Show SUjc IT Srilntnc Halt lies Morning — October II Tuc-da- v w Sclion IHU l’a‘ II livelihood’ 'right Pursuing By Judy Magid Tribune Lifestyle Writer Dr Marsha Sinetar is a woman who believes in practicing what she teaches Author of the book Do What You Love the Money Will Follow subtitled Discovering Your Right Livelihood (Baulist Press 1987) she left her caieer as an educator to become a organizational psychologist and writer full-tim- e She loves it 'T moved from Los Angeles with 2 million people to a small remote town on the Sonoma iCalif ) coast” she said "But I didn't move until had planned the change and knew I could make it ” Dr Sinetar will present a workshop discussing the principles of "right livelihood" in Salt Lake City Oct Hotel 29 9 a m to 4 p m "When you study people who are successful their achievements are directly related to the enjoyment they derive from their work They enjoy it in large part because they're good at it It is their right livelihood ” Dr Sinetar explained that the expression "right livelihood" is apparently from the teachings of Buddha lie described it as work consciously chosen done with full awareness and care and leading to enlightenment "It s doing our best at what we do best The rewards that follow are inevitable" she said She added that a recent national poll indicated 95 jiercent of America's working population do not enjoy the work they do It sim"Work is a natural vehicle for ply makes no sense to turn off our personalities squelch our real abilities forget our needs for stimulation and personal growth for 40 hours of every week "Work can be a means of allowing the varied and complex aspects of our personalities to act on our behalf translating our atti'udes feelings and perceptions into meaningful productivity ” She said successful people not only have goals but 1 Tri-Ar- c Children youth conference dated Oct 21 The Second Annual C onference on Children and Youth sponsored by Rivendell Children and Youth Center of Utah is scheduled Oct 21 from 8am to 4 30 p m at the Salt Lake llilton 150 W 500 South Theme is "The Diagnosis and Treatment of Emotionally Disturbed Child and Adolescent " The free conference is educational in nature designed to address issues mental in child and adolescent health It's open to parents teachers counselors social workers marriage and family therapists psychologists doctors nurses and students The keynote address will be given by Agnes M Plenk Ph D founder and former executive director of The Children's Center who will raise the question "Does Our Culture Really Care for Children’" Fourteen sessions will be presented throughout the day Speakers from across the country will come to present topics such as "Youth Depression and Suicide: Prevention Intervention and Postvention" "Are Learning Disabilities an Overlooked Factor in Juvenile Delinquency’" " "Shy Children Shy Adults For more information or to preregister contact Rivendell Children and Youth Center also they have goals that are meaningful for them "They know where they are going and enjoy the trek When people are excited about what they're doing the difficulties become solvable problems not insurmountable obstacles " She does not advocate instantaneous and spontaneous change Learn to be responsible By paying the pi ice for our choices we learn to make better choices Lach choice we make consciously adds positiv civ to our sense of self and makes us trust ourselves more because we learn how to live up to our inner standards and goals" she said Dr Sinetar believes she has been successful in changing her life because she was prepared "I was successful immediately The idea is not to jump into something for w Inch you are not prepared I have a strong track record of accomplishments I also planned my move financially "You have to plan for changes before you make the move It's hard to plan a business when your mirid is continually dwelling on the need for money "I had clients before going into the noithern California area I had taken a sabbatical to complete my I’h I) I also looked at what could do to create cash flow ” She admitted that a certain amount of fear and anxiety preceded the decision "Once the decision was made I was excited not scared "But if people are feeling too much fear it s a signal to pay attention If you're very frightened you re not ” ready Fear is a helpful sign Dr Sinetar suggests before making major life changes people should ask themselves four questions (1) What is my real life s purpose1’ What do want to have accomplished when I look back upon mv life’ (2) How specifically would I have to think speak and act in order to bring that purpose into being” What habits would I need to cultivate and what would I have to delete from my present life to live out mv true 1 Marsha Sinetar followed her ‘‘right live- lihood” by moving from Los Angeles to a more rural area and becoming full time organizational psychologist and writer "Work is integral to the whole tapestiy of our lives she said "If we have no happiness or joy w ithin ourselves how can there be any at work’ 'The world is as we are is an so we old Hindu saying As we enchance our enchance our working lives ' For more information about the workshop contact the Golden Braid Books l'D What activities — what actual daily choices attitudes and concrete accomplishments — would hav e if I lived as if mv purpose meant something to me? 4i How would I live on a basis if I respected myself others iny life's purpose” Dr Sinetar stressed the importance of having meaningful work 1 1 day-to-da- self-estee- Literary Club plans 2 events A horrendous miscarriage of justice Dear Ann Landers: The more I read about some of the flaky decisions handed down in our courts the more convinced I become that we must overhaul the entire system and get rid of some of those idiot judges who don't know any more about justice than a hog knows about Sunday Listen to this A man in East Dubuque 111 was recently reunited with his daughters 9and 11 who had been living with an uncle and aunt for two years The reason they were not living at home was because their father was in prison for strangling their mother during an argument about Christmas shopping "Dad" pleaded guilty to manslaughter and was released from prison after serving less then two sentence The years of a four-yea- r deceased woman's brother and his wife were given custody of the girls Their father upon being released from prison sued for custody and won The aunt and uncle said "One of the hardest things we ever had to do was give up those children It sends a mighty sad message to society " I say the message is worse than "sad " It's outrageous' What do you say Ann Landers’ — Des Moines Reader Dear DM: I checked out the story and your report is accurate It's grief-stricke- rent gas electricity food clothes payment of charge accounts and insurance premiums? If she dies will you pay the funeral expenses’ If you should meet a woman you like better would you feel obligated to set my daughter up elsewhere or would you simply tell her that she is on her own’ Have you made any provisions for my daughter should you die suddenly? Most husbands have an insurance policy What about you’ I realize that my daughter is a grown woman but fathers do have a tendency to worry about the things I have mentioned I would appreciate the courtesy of a reply — Worry Wart in Massachusetts Dear orry Wart: You have asked worse than outrageous It's despicable The people in that town should be up in arms about this horrendous miscarriage of justice 1 have a suspicion that this fight is far from over Please keep me posted if more appears in your local newspaper Dear Ann Landers: Since so many couples are living together without the benefit of clergy these days I would like to share the thoughts of a concerned father These questions are addressed to my daughter's live-- some valid questions They deserve thoughtful answers I hope you have sent a copy directly to your daughter's "roomie ” If you get a reply will you please share it with us’ I suggest that all women with live-inthink seriously about the issues that you have raised because in the absence of a legal commitment a woman has very little she can count on besides her man s integrity All too often she finds herself up that creek — without a paddle Two events are on tap in October for members of the Ladies' Literarv Club First is a meeting Oct 14 at the clubhouse A reception for past pres- idents will be at noon with a luncheon after A tribute to past presidents will be given by Mary Jane Hair vice president Mrs Stanley Gammette will present a piano concert and Mrs Orin Lund sponsor will provide table decorations The group's annual bazaar and fall festival is planned Oct 29 from 11am to 5 pm Luncheon will be served at 12 30 p m Miss Hair is general chairman Others filling chairmanship posts are Mrs George W Black and Mrs Robert C Frakes bazaar Mrs Lund and Mrs Ralph E Reese table decorations Mrs John E Whitby and Mrs Robert S Kittel jams and jellies Mrs Valois A Zarr candy: Mrs E E Oberg baked goods Mrs R G W Frisbey and Mrs Reese table Mrs Claude A Stonev or Mrs Norman C Williams are taking reservations for the event s fund-raisin- well-know- Everyone does drugs right’ Wrong And today more and more people are aware of the dangers involved If you want to be in the know too write tor Ann Landers' newly revised booklet "The on Dope " Send $3 plus a stamped business-siz- e envelope (45 cents postage) to Ann Landers P O Box 1 1 562 Chicago III 60611-056- Here’s cheaper college advice n trick-or-tre- ROCHESTER N Y (AP) — Most families sending a child to college seek financial aid say s James Scanned a vice president who oversees admissions and financial aid at the University of Rochester But Scanned doexn t recommend hiring an independent financial aid counselor "There are counselors who promise that for a fee of $500 they 11 find S3 000 in financial aid he says "Then they tell you about the Guaranteed Student Loan program the Supplemental Higher Education Loan Financing program and the Parent Loan for Undergraduate Students program But the financial aid officer at the school your child is interested in will ted vou about ad these resources too — at no cost to the fanulv " Now that you are in the role usually assumed by a husband will you please tell me the following’ Since you are enjoying the privileges of a husband are you willing to accept the financial responsibilities’ If my daughter should become unemployed or hospitalized would you take o er complete responsibility for the savings of a Levolor Truckload Sals minus the truck All Wm U' "1 Cere AND UP OFFER GOOD FOR LIMITED TIME INCLUDES SHAMPOO ojr necrest Cus'cr INSTITUTE OF HAIR DESIGN ZCrn 278-465- and 5 end you can genome leva or p mds at genome Levolor TrjCKbaa Sab savmas' 5 red bring m your w ndov bet een October pre-orde- f bocar ’e re ce be ae verea to t'y-'- ' a or ' na sVes roar rv c "as oro--m- 1 ana cocse o rpo XJ'XA V Ajs- ALL SERVICES PERFORMED BY SENIOR STUDENTS UNDER SUPER- VISION OF LICENSED INSTRUCTORS 0 BOUNTIFUL 273 W 500 S 295-238- 5712 " v ?£ a- - 561-220- 966-453- 6 WMJ ENROLLMENT INFORMATION NEXT DAT CLASS BEGINS NOV 15 AT ALL LOCATIONS NEXT EVENING CLASS BEGINS NOV 7 AT TAYLOKSVILLE EEDERAL FINANCIAL ASSIST AN! 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