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Help him or her keep a list offriends who have brought over casseroles or sent flowers, so they can be thankedappropriately later. Listen. The best thing you can do is be present and listen. Don’t try to find answers for a person when they need to find their own Don’t proselytize. Whilereli knowtheperson sharesyour be- liefs. Let the person whois griev ing lead the conversation, and en courage himorher to talk. Share memories. Say theperson’s name. Talk about the happy times you had together. Repeat ing incidents that have abit of humorcandispel the gloom even at a funeral. No one will con siderit sacrilegious. Theywill welcome the levity. Stayin touch. This takes time andenergy, but it will be greatly BREWVIEST TL vn a sclEDS THURSDAYot £15138 ee ‘aes! beauty and oe documentaries tir Lae “The Straight Story’isis a G as in gem.” work out for the difference. This can beveryhurt answers. Be sincere. Speakfromthe if Yes Cambodian FrenchCuisine 1346 S. 500 W. 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Onlyin Auer ica do webuy hot dogsin packages of 10 and buns in p: es of eight Only in Americado weuse answering machines toscreen calls, then havecall waiting so we won't miss a call from someone wedidn’t wantto talk to in the Sill cians announced thesigning of a five-year _collective-bargaining agreement, retroactive to Sept. 1 Wages Dear Ann: Recently, a good Utal The Utah Symphonyandits musicians have a new contract andfringe benefits may be t to further negotiation af. terthefirst yearof the agreement The wage andbenefit package represents approximately a 10 nt increase over former ages and benefits, which were frozen in September 1996, accord. ing to a joint statement by man. agement and the union. The 1996 contract was an extension of the agreement. Utah Symphony president and CEO DonaldL. Andrews declined further comment. Erich Géaf, flutist and president of the union,said the deal represents “immense progress in making the workplact smntie place for the music ” Heis partici pleased with the attention paid to issues suchas traveltime,rest between services and work-related injuries. Theorchestra appears to be on firmer financial footing than it was at the last contract negotia tion, when theboard first canceled the summer sseason, then rescheduled it in abbreviated form. The symphony reportedthis week that 546-3400 Kaysville 2N Main,Kaysville 02:45 7.15 DUDLEY DO-RIGHT(P concert attendanceinthefirst two monthsofthe current season is up 20 percent over last season and 28 nt over the season before. TARZAN (9) 1108557-00 INSPECTOR GADGET (PG)1-10 3.00 7.05 JAKOB THE LIAR (PC 1409.20 MICKEY BLUE EYES 15 BOWFINGER(P de) bake Teininiate SPECTOR GADGET (PC! 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