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Show 19 The Slt Lsle Tribow, Monday, May II, 13T1 :Ann Landers: Mature Outlook Helps in Dealing With a Marital Crisis Ana Linders: I read keen interes. the elo-- c --fit defense of The Other man, since I was viciimiatu ; D-a- r liarAuxiliary Installs a. dTew Slate Mrs. F. Alan Fletcher was Stalled president of the Salt take County Bar Auxiliary faturday at a f Other offl-e3'- ' - I ; 8 are Mrs. 9 orman S, vice Johnson, One several jears ago. Granted, there is some validity to her statement that a substantial msmuge cannot be destroyed by a third party, but surely you know, Miss Landers, tiiat NO marriage is by year. There are periods in every marriage when a husband becomes restless,' vulnerable call it what you will especially, if he is over 40 and not cutting the mustard. The best of men have been know to succumb to the charms of opportunistic female who senses his insecurity and steps in at the propitious moment The wise wife doesnt become panicky and hysterical (a normal reaction when one considers the hurt). In other words she doesnt throw out the baby with the When it happened to me, I bath-wate- president ; Mrs. John D. r. was P e arce, secre- tary; Mrs. J. J. Bullock, reservation secretary; Mrs. Craig Adamson, treasurer; Mrs. J. Allan Crockett, Mrs. Wallace R. Bennett, Mrs. G don L. Roberts and Mrs. Robert S. Campbell, board of directors. DAR Ilonoree The Utah State Organization Of the Daughters of the American Revolution honored Mrs. franklin D. Maughan, Ogden, at a luncheon Saturday at the country Club. ; Mrs. Maughan was elected Vice president general of the Rational DAR at the recent 1JAR Continental Congress in Washington, D.C. She is a rfiember of the Golden Spike IChapter and also Is a past jiate regent. Frances Carhart, staten regent, presented Mrs. Maug-hawith an award. Libra Speaker Barbara Hood, volunteer wjiairman of the Granite Mental Health Center, will speak to members of Libra and their friends Thursday at 1 p.m. at Jhe home of Mrs. J. G. Buehl, Salt Lake City. A progress report will be given on The Casa, a proposed Interim home for emo-Jtional- ly women. disturbed thig is a new service n the Salt Lake community and anyone interested is invited to attend. ; Savings Auxiliary The Womens Auxiliary of ifie Utah Savings and Loan League will Lave its annual meeting and election of officers Wednesday at 12:15 p.m. at the Print Shop Restaurant, Arrow Press Square. Presiding at the meeting will be Mrs. Howard C. Brad-jshaSalt Lake City. Assisting her will be Mrs. Andrew runetti, Ogden; Mrs. Preben 3.; Nielsen, Salt Lake City; Mrs. John B. Anderson, Salt ,Xake City. n gourmet cooking will be presented by Ramsey. and patient. It paid off handsomely. My husband has thanked demon-'stratio- ton Nurse of Year Lena besen- "Utah named was jiorfer Nurse of the Year at the convention of the Utah Jltate Nurses Assn. Miss Besendorfer, Salt Lake 3Cify, is assistant director of -the, newly merged Salt Lake PARK CITY -- me repeatedly for my faith in him and I thank God for my faith in myself. Please print this letter if you think it might help other wives who mzj be facing the same problem. It could get some tortured gal through a Mrs. Territorial Imcrisis. perative Dear Mrs. TJ.: Thank you for a frank and mature account of how you met and successfully dealt with a difficult situation. Dear Ann Landers: Im so mad I cant see straight. Ive been going with this clown for seven months. i.sss than 60 days ago he had a birthday. I to. My birthday was yesterday. He took me to dinner. I waited all through the meal for him to pull something out of h's pocket Nothing happened. Just as we were about to leave the restaurant he handed me an envelope. I opened it and inside war a card on which he had written: "Dearest Love: I know today is your birthday. Iam sorry to tell you that your gift a lovely mink jacket wrhich I purchased at Martha Weatwas destroyed in the hereds fire. Yours, Jimmie. I managed a weak laugh, but believe me, my heart wasnt in it. If this is his idea of a joke I think Id better find someone with a better sense of humor. What do you think? Gift Rapped. Dear Rapped: I hope the dinner was good because I have a hunch thats all youre going to get. Some joke. Dear Ana Laniers: Our daughter is 23. She married a rat who is allazy ready cheating on her. She is six months pregnant. Should we encourage her to get a divorce? We dont think it makes any sense for a young girl to live with a mistake forPlease rush ever. your Mother Who Saw It advice. Coming Dear Mothei r Keep quiet. It co-go- is her mistake and we vould take her everyfelt this would give where. We our child a feeling of security that so many children lack today. We visit friends a couple nights a 'week. We always take Linda along. She is well behaved and sits quietly in the living room or, if she is tired, site finds a bed and she goes to sleep on it. If she longer late sleeps up stays the next morning. Some of our friends have told us that they think tiiis is bad for the child. What are Togetherness your views? Utah State University, Extension Services What do you know about the Utah Taxpayers Assn.? Jack Olsen, the executive secretary of this organization, quoted some staggering statistics, plus other into formation with concerned con- Dear Parents: sumers. In 1921, I. a .1 Miss from through- - Thackeray out the state who Mt that government should be more efficient, especially in the way the taxpayers money was handled, joined forces to form the j-- wtH you Ak " 4waw. thi5 comm w Send Send tor her booklet., "Uv TO Tell Th. MtwwKO-SeAnd How luw' tn rcm 35 cents tn stamped eivetooe request t Aw Unwti eajj yw et Home Service Detriment, Sett Ukc Trtbone, P 0. Boa City, Utah MU. Three-year-ol- don't belong everywhere. Whats more, its not Redeemer Lutheran School up with them; keep them; keep yourself involved and willing to exert your influence. Keep j APPLICATIONS TAKEN NOW FOR THE 1971-197- 2 aCHOOL YEAR Grades K through 6th nJ Quality Education and Religious Instruction Reasonable Tuition and Registration Fees For further information please contact HaroM D. Ebke, Principal or Telephone after 486-869- 8 I Redeemer Lutheran School 1955 E. Stratford AveSalt Lake City, Utah one-thir- share number of bus inessmen the aim: to control spending and thereby control taxes. to Mr. Olsen, According Utah public schools take more of the tax dollar than any other function of state government. Our schools use 65 percent of all property taxes, all of the money from individual income taxes, all corporate income taxes and about d of all the sales taxes. And there is our tax burden. What can we do if we dont like that burden? Said Mr. Olsen, Get involved and find out how tax dollars are spent in your school district. Dont wait until you get your tax notice next fall. That will be too late to do anything. "Budget hearing meetings must, by law, be held in each district prior to June 30. The exact time and place is announced ia local papers. Usually, the only people that attend these budget hearings are those within the system, demanding more and more funds. There is usually no one an present to tothe demand for accounting taxpayer the money being spent Concerned consumers might well from local action committees. The members of such committees should be responto sible citizens, willing inform themselves, to become involved and to sit down and thoughtfully consider the pro- ' Parents. 467-435- 2 By Helen Thackeray Consumer Information Specialist iter to be healthy for a . ialt confed a steady diet versation. Im lo - over' but I think v doing it. her lazy rat. It should also be hei decision, since she will have to abide by the consequences. Dear Ann I Anders: Our only child is an adorable little girl of 3. Before Linda was born my husband and I had long talks about how we would raise her. He decided she would be a participating that member of the family Be Concerned About Tax Structures Utah Taxpayers Assn. Every state has a Taxpayers Assn, that joins with each other to make up a national organization, although each operates independently. The purpose of the association is to bring efficiency to state and local governments; it serves as the watchdog of the public purse, so to speak. The emphasis for its work is on government spending 7 3-Up- a right shatter-proo- f completely day in, day out, 365 days a k ktficheon at Towne he House Athletis 3ub. bought him a beautiful gift. I don't mind telling you I shopped all over town and spent more money than I had Miss Netliery Tells Troth News of the engagement of Mary Lou Nethery to Jan Brown was announced Sunday at an announcement tea. The event was held at the home of the bride-elect- s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Bill Nethery, Salt Lake City. Parents of the future bridegroom are Dr. and Mrs. H. Jess Brown, Bountiful. No wedding date has been ceedings. Mr. Olsen urges citizens to keep in touch with local school board representatives. They need and want your opinions and ideas. Tell them if you think they are doing a good job; also if you think they are not doing a good job. Dont elect school board members, then abandon them for their two years in office. Removes unsightly accumulation of wax Leaves hard glossy lasting finish. announced. Miss Nethery is a senior at Westminster College. 5HEEN ASK YOUR GROCER aes yms Dick Trice Invites You Vi to See . . . Health Depart-"men- t. She has served as president of die Utah State Nurses .Assn., ihe Utah Public Health Assn, and the Salt Lake Area Mental Health Assn. In 1967 she was awarded the Theodore Bruce Beatty Award !by the Utah Public Health Assn, for her outstanding vfoic and achievements in .public health. City-Coun- ty - Carlesonized Car Reconditioned top, bottom, inside and out just to the middle to demonstrate the before and after of the important Carlesomzing process. The only place in the world you can get a Carlesonized Used Car. Just one of the things PRICE- - CARLESON PONTIAC Open cMdifvryN S. 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