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' : Urr - 4: , - 1 f .q 4e . - , ,: - , , ....-- - -- -- , , . , - - - --pobliAesi lei7 - , Excerhe immit ONE PSYCHIAT-RIST studying - this- - problem Pre- - pi filo Coosa i .'' :' sented an example , of a Voruple who had been T she we s of she Twelve, while prssiliog- e -- married for More than-5-- . years, and happily SO,L Elif0P0011Jilissios, ' -- -This couple submitted what they regarded as the FJIGiON must- not be remote -i ' , Teo, ipe for a happy marriage. .. trim living : I We have had no secrets from -- : solve the problems of daily life, . . - Straight living . eacii other all the time we have been married. of the body and mind as of the soul, ma- ' : ' ,1 .,.. "If you want in have a deep, satisfying married . weal as well as spiritual. ' , e be be and the is life, since the body dependable, dependent Hence, ...healthy , - , , Of - happiness is a great,thing too. Get the : , other. Understanding hegitming .: l . other's of View ' point always?' and the:end, ,,q. , ad)ke,,t6,youngsterst. ' endeavor--is coristant --- .for-- n. te- find that they are prepared '.. n ", -their teens. Virhen .:,,, ,,"Penple shouldn't marry--i"after----teOl- - '''' 7 : .! ' - pmess , all thatpertamS to ;other The period?' , 4 isthe years are nave -4 ,,, theyanylidea ypung they 1,, , is bodi ly welfare must b vorces , , -point seem even more lamentable than what they are getting into. All ther think or it is , -- -the religious lin:-given are homes here because those of the teen-ag- e group, that,- there is fun in married life. It is not fun. kg, - --. - L: - . broken tip, children are torn between opposing loyalt "You must waltfor Your Marriage until you are , Ilr' ra' temPe' Mrall nee' : ties, and the work of years Is upset and wiped out- substantially placed and have more experience in life. ' , cleanliness, L proper lood, - --,- . , From neglected children come 80 many delinquents Divorce,"' "shouldn't and concluded, tasks necessary 'F---be they and shelter,. ' daily clothing , are' causing such-- a problerntodair :. be enairs- -of anyway." ' has its share Of these divorcees. So does , , true religion. UnhappY married couples should not permit their , . , life linhappinesstogolon".TheyshouldIiitelligentlY-taker:----z-,--TheEngland, where the Court of Session recently re-are re :-problernskilleducation,'- more-ththat last for and economics eliminate intellectual, year sbowing ported figures ,sociology, They should seek in lerstanding. steps to it ' 33 per cent of all divorces tame in the period foli their I-r- industrial and agricultural, urban and so.. They should . be willing to talk "'calmly about - - ''' ' z1,- lowing .. ten years of married lifehe-reasorigiv- en , ural- national and international, to . problems, analyze them and cure them. ano---- ., should .,' ,, -'- was that men and women seeking a separation hold , give answers.. ,which religion :... DIVORCE REALLY should-n- ot , direction:- Honesty, industry, thrift and become necessary, offuntil their children are beyond, their 'infancy, or- ' most are of bases as come not .. if this will said. prosperity cooperation, It elderly couple . In school- airday, so that motherseaixgo. ' -, both parties are fair . enough with each other to work ... ' effective when used as principles of - to work. ,, ,, '' ' - '', ' - , ' out their difficulties, with mutual respect and tinder-, ' -' , ' live and construetive. TEEN MARRIAGES, which so often end In teen di-..: ..: , standing ' The Church, the conservator of re- - vorce, are more unstable -- than any other mar- - There never was a more effective rule for having ' nd too when 'don't' said often .N has , ligion wherever ..riageS,-ashould be guarded against pea' 'eve at home than the Golden Rule:" If. peOptlwRilld man has needed to, be sibl should be taught frankly by their par- - - : but Nlive that law, and really do unto others as they - ' the ordinary ' ' ' do. The evilt Of intern- - ' ---. what to taught' ents-wel-l . ., in advance of the serious dating 'stag- e-all their would be- done by, they would drive, hu h. shown ueeu nave g Ls, , .mmg nd -,' "bad between "good dating"-an- d would be ; perance and causes-f- or complaint,-athey while the value of 'temperance has not ..Z---- the- difference what . .. .,. each one leads to. big" and , ' ' , ,, 7-7:; been stressed. happy co.: ' Z - Thenothould be taught the jeopardy of marry-- - - - -- - It is man"s,Inhumanity to man' which makes ' . How be would tremendous - ,. trig young, and should be shown what they must give,- -- countlesi thousands mourn, and it Is the inhumanity , nomic gain of the nations' if the ' )g110 to enter slich unions, that school is interruntest :ellinla 13v0r0 eloctql And thoi inonsw And Ku ''firliretl .rolvfnora In 4,,,,,,......,t ",,,,,,,t-- a...A. ",41 7--- -- -- -' -----7- S --- ' 7- are - easilY,,--- misrunderstood,Lland so stated as to misrepresent what were intended to Portray.- :. they But statistics whic h are alarming studenis'of divorce in our leading English-speamarriage and -, nations-deserve serious consideration by ing pubild at large.. - - ' ,. ,,,, Thereittre tWo Periods when most divorces occur . When izmtiature,, Maladjusted, One Is in the teens .. rush -into ma thrill seeking youngsters - trhnony- only -- ' 1 - :- -- : - ' TATISTICS Leften-they--a- I - --- - 1- -- id4c'1S009111"0 - ,..., , - --- - . - . , - . - - . . -- :, 7 , - at-th- - -- - - -- . - - -- - -- 1 '' - - . , . - , , - ., : - - -, , t- - . - -,,- 4 . : ;',..:', imp-LT- - ,.- ,- , - -- -- , . ? - : - . vatmorr-possibl3- s ! - - . . ' 'TA' - - . - . n .3,- ' - - upon-each - ....,,,' '. ) . , - .,,..,,,--,J-- -- ' -- .. ,,,i! . . ., ------ - -- - - k- - -- . - 1 . - - -- .t,.-- - re. . - -- .-- -, - : , - . ---. . t - . - . - - . - - . an '- - - , . ,,- . , . ----: -- - t . , - , - -- . . - -- -- - - - - , :- . --- . - - - , . J . , .. , ' - - ., - ' - - - .. - , :' - ars - - -- - - . - , . -- . - , - - -, ,'' - -- -- -- - ' - ------- - - .!, - : , - . - ,. . - -- , , , , . the-e- . - ,..-- ' . au ,alasAaL za C14 Lill CUle CULL VA - 1.11VLI Anis uocior mignt weu oe trtevaru ulbnop, or Pat '11 This is ' one Important reason why such marriages ' the stake president r he might be some influential ' - -- fan... , , friend. But no matter whom, help should be sought , Students of marriage statistics admit that In- needed. when ' -character trait ould But let us be sure-i- t is good help. No stability is seeldng.; : divorce, ,and Is byallmeansthi principle cause of ' ,...choose as a counselor ,some, person who is not to 'Counsel, There is safety In the Church It, ermine those - who have been married for more than ten years..,- - ' ., Is well to stqy within Church circles. ,' '2, . - - ' - - I, ' id-thos- ..the-chi- ef . - :- NI - - Com-ne- ss -- - , 1 i --- ---:' - noll , , -- , -- - c - - , -- - ., . - . At Physiciikleacher, I Dr Shipp Gains'fame . 1 , loe . , - - - - , Women it-nnine- - ' . - - 1P - the issues of the ay. would lead men into a new appreciation -of the Church. That would not drael--Z-Fholy things Into the mire. - Is not the earth' holy, and all things upon it? Holt- is the substance,0Idl righteolia7 acts. , ', - -- , , ' of religion P--- Hotsewife t . . --- - IticKFTs, were chirping along the -banks of the River as' the black silhouette lit abueev loreed leisurely In the cnoeinlight. The reins hung slack The - followed the rutted road unerringly.. faithful ' prior to her marriage to- IVMford Shipp For the next 10 years, she settled down to being a housewife and mother Until the call came for her to go to the Women's Medical College izt Philadelphia. ' . The rest,of her life was aevoted to serving her people. She trained purses midwives frorri Mexico-t- o Canada,:lielped edit- journalserved-- -as a member of the Relief Society General Board, and watched over her family , , died in Salt Lake City in 1939 at Abe age of 92. , .,...,. r t hett'of!trft"-l !Tlti'f ' yorgwilrrilptiffir f rlitgil'Prr'rd,4'!,1"'"14'41 T1 I t 14,, ii;411, 111)0, 1 - silently-flowingJord- 6. - horse-draw- n , se old-hor- ,"'- , , was graying hair pulled straight back andlied in 'a- - bunt under a broad brimmed,hat Beside her on the seat was a black valise, a familiar token of the medical s - her Which writing.. 7professio11.7.111y; e tri Occasionallyi-shgaze- zttitiwtratiquilse-enerstopped thengrosseu out - 1,,i4' -, ' IP ) and wrote another.. w : , aline ,t ; "I rrs '1:':: - She was Dr. Ellis . woman Lake. Salt in '''..:;'ffl Reynolds , Shipp, pioneer physician j,;',Iirti In -:I..--11'', ; : .:i ' r 'I ', ,.....,,,..,-.fi,'. a11.1i 4, aty, returning from, midnight call to a ho,m'e out in the country.. She was - :1,:1' 1011I'vl 11'1 Ill with death: A littlelriii had died pensive just lost a race Il AI f , i il - I! - -- -' - before the good doctor arrived. 2- -i , ',,,,,,L '1.;111.1l4,0-'1,' ' ' such ictime, her thoughts turned la the only source of comfort available. ' ' in Gott' ,.... She- was' writing a Ii poem, expressing-her-fai- th :;1:,11; 11,,?1,1,1;'. , '' '$;''' - : fp ; iiJ111 : 4 remarkable This : physician, poet, scholar, editor, teacher, bonseVifs-- and ,,, ' ) women's leader herself had known the mingled pain and joy of bearing. dui-- . 'i4t,. to010i.,), , fi.1 dren. She had borne 10. She also had known a mother's heartache- - at seeing i 1:i.,, t iilit''lti f, lti 2 her ., , ';'-) 4il baby's life ebb away.'Five of her 'own had died in infancy. ,c 4 3,;,,r,41A,r'tr,Tipl 'I l'PLt, ' ,Iiii , " I Perhaps the recollection of that sorrow ;pael a determination to try to.- -o-' was i vercome career motivation when the In her seeking Ilmedical L . , t9 she was nearly-2- 9. , It took a great deal of grit and determination for her , I, leave her beloved husband and- - children for years of intensive t She battled homesickness- ,- 111 health and poverty --during the entire time. : study. ,,,Iii,, 11,,,Ar, - '11 , '' d ' faith sustained her. ', '. ,,, !, ". Only it 'i'- tn,) ', .1 r. ,?i'!'rilA - - , , '' That faith had become ingrained ,through years of training in a Latter-da- y' 11.1r 1 irl' : i J(1 Saint home She was born in',.DavisiVountY,lowkin18,174,Tiveyears later. - , .. 1,,', F1.100, 1 ,,;;'1 - -- -F.,.-- ' i: i 4 in li Pleasant several ',J.1',.'; south' ...'1,,, parents Migrated to Utah, miles Grove, settling . ' ' -- - - of Salt Lake 17.' ' ,.. ' ' - ! '' lql City. ------ ' - When Ellis was 14,- - her mother died;The-resPonsibilit- y flrill,(1 of keeping house ::::. , - , II" , and for children the for rested this time a younger ''',Ii, caring shy, studious upon ,,, 1:, 0 i , girl. Later,she was invited by BrighamYoungto.,joiniliq famtlyintheBee--- , , , I i 1. . 1 hive House and attend school with, his'children. She did so for some months ,1011, 04., -- she--wa- - ' ---- -- -N -- ; , , il l 1 '" I i I ' ' I I:! -- - - - -- At ,, , .. ', r 4 , ' ; I 1: ;,.1, f!! 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