Show ii "it t" aw ng vu npii njgi nriyinmi The Salt Lake Tribune Thursday September 10 1959 1G 1 Edan Wright Today’s Children Friends Like To Date Same Youth By Grace Langdon and Irving W Stout (PhD) (EdD) one thing I’m about children” learning said the mother of four "and that is that they can do a lot of thinking for thcradves abtwvLesfeatthey ought to do if you "give them a chance ” She had just given her a chance The youngster had come in crying and complaining "June’s mean and I’m not going to be her friend any more and I told her to go home and I'm-n- ot going to her house "There’s ivmiiien told was he her she a good kid but he didn’t like her enough to continue Right l 1Wf " after that he asked me for kl yYji I dates and I ac Vrf 3l cepted them Edan ' gladly Wright My friend Said she didn’t care but I know deep down she does Also everyone is saying I’m a big cheat because I’m going out with my best friend's fella Should I give him up? I believe "All’s fair in love and war” but everybody doesn’t think that way —Wondering Every game: has its rules — even the love game Both you and your friend have an equal rignt to date the boy but you shouldn’t do it if it causes trouble between you Dear Miss Wright: There’s a boy who claims to like me he never calls His exjet cuse is that he doesn’t have time When I phone him he tells his mom to say he’s not at home What should I do? r$ - either” i T Mrs Norman Swaner Higson t Becomes Mrs Iligson Grace Rowley Marries In Wednesday Rites —S Forget him and look for a boy who means what he says Dear Miss Wright: I'm a 16 year-olgirl with two small brothers who get into my makeup They pour out my powder and break off my lipstick Furthermore when I am talking on the phone to a boy they start yelling “Me want to talk too ! ’’—Heartbroken Put your cosmetics where your brothers can’t find them and don’t get so upset about a little phone In a high noon wedding Wednesday Miss Grare Rowley was united in marriage with Norman Swaner Higson Dr Donald G Christiansen performed the ceremony in the Wasatch Presbyterian Church in the presence of the families and a few close friends The bride was given away by her brother William C Mrs Rowley She was attended by her sister-in-laRowley Allan V Flandro was best man Honored at Breakfast - After the ceremony the couple was honored at a breakfast in the gardens of the home of Mrs Lynn H Thompson 3008 Connor St (2140 East) The bride is a daughter of Mrs Burton E Rowley 301 Douglas St (1240 East) and the late Mr Rowley She is a graduate of the University of Utah and for the past several years has been a teacher in the Granite School District -Graduate of U ADVERTISEMENTMr Higson Is a son of Mrs Charles Roy Higson 1224 E 3rd South and the late Mr Higson He is a graduate of the University of Utah and the University of Wisconsin skin mg prickly pimply School of Law He is a special agent of the Federal help skin feel better fast Bureau of Investigation Us soothing lanolin-ric- h When the couple returns from a honeymoon trip to San Francisco and Carmel they will make a home in Salt Lake City d G¥S? Miss Shuster Encourage Him to Think Dear Miss Wright: My best friend and I bothj®e the same boy He datedrier a‘ couple 6t DTCSI aEsirioLr f ntue' “We’re going Suburban!” j $udt in P 9 By Helen Brandley There is something so nice about new things — new furniture new houses new pictures hanging on the wall but there is something sad too and that is that every new thing becomes old When it eventually does get old and a little the worse for wear we look at it and sigh for we remember how it used to look This is a wholesome thing for the economy the national economy that is It doesn’t do too much for the individual family budget however But then nothing can help a wanting family budget except for the family to stop wanting It might help a little if we could acquire a taste for old things instead of new Old things have a way of hiding their age or perhaps they just wear it graciously Think That Over "Well” said Mommy "suppose you think that over and decide what is the kind thing to do” With that she wiped off the tears gave the child a hug and said "Now gd think about it and let me know what you decide" It was then that she made the comment first quoted Minutes later the youngster was back "I thinked” she said "I guess I’ll be her friend” "Fine” said Mommy "how are you going to let her know about it?” "I guess I could go over to her house could I and I’ll take her a lollipop if you’ll give me one too" "Fine” “that's a said Mommy friendly thing to do” and she produced the lollipops Youngest of Four Then she told how she got started on helping her youngsters to think out for themselves what to do This the youngest of the four When the two older ones were about seven and five her own mother had remarked ope - day “You’re going to have your hands full if you have any more children and go on doing the thinking for all of them” She poinfed out “You tell them everything to do and you never give them a chance to think for themselves They could if you would let them" She said she was furious with her Mother but had to admit that she was right So from then on she and Dad "began to act as if the children had heads and could use them” Grow In Ability indeed be a great can It satisfaction to' see youngsters grow in their ability to see what it is best to do and do it Parents are wise to provide plenty of opportunity to do so There are some things to be watchful The LitUe Woman Prevent bacon from your experience and wisdom to draw on and lean on all the way through childhood and the teen years' The mother of a says “I want her to get so she can keep herself in line and she does pretty well but lots of things I tell het'Vhat to tftr'df 'not to do I think it is too much for her to have the responsibility yet of knowing what is the right thing to do" That is part of keeping a wisely guiding hand Even when the youngster has different talk it’s important things over with him often It will help him form his own ideas abput things Remember too' that it is always easier to know what one should do than it is to do it Let as he when with Mr and Mrs Isidore Shus ter New Bedford Mass an- nounce the forthcoming mar-riage of their daughter Miss Estelle Dina Shuster to Rus- - ninp-year-ol- d Be On Hand him do what he can is able but be on hand he isn’t able to cope a problem He needs - grown to the place of doing a lot of thinking for himself keep the hand ready when he reaches for it or when you see he needs it Miss Estelle Dina Shuster A o m en Leftover Corn A good use for r is waffles Add about half a cup of corn kernels to a standard waffle recipe left-ove- b First Visit Home first visit "home” she left Salt Lake City in 1914 is being enjoyed by Mrs John Gilcrest the former Miss Angie Kaighn Mrs Gilcrest is living in Vallejo Calif and while here is staying at the home of her brother Alan E Kaghn 451 S 9th West Having arrived Tuesday Mrs Gilcrest will spend three weeks and is looking forward to reunions with friends and other relatives Her since 4hii it Iff LIKE NICI Use Our x Bridal Registration for Sfrrlirtf Chino Crystal W adding Invltcrtiant and AnnauncomanH BENNION'S BOYD PARK SMh Main EMpin 44447 Salisfttd Cuslomtrs for 97 Yitrs 1M ftl - Pi" J v '1— V The Sgt James J Browns will spend three years in Germany Children are Debra Michael James and Charles back row Three-Yea- r Stay Germany Calls SL Family Berchtesgaden is the Ties tination Germany and future home of the Sgt three-yea- r 1C James J Brown family’ 1262 Stringham Ave (2210 Mrs Gus Betenes Mrs Michael Tedesco Mr and Mrs George P Brown Miss Naomi pddington- - and Mrs Delpha Miner They will leaveSat-urda- y when Sgt Brown will transfer his station from Fort Douglas for the three-yea- r overseas position The Brown children are Charles 9 James 6 Debra Ann 4 and Michael 14 months Entertaining for Mrs Brown have been Mrs Thomas R Hooper Mrs Pete Mrs Sarah Brown South) EXCITING LITTLE NOVELTIES practical for yourself too! 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