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Show x? JW' 'j TV ..? ' ? - f $ ''tMTr' -- i 09Wrnbtj Hz y W r '4 VgteiLie-s1SieS5lie;irT- Ll rMrtiK f - A- r 1 - -4 - f 4js- - J The Salt Lake Tribune, Friday. July 18, IB 1975 HELP me I cant date until I am 18 I 1 accepted that vnd let it be to date want even yet dont At school he keeps getting do-seand ckiser. Hew can I get him to cat! it off, or how can 1 call it off without hurting Ins feelings? Need Hep in Kno cville Dear NIL; You've tried hinting and h ping loi'ff enough. Its time for a loud and clear message Since Fred doesnt want to hear it, you cant expect him to pick up s whispered, Please, you are coming too r Father and Daughter Have Both Made Mistakes without solving anything. I decided to take the situation into my own hands. I realize now that this was the' wrong way to handle it, By Ellen Peck and E James Lumberman, M D Dear Eiiea and Jim: My dad caught me riding around in a car alter he had told me that I wasnt supposed to At that time he told me 1 couldnt get so much as a ride home for the next year A year pased He still said 1 couldnt get rides home I felt I'd served iny time and should be released I tried to talk to Dad, but he jusl got excited and jelled a lot It always ended in a hassle because matters are even worse now. I rode home from a dance with three fnends, and now he says I cant go to and Ill dances for a year lie a juroor in the fall Sorry to be handing you such a complicated problem land such a difficult dadl but what now Janice. Dayton, Ohio Dear Janice: Your original mistake was disobeying your dad originally Your second mistake was not calling some objective Policewoman Combines rather than calmly 4 v Z 'y discus- "'I t ing your message. Next time he cans, say ''politely), No thanks, Tom II he presses you, stay vague in fvj I Just repeat, No, 1 uon t leei like going out Last resort Tom, you're really a nice guy, but I just don't want to get into a dating I relationship with you you do rink know, I know hurting his feelings that way But maybe hurt is better than continuous confusion And if subtle hints dont work, the truth can only come unadorned Dear Ellen and Dr. L.: This boy at school likes me Ill call him Fred I Lke him s rvyi a not communicat- &iJ a-- as a friend and just a friend Fred is nice, but I dont like hrm in the wav he Ukes roe He is always waiting for me everywhere I have a girl that I would like to be with but he is always there I dont want to hurt Freds feelings by telling him to get lost The other day, someone asked if we were going together, and he said yes This came as a surprise to me He has told me he was coming to see me at my house I dont want him to I have almost told him outright that I dont want him to (I hinted at it). Fred didnt catch on. Im m the 9ih grade; fcc is m the 10th My lather has told close1 By bending over back wards to spare his feeimgs you've allowed him to become obnoxious; you roust be really fed up with him now that hes claimed youre going together. But some o'. the situation is of your own making. You knew he wasnt getting your message, but you still beat around the bush. Di . Jim and Ellen wot Advantages 1 ,r, that youre Perhaps the father of one of f fry & i ir, your fnends could have an 4 &!.'. sing things. lam wnn your uad Try for a calm discussion ? -about daughter-raisin- g Admit mistakes and ask your ? Ellen and Jim him to admit his Say that you ,,v z. Ellen-ThiDear to went end hostilities and try k. 4' to have a friendly family guy keeps asking me relationship out Ive told him a dozen e 4l f Suggest that, if he doesnt times that I have something r -- ' ?, to do wih my family, but he like the casual, i A round idea keeps asking V hat else can I Ellen Pci k Dr. Lieberman if But that. say accept youll hed let someone take you out Pam G , Roanoke, Va reinforcements after you had and bring you home on a Dear Pam: formally arranged date with served your tune If youve told turn repeated a previously approved guy But your dads made same ly that you have family plans, Or, suggest some similar and he continues asking, then mistakes, too His punishments are too strut And he compromise. obviously he thinks you are gams nothing but a real If nothing works, then call alway s doing something with potential for rebellion from for help in the form of an your family! In short, you're you by getting overexcited understanding adult. giving him such good excuses v 5 f NF.W YORK -I- youd like to ride on a motorcycle or m a patrol car, walk a beat or work in a laboratory, do undercover work or staff a juvenile bureau, consider becoming a poll ewoman A t vpput iumuc9 mi nuuitii are plentiful in every aspect of modern police work M ts teen national a magazine There aro now ciosp to 4 000 full-tim- e policewomen in the Inited States and the number is rapid! erow mg Today, it is Illegal to discriminate against job applicants on the basis of sex Starting pay for police - work averages about 18,500 I per year, with salaries much higher m large cities A beginning officer m New York annually earns $11,944 where, police nel ara covered by medical, I hospital and life insurance, disability benefits and sub- - stantial pension plans Good Health ' - Requirements for police work include good physical health and stamina, an of marked deformities, 'normal hearing and 2020 ; ision (usually corrective Over-Wig, tenses are allowed) m result disquamay lification; color blindness al- -' ways does. - In most municipalities, you must be at least 21 years old " (although some departments have cadet or trainee programs) and have a high school diploma or its equivalent. As enme detection grows more scientific, police authorities recommend that a student aiming for a law enforcement career emphasize chemistry, physics, mathematics and physical science courses ' ' Also suggested are courses that develop tnc ability to communicate ideas and facts Not Required Although it s not required, dpplicdiits with advanced training in criminology or . police administration can ex-he to for better qualified pect employment For those who want a college education but cant afford it, being a police officer makes it possible . Families love Park Place From the word "Go," families have fallen m love w.th Park Place. Now i's your move Come see the stunning redwood ex'eriors. ;l,e magnificent condominiums (specially designed for families), the big, beautiful clubhouse and swimming pool, and the pmes, open grossy spaces, play areas ht Pilme departments tree-line- park-lik- d e n landscaping., with children and areas walkways, picnic fully-grow- s Even though Park Place is already 35 sold, we still have plenty of choice locations, and four super models to choose from- & - THE THE KENTUCKIAN Price: $49,800 With 1 story, 2 bedrooms, and -- baths With family room PENNSYLVANIAN PriceW ih 2' 2 With With With With With With fireplace private court yard garage attached full basement furfmished) elegant master bedroom refnyera'Cn, range, disjjosal, dishwasher With carpeting throughout With o.r conditioning 2,21 Square Feet wood-burnin- g ar 1 often provide grants to pay for m mbers courses, lip to and including dot torn! j rogrums The FBf too, is lex king for young women, ad 'he salary is even higher $iz 151 u year while in training Mhool - hut you must have a colli gr degree Other re23 to 36 are quirements years of age, U S ciuzen hip, good physical health and agility, a minimum height of 5 feet 7 2o20 corrected vis ton, good Inuring, and a 2 - 14 $52,700 3 bedrooms and bahs With big family room W n coz fireplace Wuh large kitchen country-styl- e M With elegant master bedroom W th h.ge basement (unf nsbed' With rt qaroge-carpovV th refugerator range, disposal an J dishwasher W th cmoeting throughout With a r cord tiomrg 2 423 Square Feet , . drivers $2,000 1 W Ayti 1973 the FBI first began assign qualified females to field duty, and snue it s suih in to j new career for women y- there are now only seven female FBI agents in Hit country Eight more are in tnnmg at th P B1 Aradeniy in QuaMieu Va In addition, the Secret Serv ice has begun rtxrui'ung wuineii One of the big aivantages women have in undi never pr-toulu-'- police o luge oi W 7. !h 'or i 'hi ' h-- -s the act. an p ibv in ! so j.o v proper care ) In 350 years your seedling will be the talk of your neighborhood you qualify, Park Place wtH arrange an immediate intetpsi free cash loan on the fax credit up to the full If - $2,000 Ask a sclesman for details during our Grand Opening ft ( m my people sense a psycholopu.il barrier uton dealing with a ntuforimd office! a feeing thev don t have win one n civilian dress especially wb'ti its a woman Andwlcn oi Kin,, on criuns -- aa.n, t ted against women the f ma'e r,.pe redwood seedling (Redwoods will grow in Utah with downpaymt-r- t work is that they go un not en w a crowd jxupie dun t expect a ciu young woman to be a lOtur.ty ofuier Moreover Anyone who visits Park Place during our Grand Opening will receive a free Most Park Place family condominiums qualify for the full $2,000 tax credit You can use the tax credit money to hcp make your liteii'-- First Free redwood seedling loan interest-fre- e h: This is our big weekend our Grand Opening and you're invited to join the fun We II serve refreshments We'll have balloons and banners And we'll be dehghted to show you our beautiful condominiums. -' Come any time Saturday or Sunday between 11 am. r and 7pm n ... i EAtW y Advance to Park Place's Grand Opening this weekend. hzu !lfi P Family Condominiums 5600 South Van Winkle Expressway Models open: A fCif f Vt r o4 fh Bo er C cn'p y io 7 doily 11 4 v? 521-099i 9 r rt i m wwnAti o 4J aiSMWa'iakb- haahw Jt VPvu |
