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DEAR - :IY1!!:::::‘::i14 :A :!:: Edward Richardson talks with students Ile is visiting professor at ESC rrhink First Then Speak Write by Kitte Turmell THINK zation FIRST then talk then write" said H Edward Richardson PhD generalizations that simply tell more about how a person feels than how he 'Women thinks" Examples: 'That drivers are dangerous' book is the greatest ever' That's saying a lot — most of it inaccurate or Be precise with facts and reasons when making a statement "Clear concise thinking speech and writing are essentials if you want to get ahead in school or on the job" d a brisk Richardson seeming man in light-blu- e jacket and cool dark slacks is a native of Richmond Ky and on the faculty at the University oZ Louisville Ky As a visiting summer professor at the University of Southern California he told me: Dr young "Keep up to date Be prepared to 'index' statements preferably with interesting facts that are current Give concrete information Be ready to quote s anecdotes and sources if asked example "You can learn a great deal about how to talk and what your words mean by studying semantics" he assured "This gets you out of the highly personal meanings people communicate through words and into areas al agreement "STUDIES show that many have highly personal meanings for words that do not relate to reality Some are so personal that other people cannot share those meanings "There are times in conversation when we are not realistic We suffer from the habitual misuse and abuse of our language — from misunderstandings or being misunderstood "You can avoid a lot of misunderstanding if you can interpret gestures — the silent language The major problem in communication is the generali 06 di' 014mif Avoid "IF YOU feel you must use slang to express your meaning words that avoid seldom-usemay not be familiar to the person listening to you otherwise you run the risk of losing your reader completely Recent d now include many slang words and colloquial or fresh meanings for old words "Good writing and good conversation are clear thinking made visible and audible "The first steps to clear thinking are to listen well and read widely You're not just a sending set You are also a receiving set" said Dr Richardson word we use is a In North Africa natives may fall to the ground when someone is cursing them believing that thus the curse of which the words are a symbol "Every symbol if ft will go over their heads and do no harm We often fight over words because- - we misunder- stand each other have different symbols "Thinking through your ideas will help you express them in language that has general meaning rather than in words that have special personal meaning to you alone which do not reach others "WORD change meanings through the ages For example in Greek biblos meant books made from the papyrus bark of ancient Egypt In Latin biblia meant books or volumes In Chaucer's time bible still was used to mean a book but also referred to the sacred book of Chi istianity In modern English of course it has come to mean only "The Bible" "To a less extreme degree words change meaning from generation to generation Study of semantics plus clear thinking before you put hand to typewriter or pen to paper will help you express yourself clearly in a way comprehensible to the person to whom you are speaking or writing In addition you may learn to break through the shells of preconceived thought-pattern- s or pejudices "Learn to recognize aria as old generalizations that are phony Whatever you say or write should have particular verifiable sensory application to the subject at hand" |