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Show Wednesday, December 30, 1981, THE HERALD, Provo, Utah—Page 15 4/ Timelyissues, news, features, including family, food, fashion Ann Landers She Feels Unused Dear Ann Landers: Same old sentence: I never thoughtI'd be writing to you. Sorry to be so unimaginative, but here goes. Six years ago I married for the second time. I was very much attracted to my husband because of the way he treated me. Wereally loved each other andstill do. The problemisoursexlife. He actsasif I’m poison — touches me in bed maybe once a month. and thenonlyto relieve his own sexual tensions. It’s a mechanical performance. No tenderness or affection — purely impersonal. I can’t believe he is the same man I married. I'm so ashamed for both of us. When I ask what’s wrong, his answers made no sense. He says “Nothing is wrong — I just don’t have the urge.” I feel like an unused person. What could possibly have changed him so much?I have begged him to get professional help. He says he doesn’t needit. Don't tell me to occupy my time with other things. I've tried. andit doesn't work. I have sex dreamsat night that drive me crazy. Please help me understand whatis happening. And I hope you will answer in the paper because he reads your column every day. — Drying Up In Seattle diminished sex life. Hopefully, some suggestions might be forthcomingafter vou have explained in detail all other aspects of you life together. Good luck, dear. Dear Ann: My daughier was visiting me with her seven-year-old son. She brought along hergirlfriend, who had an eight-year-old daughter. Both children are comfortable swimming short distances in the deep end of a YMCA pool but have no experience swimming in a lake The two women hatched a “fun endurance scheme” whereby the children would swim acrossthe lake a distance of a third of a mile wearing styrofoam floaters. One mother would swim with them and the other would be in the motor boat circling the swimmers. questions would have helped give me a deal with the frustrations of your sadly no “They are also the most concentrated sourcesof food energy in the diet, and responsible for some of the dieter’s problems," he said, quoting from a Scientific Status Summary, newlyreleased by the Institute of Food Technologists (IFT), which he serves as Regional Communicator for Utah Foods containing fats andoils serve as dietary sourcesof vitamins A, D, E, and K, as well as the essential fatty acids required bythe bodyforits daily functions, according to the IFT Expert Panel on Food Safety and Nutrition, which produced the Status Summary. In addition, the unique physical characteristics of fats result in their being widelyused in home cooking and processed foods. The Summary attributed creaminess in ice cream, flakiness in baked goods, lightness in cakes, and flavor and ‘‘brownability’”” in fried foodsto the useoffats, for example. At the same time, the IFT acknowledged the public concern over questions as to dietary fat’s role in atherosclerosis and various forms of cancer. The Status Summarycited studies by various organizations and STEPHANIE POWERS Alluring Style Maker DIANA ROSS Superstar Style Maker Brooke Shields Barbara Mandrell, Lynda Gray and Morgan Fairchild are newcomersto the 1981 list of “Top 10 Style Makers of the Year’’ it was announced by the National Hairdressers and Cosmetologists Association The 1981 list also includes past members Nancy Reagan Stephanie Powers. Diana Ross, Loni Anderson. Dionne Warwick and Jaclyn Smith Miss Smith returned to the 1981 list after a one-year absence. whosecottageit is. If the children were wearing floaters and one mom swam along while the othercircled in a boat, their safety was pretty much assured. Sorry, Grandma, youlose this one individual researchers on health ef fects, highlighting their variety of recommendations and conclusions without taking a position of its own. According to the IFT Regional Communicator, the purpose of the Summaryis to describe the functions of fats andoils in the diet, and to provide the consumer with information as to why the fats are there and whatthey DIONNE WARWICK Musical Style Maker JACLYN SMITH Glamour Style Maker Wendy Carter and Lee A. Butler were married Mary H. Tilton and Gary Mitchell Bunting Tuesday in the Seattle will marry on Thursday LDS Temple. A wedding luncheonat Hirumsat the Locksin Seattle followed. A reception at the their own decisions as to the amount Maple Valley Ward they individually consume Church in Washington honored them that evenAbout 350 processed foods fall under ing. An open house on a “Standard ofIdentity” prescribed by Jan. 8 will further honor a governmental agency; under these them at the Edgemont standards, the maximum or minimum Eighth Ward Church in amountoffat included in certain foods Provo from 7 to 9 p.m. is regulated, and the consumer can Attending the bride will glean needed information from the product’s namealone. ‘Diet imitation be Julie Purdy as maid of margarine,”’ for example, can contain honor and Shelleice Kelaslittle as 40 percent fat, while ‘‘but- ler as a bridesmaid. ter’ or regular ‘‘margarine’’ must Paul Taylor and Steve contain 80 percent. Hot dogs can con- Simmons will be best tain no more than 30 percentfat. men. The IFT Summary also described the difference between visible fats — which are primarily the tablespreads and cookingoil or shortening products — andinvisible fats, which include the fat in cheese, whole milk and in meat and poultry. It also defined someof the seemingly technical terms sometimes. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William T. Francke, Maple Valley. Wash. She is a graduate of Tahoma High School and attended MR. AND MRS. LEE A. BUTLER BYU (WendyCarter) The bridegroom is the ascribed to fat-containing foods, such son of Mr. and Mys. Eliot as polyunsaturated, mono and di- A. Butler, Provo. He an LDS mis sion to the history at BYU glycerides, and hydrogenation. The couple will live in graduated from Provo Japan, Tokyo South MisHigh School and served sion. He is majoring in Provo. SPANISH OMELET 2 eggs with 2 T. water mixed in with a fork 1T.butter ‘% cup grated cheese 1 hot yellow pepper, diced \% green pepper, chopped % cup ham chunks % cup mushroomslices garlic powder tomatoslices Saute in butter; peppers, ham, mushroom and garlic powder. Pourprepared omelet base of egg and waterinto preheated buttered omelet pan and cook. Decorate 42 omelet with first cheese and then the ham mixture. Top with tomato slides, Fold over andflip onto dish. Sprinkle with some cheese. Sour creamis an optional addition CAROLE IVERSON WISCOMBE 214 S. 175 E., Orem. Bee Savin AND LOAN ASSOCIATION. SPA Miss Ross is the only person to remain on the Top10 list siace its origin in 1978. Actress Victoria Principal who was on the 1980 list. went into the association's Hall of Fame after being elected in is National Style Maker ar Mary Tyler Moore who had been on the list from the begin- ning was droppedthis year along with Bo Derek Jayne Kennedy and Priscilla Presley who were on the 1980list Tilton, Bunting Wedding Carter, But ler Vows do — then urge consumers to make Favorite Home Recipe BROOKE SHIELDS Teen Style Maker Style Makers of Year matter Reason for Fat in Diet PROVO, UT — Fats in the diet are importantsourcesof nutrients and are responsible for many of the characteristic flavors, aromas and textures found in food, according to Dr. L. Reed Freeman of Brigham Young University’s departmentof food science. NANCY REAGAN Political Style Maker BARBARA MANDRELL Entertainment Style Maker water at a time. The first day the eight-year-old girl should take precedence, counseling, I suggest theat YOUgo. A good therapist will be able to help you LYNDA GRAY Dramatic Style Maker I was horrified at the thought of these much? Doeshe exercise? Does he stay late at the office? The answersto these picture of what goes on. If your husband refuses to go for MORGAN FAIRCHILD Blonde Style Maker two young children swimming across the lake, even with the floaters. I insisted that only one child be in the swam the distance. The second day my objections were overruled and both children swam across, Was my daughter justified in doing what she thought was OK for the children against myinstructions. at MYcottage? She was enraged at my “interference” and vehemently maintained that the children’s safety was her business, not mine. Whois right? — Concerned Grandmother Dear Grandma: the mother’s wishes Dear Seattle: You give menoclue as to your age or his. Nor do you mention his physical condition. Does he drink LONI ANDERSON Versatile Style Maker at the Tonopah - Civic Center Chapel in Las Vegas, Nev. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Joseph L. Tilton, Mechanicsburg, Penn. and Mr. and Mrs, Gary J. Bunting Las Vegas. Nev. A buffet dinner will honor the couple that evening in Las Vegas. A reception will be on Saturday at the Orem North Stake Center. Attending the bride will be Maryanne Clark Taunya Gren and Deanna Donaldson as bridesmaids with Jessica Tilton as flowergirl. Best manwill be Chet Bunting brother of the bridegroom. The bride-elect is a graduate of American Fork High School and MARY H. TILTON GARY MITCHELL BUNTING LDS Seminary where she was active in theatre forensics. FHA, FBLA and the National Honor Society. 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