Show 7 ft? 2Z T The Salt Lake Tribune Thursday November 28 1963 A i A s x V” i r 4 n ' I V iL vV'W" ' ‘"’a-''-- 'W- -’i in ' f i 6 a sleigh at the city hall Dec president of the National Alcoholic Beverage Control Assn at 5 pm Several other communities are HE RETURNED to his office making arrangements for his from Hawaii where he presidvisit but details have not yet ed at the meeting of the organization been worked out semi-annu- 11 ff t rr' t A - HE IIAS BEEN scheduled for THEN AT 2 PM he will be three more appearances Satur- escorted into Murray by a parade under the direction of the day and will make a return trip Murray Junior Chamber of Comon Dec 6 merce An hour later at 3 pm the Saturday he will fly by heli v A t V --w it r V National Post in Salt Lake copter to the Sugar House Park third parade of the day will whisk Santa into Magna City Friday night is just the be- at 9 am to begin his annual BOISE (AP) Fred Charlwill A to visit this area THE ONLY OTHER scheduled ton parade ginning of a busy weekend for superintendent of the Jdaho the gentleman from the North lead him from the park into the visit at this time will be in MidLiquor Dispensary said Tues- -' business district Pole vale where he is due to arrive day he will continue to serve as Junta's arrival “x-- if Idahoan Keeps Santa Dockets Busy Weekend of Parades rss Vf 'V'Ti 7 1 i COTTONWOOD DOWNTOWN f m & O Javier Saenz Informal Charles Patterson right sit In on session with couples In a group mar left and give-and-ta- Troubled Aid Troubled riage therapy situation Couples in these sessions learn to see their problems through eyes of similarly troubled couples Ji i& i tff f t v nail A gourmet selection of holiddy eats ready to serve friends loved ones gay or for k phem orders filled during this 'festive season giving Downtown ZCMI FINE FOODS & Cottonwood cond floor -- j Group Therapy Revives Ebbing Utah Marriages fcr lems?’ rather than blaming the mate for not being perfect” In the group Mr Patterson Why did you get married? Was it for love? said couples can’t “get away Really? Or was it as some marriage counselors working with troubled couples say: “Because you tried to end feelings of insecurity by attaching yourself to a person of the opposite sex”? games instead with playing r i By Melba M Ferguson Tribune Staff Writer - i f i of ' being honest” vviw '“ - Herbert B Dr According Fowler outpatient clinic department of psychiatry U of U College of Medicine group therapy is the fastest growing form of counseling and “as it develops we also are convinced it has some values individual doesn’t h’ director f therapy A i J itiuiii tiiiimn x a “4 ' S' V t s cheese boxes From famous Knott3 Berry Farm Six jars 398 Twelve jars — 750 Tempting assortment Wisconsin natural cheeses for Knotts Berry Farm delicious jams with 1 boysen-berr- y Imported Swiss cheeses 6 kinds in each box 8-- 495 gifting 695 & 298 3S8 598 595 syrup fj C Vv r I "'r f ’j ST & Vt § Jd a fcmdfood party box idea gift Tempting assortment to suit any taste 595 k a V oak serving tray g Includes d'oeuvres hors x - c Vi p CS 4 2 it- ¥ M&' OA I it f r16 s? v- X” i‘l 2 v i Wonderful handsome marble lop i Knotts variety box w on sale now! cases tries desperately hard” he said “but only succeeds in frustrating the other hurting and never really getting anywhere because neither can see how he is working against the £ 4 8-- hu most "lit Natural cheeses attend in i J? Knotts preserves 1 PERSON 4 xi i tfMrA to 7 W In M r members” have” L- - - K 7 j I MRS DIOGENE W King executive director Family Service Society pointed out that whereas in individual counseling “one or the other refuses to come and we try as best we can to help the one spouse who is 4 GRANTED THE ONE in the making an effort to preserve the boat may want to rescue you marriage” they the When marriage problems become source of constant frustration But if he can’t pull you in 1 group sessions only in couples i and hurt couple needs help some find it in group therapy if you are a floundering weight you clinging to his hands are both helpless This is tire dilemma of many marriages according to Javier — Saenz senior case worker and marriage counseling group leader for Family Service Society “EACH ' V 5 & A ? 4 “IT’S SURPRISING how astute group members are about the others" he said “We make therapists out of our group “THEY COME TO marriage hoping they can get something ' from the marriage partner to prop them up” one counselor said “They believe that attaching to him or her automatically will solve their problems And they become frustrated when they recognize that they are never going to get this from another person" Expecting the other person to pull you along emotionally through life is like a drowning person holding frantically onto the hands of someone in a lifeboat n X yJ Sf-- ' ' v: t board wcbeeses cutting Calif dried fruits A gourmet's gift Wonder- mouth-waterin- 550 275 398 598 lb lbs VA 250 fully low priced 2 3 lbs other” The goal of marriage counsel-ln-g is to get both the drowner and the rescuer safely into the boat and free their hands for rowing so that they can pull to- ’ 1 custom-crafte- gether as a team he said This is being accomplished to a very hopeful degree by use of group counseling or group therapy here in the SalbLake area according to Charles Patterson psychiatric social work consultant mental health division Utah Department of Health and leader of marriage counseling groups at Family Service Society has MARRIAGE counseling been going on for a long time but group work in an attempt to aid nearly shipwrecked marriages is a fairly recent innovation he said It began in the Salt Lake area in 1953 Since then this method has become widely used across the nation as an effective means of marriage counseling In the Salt Lake area more than 15 groups “each with four or five couples meet regularly witlj Family Service and Veter-- r ans Administration counselors staff of the department of psychiatry University of Utah College of Medicine and other therapists And already counselors are reporting “less incidence of divorce” and a "development of ability among the couples to learn to communicate with each other and to take honest responsibility for being themselves IN THE beginning of course couples are reluctant to “talk about our problems in front of people” explained Keith assistant director Veterans Administration Hospital’s mpntal hygiene clinic who leads marriage counseling groups at both Family Service and the VA “But when they see that ' others wrestle with similar problems and that it’s no disgrace to have conflict in your life thpy learn to seek the an- swers to ‘how do you face prob d fruitwood f i tables with imported rose aurora marble tops i quantities limited to stock on hand— hurry in at this low low pricel no down payment to home owners — 90 days no interest t tf ' t f W Vi s rrp i tr ? 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