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Show 14 Ann Lander- - The Salt Lake Tribune, Saturday, July IS, 1970 T A T T i vj i i inL TT T T D Don t Cut Open Golf Balls Stevenson-IIel- t Wasatch Presbjlerian Church was setting for the Friday wedding of Sarah Stevenson and Jacob Lloyd Helt Jr. A reception was given at Hidden Valley Country Club. The University Club was setting tor the rehearsal dinner. The bride, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thajer B. Stevenson, Salt Lake City, has been residing in Mountain View, Calif., and was graduated from the University of Redlands, Redlands, Calif. She affiliated with Alpha Theta Phi. The bridegroom, son of Mr. and Mrs. Jacob Helt, Colfax, Wash., has been residing in Den-- v er, and has attended San Francisco City College. -- I Dear Ann Landers: Please tell tne parents who read jour column to warn liieir children against cutting open golf balls to see whats inside. A child in our neighborhood did a little investigating yesterday and he was horribly injured. I dont want to go into detail but the boy will never look the same. Kids don't realize that the center of the ball sometimes contains sulfuric arid as well as zinc sulfide and other materials which can be harmful. You do a lot of good, Ann. Heres a chance to do a little Lamore. Pass this along. Ind. fayette, Dear Laf: I'm passing it. And now I hope millions of parents will mention this to their small fry especially the bright ones with inquisi- rp i r ""Kt. Vii : : i Terrie Derrick Terrie Derrick and Donald N. Spradling will exchange wedding vows July 23 at the home of the brides parents, Mr. and Mrs. Vaughn B. Derrick, Salt Lake City. Mr. Spradling is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Donald R. Spradling, Salt Lake City. .Sr " Mrs. Jacob L. Helt Jr. tive minds. Speaking Frankly No Plan May Be Best Plan By Mary McGrath It is the fate of the human animal to come up with a plan at the very moment that doing nothing might be the best solution of all. No one seems content to leave well enough alone and see what develops. No one is secure and confident enough to allow others the strength of their own mistakes in order to teach them needed lessons. It is a particular tailing of parents that they cant seem to let go of their childrens lives long enough to allow their kids to grow up for themselves. You see it all the time. A father for his sons automobile after making specific requirements for ownership, but when the first crisis comes, and Sonny cant Dad make the payments, takes over with no withdraw al of car privileges. A kid gets in trouble either in school or with the law, and parents, aftr issuing direct commands that this m, WcQralt time hes going to have to handle it himself, immediately grab the ball away to fight with the teachers, or hire a lawyer, thereby saving him the trouble of facing himself and his problems. Husbands and wives do It to one another, each stepping in, before the crisis has really accumulated to soften the blow and ease the pain. Governments do it. making plans for their people before they feel the pinch of crisis, doing for them what they really should be doing for themselves. In every case, it is a large ego-tri- p disguised as an act of outright compassion and kindliness. It is the most subtle form of control that locks the receiver into a posture of eternal gratitude. Its a temptation few people to see the way can resist out of a crisis, and not insist on taking the tour. To be the only one with a plan in a moment of crisis is a situation most of us can little endure without marshalling the troops into our form of action. But lets face it folks: For our family, our friends and, maybe the world, there are times when having no plan for others to follow may really be the best plan of all! Double-Dut- y Dear Ann Landers: It happened again Wednesday and I decided this time I would sit down and write to Ann Landers. My husband and I attended the funeral of a dear friend. She was in her 60s and had been ailing for quite some time. As we stood in a small group outside the funeral chapel several neighbors and acquaintances exchanged the guilty one. Sincerely. Friend. - Dear Friend: Here's your letter and those readers who find that the shoe fits, I hope they put on a pair and walk over to see someone theyve been meaning to visit J, oCance one of these dr small pleasantries, mostly about what a wonderful how many woman she was acts of kindness she had performed for others. Repeatedly we heard this sentiment expressed: I was going to see If I had her tomorrow . . . known she was so sick I surely would have gone to see her . . . When will people realize that tomorrow is promised to no one? Why must sorrow come before we realize the transitory nature of life? Why cant we try to be kind to ease someones burden? Those of us who are well and able to do for others should stop for just a moment and think I am fortunate. What can I do for who is not so someone lucky? I'll bet if you print this letter almost everyone who reads it will wonder if he is Dear Ann Landers: I hope you dont think this is too dumb to print. I need your help. Im a teen-ag- e girl who to lots of slumber goes parties. Ive always said my prayers before going to bed and my bedtime prayer has become such a habit that I cant sleep untl Ive gone through the entire ritual. Some of the girls tease me about it and it and make me feel babyish. Last night someone said, Look who still says her I felt like a paryers! Can you think of an answer off? Akron Teen that will turn them Dear Ak: Why bother? They not need to be turned on off. The girls who belittle you are probably envious. Faith can be a remarkable source of strength. 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