h V Joan Kathleen Gryte i i ’ V V- Mr and Mrs Ralph Gryte Cannon Falls Minn are announcing the engagement of their daughter Miss Joan Kathleen Gryte to Lt Philip Michael Mudgett US Army Lt Mudgett’s parents are Mr and Mrs Phillip B Mudgett 1448 Sheiman Ave (1355 South) Mis? Gryte attended Jamestown College Jamestown ND and SL Olaf College Northfield Minn She is presently an airline hostess Her fiance is a graduate of the University of Utah where he was affiliated with Kappa Sigma He Is now statidned at Ft Lee Va The couple is planning an Aug 12 wedding t & ? t i ’ Dave Buranek Dianne Dieorblo and Sharon Anderson left to right put decorations up for Dianne’s “Calypso” party Getting ready tan be as fun as the party Itself Date With Debbie ‘Beachcombers’ Add Twist By Deborah Paige Ever felt like tossing all your cares to the winds and becoming a beachcomber? Well summer Is the time to do It and If you have a little atmosphere and some friends who are in the 6ame mood that makes It all the more fun Dianne to have a Disorbio “calypso” decided Saturday will be a gay evening lor a group of Highland High kids too Sharon Young and Ann Glau-se- r are giving a awlmmlng party at Ann’s house To Bring Dessert The gals got the bright Idea of having the fellows bring the dessert — their own party at her home Saturday and It sounded like so much fun that all her friends pitched In to help — Beach Decorations They borrowed scads of shells and fish net for decorations and Steff Fish and Dave Buranek dropped over to help arrange it all Sharon Anderson and Jim ThurOld? Grow Why man were more worried about the food so they sat down with Dianne and helped her with her menu Dianne asked her date Jim Gaddis to look around Away-Ab-out for’ aouija board and she found a crystal ball to help with the fortune telling games Correct Attire Lowman By Josephine Marva Mullins and Kathy So many women have variPerry hurried to ask their cose veins! In fact It seems "dates Jim Flrmage and Chip to be the exception for a LaSuere to save Saturday night for them and told them woman to be completely to be suro straw free of these 'from middle hats sandals and knee-lengtage on and many very young pants women are made unhappy and uncomfortable because of them Letter to Lander Perhaps the most Important bit of advice I can give you is to see a physician as soon as you notice this trouble At whatever stage your may be you Dear Ann: Seven years varicosity should see one— the sooner I met a man through the ago the better It Is Important to legal department where I treatment get early Varicose veins are not worked He had been in only ugly to behold but they can cause you great discomand fort arid even become dantold me all about It I had gerous If neglected As a preventative and corconfidence In rective measure you should him and knew he’d put your feet up whenever break possible Take short rest again the law periods with your feet higher than your head or if that Is We married not possible at least place after a two Ann Landers court-shiIhem on a chair when you year sit If your work keeps you He has an excellent at a desk or sitting for hours position and I’m very proud at a time periodically get of him lip and walk about the room Last year we bought a beautiful little home and Wax Your Shelves took an bey to live with us The child is a Put a coat of wax on painted shelves befor covering distant relative who was left them with paper The wax homeless when his widowed prevents the paper from mother passed away Both sticking my husband and I love this home made cakes Mike Thayne and Jim Robertson are sure they'll win the prize for the prettiest one but Dean Menlove and Kay Bengtzen plan to cheat a little and have Carol Frisby and Cathie Caier give them soma tips on how to- keep a cake from falling in the Consult Medic Right - middle Dave Young and Briant Oblad will help Ann and Sharon with the hamburgers on the outdoor fireplace after their swim As a matter of fact the gals may have more fingers (belonging to Barbara Smith Elaine Skinner and Judy Backman) helping and snitching bites than they are planning on Veins h i prison fall never Should we sell our lovely home and move elsewhere? Did we make a mistake by taking him to live with us? Both my husband and I are considering giving the child up to save him future humiliation Please advise us— NO NAME OF COURSE p Tear No Name: Don't move and don’t give up the boy The love you give him outweighs the small cruel Insults If you haven’t sat down with this youngster and explained in detail the past history of his stepfather by all means do so Point out that he has paid his debt to society and he deserves credit for succeeding In spite of a bad beginning Moving will solve nothing His record is part of his life —so be realistic and stop Bungiyig Up Baby Him COUECTEO It HU DU fiEKBEIt MOTHER Of I i Utvinf ft Com plot 914 old bugaboo toddler jealousy cm often be softened if you try thli simple idea from another mother f j nicely with baby number two anJ mother-hennin- lefere the baby cemee do a littla dimestora browsing for teveral inexpensive gifts for cherub Give one to him as a homecoming gift 'Save the rest to give him each As you knew vitamin C is a time ihe new baby daily necessity for babies big and gets a gift from a small Gerber friend Really works wonders! 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HOOVER No 31 There's a theory that second babies cry less than because there is less g and hovering over second babies As a consequence they do not at the drop of a expect pick-up- s whimper And unce they are left to their own devices more they’re apt to learn to amuse themselves faster mind being alone less other Sweet slim trim lines cereal the large-siz- e packages ing your way? of Gerber Cereal can be thared Tb Denver Guests Mr and Mrs Leland S S w a n e r 2660 Evergreen Ave have been entertaining Mr and Mrs Charlie Gates Mr and children Denver Gates has returned to Denver but Mrs Gates and the children will be here for an- still the girl he mjarrled! Second baby com t Mr and Mrs Virgil Svobodny 2766 Hartford St (1610 East) and baby Thomas Peter 'are leaving lor a fortnight’s tour In old Mexico They’ll visit Guay-ma- s Mexico City and Acapulco she's IURLINI Octohof Old Mexico Calls Svobodny Trio A ceremony In the First Methodist Church Kearney Neb Tuesday (June 23) united Miss Zelda Jeanne Ryan and Theodore Chase Rouillard in marrige The Rev Gale Moon officiated Prof and Mrs C T Ryan Kearney are the bride’s parents and Mr and Mrs W G Rouillard 1526 S Wasatch Dr are the bridegroom’s parents A reception in the Crystal Room Hotel Fort Kearney honored the newlyweds Bridal Attendants Miss Charlotte Alexander was maid of honor and Miss Jean Copeland and Miss Jeanne Danker were bridesmaids The bridal gown was of Schiffli embroidered nylon Tiny sleeves tucking and an embroidered scooped neckline completed the sculptured bodice Delicate embroidered tiers parted in front and back to give a redingote effect to the bouffant skirt A beaded Juliet cap of net and lace held her waist-lengtveil Gardenias were suspended in garlands from a white Bible Wore Green Silk The attendants’ dresses were of mint green silk organza Ribs of white Chantilly lace and pert Peter Pan collar with bows adorned the fitted bodices which were belted in with lace Wide organza borders enhanced the billowing lace skirts They had matching headpieces and carried white glamelllas Ray Bowman was best man and ushers were Don Deselms Cary Huston Cleve McCarty and Don Tomlinson Colorado Home The newlyweds will honey- - IIAWAII A o men jvb Tibune r Mr Rouillard Marries Nebraskan Dear Ann: I've been brooding about this and decided to write to you and get your views My husband didn't buy me anything on Mother’s Day We have four children under 5 years of age Don’t you think it would have been nice it he had bought me a little something in their name? After all they are too young to know about such things He said "Why should I buy YOU anything for Mothers Day— you aren’t my mother You’re my wife” Is he right?— LEFT OUT Dear Left Out: Of course you aren't his mother but you’re the mother of his four This is reason children enough to be remembered with a small gift on Mother’s Day SAIL ON DnriiM x&s f be Balt fake running Learn how to live with it li Tfitr W1 Miss 'Virginia Zeese Sit Tight Don’t Run From Record child as If he were born to us Three weeks ago the boy came home from school in tears Someone said to him "You can’t be much good Your father is a jailbird” Now the boy doesn’t want to return to this school in the '' i M 4A ad J A T A to to to totoT JC 4 £ to to‘ dS? J? jf'A to " V jf jt' j m to-- a |