Show r rX v V0-- i ! 100 Ogden Standard-Examin- Thursday October 4 1984 er tabby By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN Universal Press Syndicate DEAR ABBY: After being chased for three years by a charming Frenchman who begged me to marry him at least l'OOO times I finally said yes We’ve been married for four months and now T'm afraid I made the biggest mistake of my life He was always jealous but I thought he would change I was wrong Although I’ve never given him any reason to doubt me he checks up on my every Dear Abby f-- move say I’m going to my mother’s he phones her house to see if I’m there If I spy I’m going to the beauty shop he pjhones me there He says “You should be happy I’m jealous It proves I love Jf you i” Well I’m not happy I’m misera- ble am so fed up with his checking up on me listening in on my telephone calls and going through my purse I’m ready to end this marriage Could professional help straighten him out or should I go ahead and divorce him now? Hurry your answer FED UP I I hind the boat Trip Jrom DEAR FED UP: His jealousy does not prove that he loves you it proves that he feels inadequate insecure and unworthy of you ’’ It was about over though “1643 (4:43 pm) 22 July “Land Ahoy!!! 9D “ Faintly through the haze we can make out some of the hills on the west coast of Ireland strangle each other “Bob has decided to go to Cork “What a beautiful sight Still 30 He Kinsale instead of or so miles away but there I can Ifyi Ireland) reason valid with a understand how the sailors of old can’t come up why but that’s what he plans to must have felt after months at sea Xto” to stumble upon some strange land The first landmark we can I: “20 July 84 J “I was awakened from my identify is a rock called Great morning sleep period by a panic Skellig — followed by mountains stricken “All hands on deck’’ from with names like Knokkagorravee-l-a This and Coomacloghane £em I jumped up pulled my ’’ see to hoots on stuck my head out must be Ireland be the water in They put into Bantry Bay on jib streaming nake landfall soon we'll probably up t© Professional help may straighten him out but now that you've already said “I do” don't say “adieu” without giving him a chance to shape up DEAR ABBY: I don’t know if you ever heard of a case like mine before but here goes My sister passed away in '78 and I still cry about losing her every day We were very close I know I’m not the only person who has lost a loved one but I wonder if there is something wrong with me I also cry about other things — things I see on TV sad songs poems I read and even sad stories I read in the newspaper I took care of a neighbor's little boy for seven months and when they moved away I cried for a week Why do I do this? I’m 53 years old have a good husband and a good life People don't know how much I cry when I’m alone If they did they would probably think I'm crazy WEEPY DEAR WEEPY: Don't be ashamed to cry Tears are healing You seem to be crying at appropriate times but you may be crying longer than you should See your doctor for a checkup and be sure to tell him what you have told me DEAR READERS: I believe the following inspirational message from The Wall Street Journal is worth passing along: ONCE AN ACORN “Sometimes to make it big ou first have to make it small Conrad Hilton started out sweeping floors in a dusty New- Mexico hotel He cleaned up as owner of a famous hotel chain John Paul Getty started with a $500 oil lease in Oklahoma and became one of America's richest men David Packard baked the paint onto his first product in a kitchen oven Forty-fiv- e ears later he was running a $47 billion company There are anonymous men and women starting small today whose names will be household words in 20 ears Will one of those names be yours? Get started!” HARRY J GRAY CHAIRMAN UNITED TECHNOLOGIES - RetiDFeimieonti Uqumiidlatbooira SALE! the southernmost westernmost point of Ireland on July 24 one month after leaving Maine After stepping on dry land for the first time in a month they immediately got seasick Their bodies couldn’t handle being sta- tionary again and it took a couple of days to get used to land They spent a few days chasing cups of coffee and plates of food across tables they thought were still rolling much to the amusement of their hosts but Maltby said they didn’t mind They’d made it in one piece ladies and after a few days they even started talking to each other & Teens’ Clothing COUNTRY HILLS PLAZA 4305 HARRISON BLVO OGDEN again row martial art NEW YORK (AP) — When Emmy Villaverde was mugged by g jtwo youths on a New York street five years ago ish£ decided to learn karate I:She started to train in the martial arts she says not to estimated $ght muggers 400000 martial arts enthusiasts Henry Cho an organizer of the US Karate Championships held in New York last March said an -- knife-wieldin- Ori-£rt- al but to build in the country he said Karate and taekwondo are Jap- ce rid anese and Korean versions respectively of kung fu the d Chinese martial vulnerable” said the hotel clerk ttTwo years later she was again by a thug on New York’s busy Fifth Avenue in 2000-year-ol- arts While kung fu stresses offensive aspects of the martial arts karate emphsizes defense with taekwondo falling somewhere in between explained Cho who is also an instructor at St John’s University in New York “A lot of young people also come to learn the martial arts af- ac-T3rst- ed 3rbad daylight “Apparently I tiddn’t gained enough confidence to show off and help discourage a mugger from thrusting his hand into my purse” Ms Villaverde said But this time she didn’t panic In one sweeping move she turned around grabbed him by the to neck and gave him a knee-kic- k him to the groin sending reeling the pavement I just took my wallet from his haiid and walked away” she said Like Ms Villaverde an in- million Americans had taken up karate kung fu or taekwondo at one time or another Just a decade ago there were “I’ve heard somewhere that criminals usually prey qn those who appear to be timid jself-confiden- 2 ter watching kung fu movies made popular by the late Chinese movie star Bruce Lee” Cho said “But those who seek a quick solution to their fear of crime or those whose interest was aroused by fanciful kung fu movies on television do not last long They usually drop out after a first few Americans of number sessions” he said “It isn’t easy creasing especially young women are you see to learn even the rudilearning karate and other Oriental mentary moves of karate” martial arts mainly to defend Children as young as 6 are also themselves against criminals said James Coleman an editor of learning the martial arts “Parents are encouraging their Black Belt Magazine in Burbank children to take karate lessons for Calif mental discipline as well as for “A rising crime rate in big cities is a major reason for most physical fitness” said Cho The instructor however warnpeople to train in the arts of ed against he said He Martial arts are also popular as said many of his students were at a point where they felt they could a form of physical fitness Coleman said fight off an attacker in a ” More and more Americans confrontation are becoming “But it’s dangerous to be overthese days and they think it’s a confident in one’s ability to degood idea to exercise and learn to fend oneself” he said “You simdefend themselves at the same ply don’t know enough about the tifne” Coleman said in a tele- other guy” phone interview Sgt Peter Sweeney of the New Coleman and others at Black York Police Department voiced a Belt one of three US magazines similar caution: “Whether the oii the martial arts could not say know martial arts or not people exactly how many Americans are they should contact police when training in martial arts But judgthey are in trouble” ing by an increase in subscripAnother police officer who detions to their magazines interest clined to be identified by name ir the martial arts has risen conit more bluntly: “A bullet put siderably in recent years they travels faster than hands” said -- self-defens-e” over-confiden- ce “hand-to-hand- health-conscio- us Plaza Ore’ from FINE CARPET SINCE 1626 This heavy saxony plush carpet with its dense velvety surface creates a luxury look in rooms of dignity and elegance Extra soil and stain protection is built into the Anso'IV nylon with performance-leadinHalofresh1? 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