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Show tU The Salt Lake Tribune, Tharsda, Ann Landers Etiquette :: Speech lessons wont help columnist with crooked mouth IT JEANNE HAEMS i x .uniary 8, 1973 Dear Landers: Ann I when that letter from a man whose initials were P.B. He said your voice on the radio sounds like a grinder full of nails. His description was quite accurate but he didnt go far enough. Ill bet he has never seen you on TV. Are you aware that you talk out of the side of your mouth like a gangster? For the life of me I cant understand why a person who makes so many public appearances has never had speech lessons. laughed .' Stand toll, arms hanging at your sides. Relaxed, good posture is an earmark of poise. I read Ill bet my bottom dollar this is ONE letter I will never see in the paper. Straighten Up And Talk Right Right Dear lp: Speech lessons wouldnt help. My mouth is crooked. Please send that bottom dollar and any other loose buck you can lay your to the American hands on Cancer Society in New York. The address is: 219 East 42nd Street, New York, New York 10017. I cost the American Cancer Society $30,000 last ladies' toe pieces Long-weari- nujite ng or leather with metal plate. year. Thats what they had to spend on postage when I suggested in this column that women write for the Self Breast examination booklet. (P.S. The booklet is still available and every woman between 20 and 70 should have one.) 89c ready-mad- e Hamburger lyves purse handles most colors nn 1.49 !Z CM I Am Landers me out of my gourd. I first noticed him when I caught him staring at me. He never spoke a word just stared. I found out from kids who knew him that he has always been shy, so I decided to make the first move. I wrote a note and asked him if I reminded him of somebody. No reply. Just more staring. I thought maybe he considered it a stupid question and I was ashamed of myself for writing that note so I heard his birthuay was the following week, and I sent him a birth-- , day card and wrote a few lines. No reply. Yesterday I saw him staring at me again and decided to' keep my eyeballs hooked into his until he looked away. Would you believe we stared at each other for a full 60 seconds? Finally, my eyes began to water and I had to turn away. How can I find out his true feelings for me? Why would a guy stare at a girl for six months if he didnt dig her? Should I ask him or what? What should my next move be? Sick Of Games Dear S.O.G.: You've made two moves and the net result has been zero. My advice is to write him off. If he wants to get to know you hell stop staring and He pointed out that many veterans had to return to hospitals because of emotional problems created by the communitys lack of sensitivity and understanding especially if they were disfigured or badly crippled. experienced the same reactions which The Gimp expressed when we have taken our handicapped friends to public activities. Once we were asked not to bring a man into a restaurant because his presence makes the other customers sick. True, handicapped persons must learn not to be hypersensitive, but we need to educate the community to feel more comfortable around the handicapped. They should not stare and gasp, nor turn their heads away, as if the sight is ' too horrible to look at. None of our immediate family is disabled, but we have Please, Ann, let the community knew they have a responsibility to keep social contacts available to people who have a physical, mental or emotional difference. Thank you. Mr. and Mrs. Henry W. Ellis, Executive Directors of Outlook, Longwood, Fla. start talking. Dear Ann Landers: We were disappointed in your answer to The Gimp. You indicated that the insensitive clods in the world cannot be changed and the amputee who couldnt handle his problem had obviously failed to make a complete adjustment. A person with your enormous readership is in an excellent position to help change the attitudes of the insensitive clods and believe me, handicapped persons and their families need all the help they can get. Is it asking too much normal people of to adjust a little and show some kindness to those who have lost a limb, or their sight, or have distorted speech due to deafness or cerebral palsy? Dr. Howard Ruck brought this forcibly to our attention during World War II when the veterans were coming home. passion and moral ity and I thank you Howard Rusks phy, A World To (Random-House- ), people who must face life responsM-- with a physical handicap. -- for it. autobiograCare For" is a fasci- nating history of rehabilitation in this country. Dr. Rusk is my candidate for sainthood and the book is a must for all FLORIDAS FINEST Flamingo convenient Dear Friends: You have given us all a lesson in com- - in the 8-o- Willow Creek elects slate Willow Creek Country Club Ladies Assn, installed officers at a luncheon Saturday at the club. Mrs. Cooper John president. Mrs. W. is Cooper j can z. EACH : CAN i MAKES A Other officers are Mrs. Lyman RPeinauer, vice president; Mis. William C. McEl-rosecretary; Mrs. Carrol Hummel, treasurer, and Mrs. LeRoy Petersen, historian. Committee chairmen include Mrs. John C. Eberhcrdt, social chairman; Mrs. Don K. Winterhalter, publicity; and Mrs. Douglas Duncan, hospitality. Entertainment was provided by Jenna Vee Soeffker, Anne Decker and Barbara Danielson. Mrs. Dave Pullman was chairman. y, QUART The Wests Favorite Orange Juice. Buy at r umuinoN Clean out junk Houses filled with accumulations of paper and junk are hard to clean and are also fire traps. 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