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Show DESERET - NEWS, Monday, September 11, 1972 Husband Returns, Olympus Hills . . . Foothill Village Valley Fair . . , Ogden . . But . . . Downtown Provo . , . . By MARY MARKER DEAR MARY MARKER: Joe, my husband of 20 years left me last spring for someone much younger ..I and very pretty. After a while she decided to stay with her husband and keep her family together, so Joe came back home. I really wanted him, too, and forgave him. (But she still keeps be him). We had been so very much in lev?, and we had a good maniage. Now he says he cannot love me but he is not really trying. With our four children and neighbors and friends, his behavior is normal. He even puts on an act with me when someone is around. But when we are alone, he won't let me touch his hand, or even his shoulder. He says, I dont desire you any more. I try to keep a normal home, pretending, smiling, being patient and understanding. But I cannot continue much longer. I do not nag, demand or insist and never have. But I love my husband and want him.. our black & white play a wimiin done Winners all, these check. Mix White & Black in a will all it around them any way you edds up to an endless array of great looks for fall. And because the fabric is 100 textured polyester knit, they feel just as good as look . . . with all the easy-ca- re they convenience you could want. See them in Misses' Sportswear, sizes 6. 4SESSST free-spirit- .We planned our new home together and both worked so hard for it, and our new car, and many other delightful things we have at long last. 6-1- Will he ever snap out of this? Is he feeling hurt? Guilty? Or what? He is kind and polite to me, but his silence and I dont love you, crush me. Our love was so truly deep, I cannot believe this. Will he never love me again? I kneel in prayer for guidance, for help, two or three times a day. And if God does not hear me, there must be something terribly wrong up there. How can I win back his love? Is there any hope? I wish some men with a similar expenence would write and explain things to me. NEEDS HELP. &&&& DEAR NEEDS HELP: A few lines cannot answer this fully. You gave no name, so please get in touch with me through the Deseret News. Gentlemen answering your request may use fictitious Hi -- names. Let me say that an answer to prayer sometimes comes, not immediately upon the asking, but later, unexpectedly and rewardingly. Cruel as the effort is, continue to maintain a cheerful, affectionate home, with neatness, good food, fresh flowers on the dinner table. Make youself altogether sweet and lovable, but let any of intimacy come not you. He is suffering emotions of suggestion from your husband shame, pilt , remorse, forlornness, many losses (whatever he decides to do), an illove, and to repent and do licit, a struggle right. ' His nerves are jangled. Give him peace, quiet, silent faith he will FEEL it. He requires time to get his emotions in order. , r - fWWWlk-i- ,f. And remember, love cannot be acquired on demnd. It must be evoked (called forth from its hiding place) patiently, subtly with finesse. M.M. Navajo Indian Medicine Men Making Comeback Navajo Indian medicine men and their traditional methods of psychialnc care are making $23.00. Vest in red, Arnel triacetate shirt in blqck & Left: Long skirt, $ 3.00. 1 white print, $13.00. a comeback. Center Blazer jacket, Traditionally trained Navajo work on the belief "singers that illness is a result of disharmony with the universe, according to a report in the latest issue of The Sciences, York published by the New Academy of Sciences. Belted cuffecf pants, $20.00. Red sleeveless shell of 100 nylon. $7.00, The report, Medical School for Medicine Men, describes how they bring about the restoration of harmony through the proper ceremony or song. 7TAGE ccssse Jnr Carton at Your Neighborhood MILK DEPOTS Thi ,3!i Erata Wed. Sepl. LOCATIONS, 20Bi check-mate- s $28.00. asasats Pleated skirt, $1 7.00 Vest, $22.00. Polka dot blouse of 100 triacetate, $15.00. Right: by j ! casuaLS CALIFORNIA IN- - C3 |