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Show f T"Y DESERET NEWS AND TELEGRAM, gQ Thursday, July, 9, President N Is Installed By Lady Lions ' Mrs. Nathan M. Wade has been Installed 'at the new president of tiie Sugar House Lady Lions. Other officers include Mrs David T. Cates Jr., vice president; Mrs. Grant Vincent, secretary; . Mrs.' Paul . McOmle, treasurer; Mrs.' David B. Thompson, program chairman; Mrs. Harold L Bowman, publicity, and Mrs. Lee J. Vincent, historian. Directors of the group include Mrs. George McClellan, Mrs Alfred P. Naegelin, Mrs. Lauritz Petersen and Mrs, Qyde Fur-ne- r. Mrs. Nathan M. Wade . . . new president Confidentially Yours Try To Understand Mothers ' Feelings . By MART MARKER Dear Mary Marker: Im 20 years oldTa senior in college, attractive, bright, and popular enough and very unhappy My mother nags at me constantly . . . about the boys I go'with (or dont), the boys I Jike (or dont), the things I want in life (or dont), and first, last fine, as long as they know they are adults! and always, MARRIAGE. However, you are quite tight Do you realize that there are , this situation is damaging to a great many people in this com-- you both and should be resolved, munity who think you are an old if possible.--it might alsa provide maid, if you are 21 and qot mar- you with an opportunity to summon all the tact you will need in ried or at least engaged? And tiie Peace Corps; the my mother is one of them!' and control you will need She has such conventional and m meeting complex situations in snobbish ideas, and tries to force a complex world; and the firmthem all on me. She cant seem ness of your sincere belief in own values to try to reto realize hew different we are your establish some line of commufrom each other. T nication, and hopefully, a new Marriage and children may be relationship, with your mother. fine for her, and I dont say I One approach might bethat dont want them eventually, but if she thinks you are old enough there are lots of tilings I want to make so vital a decision as to do first. I hope to join the marriage, she must grant you Peace Corps when I graduate. the privilege of making just as (Mother doesnt evert blow what personal, but far less significant the P.C. is.) decisions as whom you date, and When it comes to the boys I what you do in terms of a ca. date, she is so terribly busy reer, praising the socially promiClarify Feelings nent ones, and finding fault Try to clarify your feelings with others and she really doesnt know a tiling about any about marriage and children to her. First,' that you want to be' of them. very much in love, and very sure She harps, and nags, and innot get married because terferes so much with my life, a lot ofjust friends are, or its your that I think Ill go crazy. Pm expected. Explain that you even beginning to wonder if I am think-yobe a better-wif- e, as odd and peculiar as she keeps mother, and person, if you have telling me I am! Not like other had broader and more varied if I hear that again, girls experiences in the world. Point 111 leave home. out some of the tilings you adMother Disagreed mire and find interesting in the The other night I turned down boys she objects to. julilovelyt-ligiblei,boyr- to go TelLher you dont want to exwith a boy admire very much. elude her from your lifeT That He is an honor student, and in- youd like to be able to discuss teresting, and fun to be with! things With ho, to be able to The other one is a bore! Mother turn to her, not only as a mothstarted lashing into me, How er, but as a friend. did I think I Was ever going to But she will have to respect get married etc., etc., and it your privacy, and let you come turned into a terrible scene, and to ha tor advice. endedwith rny bursting-int- o Its just that protectionrsecur-it- y and happiness are frequently tears, screaming at her, and rushing out of the house and quite different things to different v slamming the door in her face! people! MJUL I know Ive hurt her feelings, and she has hurt mine. Im sorry about it, but the situation is realATTENTION ly getting too deep and woundFREEZER OWNERS . ing: ; I cant bear to have her on No IwHcM I mm fmmd Ptowitetnal my back every minute. Im grown up now, and I must make USD A Oood my own decisions, but how can OQ KEEP .. I make her understand this? Joan WEE Spiff S?do of . ull ... - I ; 99. 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