| Show The Salt Lake Tribune A9 Saturday September 19 1987 Most bathrooms are not equipped for nursing mothers Dear Ann Landers: Recently I gave birth to a beautiful little girl I want what is best for her so I decided to breast-feeI enjoy this special time with my child and have the support of my family and friends Unfortunately there are still some people who feel that a nursing mother should be hidden away somewhere While shopping at a mall recently my baby became restless and I realized it was feeding time I found a quiet section of the mall and was discreetly nursing my child when two women walked past me One nudged the other turned to me and said “Why the hell don’t you cover up or go in the bathroom?” I was so infuriated by her remark that I could not thing that should not be seen we need to accommodate nursing women by providing facilities for them — Steamed in Wis Dear Wis: Here's your letter I couldn’t have said it better myself The La Leche League will love you Dear Ann Landers: A neighbor of mine had a terrible experience What happened to her could happen to anybody Please alert your readers “Betty” was starting breakfast She reached over her electric stove and the sleeve of her housecoat did not even touch the burner but the heat ignited it In a matter of seconds she was engulfed in flames Betty was rushed to the nearest intensive care burn unit With God’s mercy excellent care and a dogged determination she lived Six months d find the words to respond I could have told her that most bathrooms are not equipped for nursing mothers They do not have even a chair I refuse to sit on a dirty bathroom floor it takes me to feed for the half-hou- r my child Please remind your readers that breast-feedinis a completely natural act and if people feel that it is some g was able to return home Much of what we wear is flammable but night clothes tend to be more so later she They do not need to touch a flame to catch fire The first thing they had to do for Betty was operate to remove the melted gown and robe from her flesh Please warn your readers so they can avoid such a nightmare — BJA Concord Calif Dear Concord: In this day and age why do we allow flammable housecoats or nighties on the market when we know how to make fabrics that are perfectly safe? If the answer is "they are cheaper” I would ask: Who needs to save money this way? Dear Ann Landers: My brother died last January after a long illness “Hank” was 24 years old A sweeter married a wonderful man The bad news is that my father has been seeing a widowed Catholic She wants him to have his marriage annulled so she can accept Communion If my father's marriage is annulled what does that make me? The word that comes to mind is "bastard” Right? — Null and Void in Mich Dear Null: Wrong According to a research theologian at the Archdiocese of Chicago a marriage annulment in no way affects the children They remain legitimate guy never lived My sister is getting married in late September and our family would like to remember Hank on that day He had looked forward to this wedding and tried so hard to stay alive to celebrate with us He even left money for a wedding gift Would it be appropriate to drink a toast to Hank? We don't want to make the pests uncomfortable nor do we want to cloud the joy of this day Please advise us We will do as you say — Darien III Dear Darien: I think it's a beautiful idea By all means toast your dear brother My best to the bride and groom Dear Ann Landers: My parents have been divorced nine years The good news is that my mother recently Whoft tti story an pat oaealna ISO KP Oaamars spaadT Con you hondto thorn N you'ro n eo ratal? Sand tar Ann Undars' booktot "Tho an Dapa" Par ooch baoktat aedarad aand plus a No 10 stompad arww topa (If eants pattoga) to Ann London PO Sox It 11St2 CMcogo n tOfll-OOA- l Make the first cooking attempt safe successful Mr and Mrs Tomlin Carlene and Kelly Tomlin were married Friday in St Vincent’s Catholic Church e A reception was given at La at Bond's Wedding Center The bride a daughter of Pepe and Salt Lake City Carolyn was graduated from Salt Lake Community College with a degree in hair- styling The bridegroom a son of Richard and Renee Tomlin Salt Lake City is employed by Vickers Truck Equipment Co Cha-pell- Clubwomen schedule autumn conference PROVO — “Up Up and Away — Fly High in Federation” is the theme for the ai nual fall conference and board of directors meeting of the General Federation of Women’s Clubs of Utah Sept 26 at the Holiday Inn Provo The conference begins at 9:30 am with chairmen of special committees reporting President Gladys Goates Spring-vill- e will preside She will report on the GFWC board meeting in Anchorage Alaska and the Western States Conference Missoula Mont She’ll update members on special projects — Ronald McDonald House and Smokey the Bear Harriet Eliason Delta will give highlights of the GFWC convention Elma Klitgaard will talk about Perception Park The arts department will be hostess at the 12:45 pm luncheon Nina Schumann arts chairman will introduce the guest speaker Barbara Pioli executive director Very Special Arts Utah DEAR READERS: If you are a beginner in the art of cooking here are a few tips to make that first attempt safe and successful and if you are an old hand these are always good hints to remember First of all make sure the clothes you are wearing fit right You don’t want to wear an oversized shirt or one with a hanging shirttail or sleeves that are too long Wearing safe clothing will prevent any chance of your clothes catching on fire or getting into the food items or catching on a handle and pulling a pot off the stove Be sure to wash your hands thoroughly before begininng any food preparation First read the recipe all the way through to make sure you have all the ingredients needed Then collect and set out the equipment and ingredients needed to prepare the recipe before you start While cooking remember not to touch electrical connections with wet hands Always wipe up any spills immediately so you won’t slip and fall or worse Use thick dry potholders tor remove dishes from the oven This will prevent any burns When your recipe is done be sure to check the range oven and micro-wav- e to make sure all the controls are in the “off" position Cooking can be very enjoyable and safe Our thanks to The Soap and Detergent Association for this information — Heloise DEAR HELOISE: I find this hint useful when my children want soup Heloise On the occasions when I prepare canned or instant soup I put lA cup By Neil Solomon MD Dear Dr Solomon: I am beginning to see the results of too much lying around in 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