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Show wwmffw 'm murmm&cr Compassion Needed If Child Is Jailed MARGUERITE Bv DA IS lavver ecomnencied 'ha hath child hell plavame is important to police pi osec utors and I WASHINGTON tic A telephone (UPI) call brings parents the shocking neves t is being that their son daughter Pd'tPt' go to ludgcs .is well held by police. What should they do Most important, thev should tell the hi - m 'eimtis rutds south not to give police any mlor.nation except his name and address Then thev should call a lawyer, immediuteh That advice comes lrom ettornev eii L. Chayet writing m 'Todav s Ldu cation, a pubhcation of the National Education Association (XK which de senbed Chayet as having wide tvpen ence and success in delewiim, oung-sleH- 'hut to the ,hild When (mbit is the time he 'lie imeal -- uppoit ut a- t r pmhablv both parents child has been m beiou ou miht make llns known to Hit police liui im philo'iiphv i' hit the less s.iui tieiiue the lavvvei arrives the hette' lhavel advised sliold tlu parent ask toi spocitic police intormatiori on tin (lunges and the cninmstanees at th time ot airesl ' He certainly should vou aje entitled to know the charges against vnni child lhe police also ought to tell vou the circumstances of these charges voui tumble I The youngster should remain silent because the unnerving trauma oi aiies almost mvanably prompts him to mase unwise self incriminating staienuMi-- f An experienced poh e oiti hayet said cer has a built in advantage in question ing a distraught person he added . . This is the How should parents react With compassion ( ha vet said "He's just experienced ..bout the much compassion most severe anger that society can exand com press against someone, uttei can pletely taking awav ho personal liberty. It seems to me that this is the moment although thev aie otilv required to tell when parents should show as much comami the you tin- - time, date ot anesi passion as they can, no matter how difficharges cult it may be." You should trv to get as much sometimes the difficulty has eoloied as possible and make caietul adult judgment Chayet sud one father noies because knowing everything that refused to go to his son because the occurred will be oi legal assistance sight of the youth m a cell would be too whether you think so. or not ' much Another said he was too angry Then should parents try to get then-chilat his son tor getting into trouble. out of jatl? Other parents may deny that niv By all means. There s nothing more child' could have committed the act of degrading, more dehumanizing. than to And some may which he is accused be put in a cage , . U you are not pei foi the unhappy blame themselves nutted to see your child get legal assistevent None m these is of much help to ance immediately to find out whv the vhdd If the child appears bruised oi What is called lor first and foremost beaten, "ask how these iniunes vvho to the is compassion and sensitivity .suftered. and insist on anv medical as' needs ot the youngster, Chayet said. sistance you think he needs Next comes the need for cool and raWhat if a child seems to be obviouslv tional retlection on just what has ocguilty' curred and an attempt to help things "Never try to make sue h a dec ision. along rathei than impede the process The legal question Whai g guilt . is by anger, denial, oi guilt. complex. The state miGt always prove moment when parents should show as as they inlor-matio- n rJ ' 'e i is ( By JACK ANDERSON- - WASHING ION Richard Nixon and Leonid Brezhnev reached a "tacit undei-standin- g during their secret Krem lm conversations that the two superwill power start tiotn to disengage letnain "I he President came home limn Moscow convinced that the Russians want to end the Aieinam Wat but riont want to appeal less stalwart in their .support of Hanoi than the Chinese The wai has been a diain on the Russians who have been supplving North Vietnam with expensive military haid ware Out of the Moscow meeting, theie-formav come a reduction m both Soviet and Vmeruan arm-- - shipments to the rival Vietnams Roth Nixon and Brezhnev expressed a willingness, d tney didn t reach a piecise agreement, lo phase down nulitaiy aid to the opposing sides The sublet is so delica'e inside the Kiemlin hoyieier. that the Piesident carelullv retrained tiom discussing Vietnam m his IV to the Soviet people with him He bi ought to Moscow which pout iv the background papers Kremlin leader as almost paianoiac about the Chinese In the eailv war veais the Soviets won id have nothing to do with peace et torts lest it coniiim ( hinese charges that thev ueie suit on it gin lueiulh told American Ambass.idoi Llevvellvn Thompson in Moscow that the lole ot lhe mediator was uoccimtortable rtiev the either complicated he said oi pretended thev pioblem were doing something when m tael thev weie not Kosygin said ms inienention in London had provoked in Peking but luiv that the Chine e had been the vv inners in the end when his ettnrts laded Then he asked Thompson suspiciouslv whethi the t hinese had approached the I s (about the) poss.bditv ot negotiations on Vietnam' the ambassador conjectured alterwaid that Kosvgin mav have thought the hmese encouiaged the Inited States to start negotiations c the fail and thus would thev knowmg Sov let L nion Net in a lasc mating aside, Kosvgin retailed that he personailv had been m Hanoi when the Inited States began bombing North V letnam "Why did not the I S turn to him at that time and explain to him its probhe asked the American ambas lems' sador Kosygin didn't say, however, what he would hai e done Nixon this background handled the ( hinese angle delicately in his talks-- with Brezhnev No tianscript Was made except lm the Presidents personal notes However, he told aides afterward that the ViPtnam discussions but "procluftive had been intent Both the United Sta'es and Russia he said, will begin backing away lrom the Ir. ot view wai reliised even to deliver a peace message to the North Vietnamese. Lyndon Johnson merely wanted to not if v Hanoi that he was ordering a bombing pause I am not a posthian." grumped NikoUi Firvubin. the Deputy fmeign Minister, when he was asked to relay that the the message. He suggested own wavs of find their Vmericans transmitting messages Vmenian Ambassador Foy Kohlei. in a leport to the State Department, " blamed the incident upon Soviet Communists. Chinese Hie toward Washington was surprised, therefore, to find Soviet Prennei Aleksei Kosvgin eager two vears later to serve as an intermediary between the Inited 'Rates .nd North Vietnam He unde the otlei in Febninrv !4ci7 during talks with British leaflets in ondim His plioric calls weie inteiceptid and he was oveihead repotting iiibilantlv 'e Bv De-r- et an illegal act to go not voungster must ao bel he can heat tne svstem Askeu whether children oi vom patents jre nioie likelv 'ft Min aloul ot the law man those ol tiv an thonlanan parents Uhavet said he had eleiended youngsters liunj a w.de range ol backgrounds It had to make a blanket si ue ment I would probable say that ti e lac k ol realistic rational guidelines iaulv and lustlv applied causes the most piohlems at home as well as with the law ami with s.mbols ol auliimi'v outside Hn famih . On balance lee! that the i hild wdiose parents are verv permissive and provide less than adequate dibctpllm can usuallv be dealt with more efteciivdv tnan the child who is lebellmg agaoisi a and strict authont.it i.m misguided background What it the child is innocent' xnnutled lice Du Tow may Chaiet advises unless you aie agaiiisi nolitvmg police absolute!1 ceium thev will not bring u mortal charges Most communities a mental health oil ei other resouic es ccntei, a drop in centei oi a hot line which can put you in touch with someone oi some place that will help you m What it a his child. the lannlv parent tinds some drug cm school sens-tivitv- Hiehrei in Mosiovv Iteu s i gie.t' of achieving Hie aim H the V lelfialiise will uiulel slat'd Hit piesenl itu.ilion tnat we h,.e passed to ihcm They will have to decide (lessitiilit i lhe North Vutnamese however elected tne oveituies Vftei .vatd, Kos l syster, the ne- including cessity of closing severjl schools. Mate law allows Houston to annex unilaterally (of its own voiitum) up to area of 4711 i9 iM,rcent of its ba.ic In other vvoids, squall1 miles even seal Ti si lie 'lilies a year toi thiee veais has aiitbuiitv to take "lei 11") squaie miles ol suiiound mg aiea Houston Mavot I nine Welch told this repoiter in an interview We (inn ! have lo appeal to people to 1 257 1 "What is called for first and foremost is compassion and sensitivity when your child is jailed," explains Neil L. Chayet. Aou aie nor a chemist and theie is no obligation on vou lo sec me a ihemi cal analvsis In nwa MtualmiG the best thing is to dispose permancnlh ol tie substance as qmc klv as possible Be cause iheie is no positive ideniilu aiion ol tne stiosiarae vou ate not obligated to intorm lhe police Rut d the child apparentlv is experimenting with he.m drugs, you have a most important obh gatmn to see lhal he gets help nom qualified person in com commurnii ( have! the youngest trustee in the historv of Tutts Imversitv. is a tacultv member ol Boston I mversitv law and medical schools a statt member ot the psvehiatrv department ot the Massachusetts General Hospital, and chan man ot the Farmlv Law ( ommiftee ot the Massac husetts Bat ssociation j lhe winds not nn tmn slowlv but a gremlin Ii.g also tended lip voui claims. The Dept ot Human Kesouues Development. San Bernardino, lias seat died their files and cannot lincl anv claim either fur vour August or pt.l hospital confinements. (They (tout sac what happened to the questioning letieis you aho seat ) The only record .hev have lor you shows an unemplovment claim beginning A .Nov 22 1970 of now if you Welv . continuously disabled beginning Aug 1471 to the present, you will need only one claim If vou recoveied sulliciently to do voui tegular work toi mote than IT (lavs between August and March 27. 1472 Ihen two claims aie requited In any case they should be filed at once. And attachyour letter to the copy of the letter thev have sent you to the claim tor identification purposes Tlieve Shipped Too Lete; Re sent for two fishing poles and J. Carlton's, Inc., Farming-dal- e. didn't get them we wrote and asked for a refund. M far nothing tan you help get oar N.Y., on Feb. 15. When we Three 'Creation' Soloists LI NDSTROM Deseret News Mumc Editor Three soloists have been announced lor lhe Salt Lake (batoiio Societv s pel forma o e ot Hdwins oratorio ( i eat ion Tile Mndav (11) m the Bv HAROI D labernacle p m at 2 lhe soloists a iv Btam lage soprano lrom i abt (lendale who is a member ot the I os Vngeles oasi (mild Opeia the Pautic West Opera Co. the Oiai Music Festival and has sung with the Eastman Rochesiei Nancv MUSICAL WHIRL Pasafterta simphonv and with the southern ( alitoinia Mormon ( hmr m ine I es Angetes Music ( entei graduate ol the Kastman st hool ot Music. Miss Bramlage has also appeared as a g'lest sotoist with the Robert Shaw ( hoi ale and sang with Beverlv Sills in the Hnllvwcind Bowls production ot fa V lraviata I tah s own popuiat Robert Peterson baritone will also be a guest soloist m The ( reation ' Bob has become nation-al- li n m comer! opera and ' oratorio He sang with the Vwi )mk I horal sonetv and the New V ork l Choir under Leonard Bernstein Renter and t.eorge Sell also sang on NR s television Wai and and Peace opera Omnibus ' He appeared on the Belt In! He by mplionv Ihis will not mark Mgs Bramlases I tah debut She has been the soloist in the annual peilormance ot Handels Messiah ' She has also been guest soloist in the "Messiah . pioduitums ol the Telephone Horn This will be Bob third solo role tor the salt take Oratorio Societv He ang Pressure On Eyeball the bantone 1470 and FJidh n m role in the Messiah Mendelssohns oiatono. lk The third soloist will be M T S. I am W. active, in good health ist This started about three years ago. ' you why your doctor doesn t refer you to a specialist, maybe you haven t made it dear that you have this trouble repeatedly. ou can ask him to refer you to a specialist, or go on vour own There are different possibilities lor the tudmg vi could be trouble in the eye itself, sum or i souk! be a matter of circulation m the head and eye. An eye specialist or a neurologist could evaluate the situation. I can't tell SPEAKING OF POLITICS move back into the eilv We say. 'Wail h'tle while and wo II come and get you, a he said This power ol annexation, ot course, of stop the rapid development business and residential enterprises outside the city limits, but it's done tor other purposes than to escape lrom higher city taxation the mayor explained. doesnt Houston has a lo going lor it, includ- science-technolog- y ing a rapidlv-growineconomv triggered largely by location here ol the manned space eiatt center The citv hasdoub'ed in population everv 20 vears since IS TO and at the las cen sus (1970) had 2i2 S02 residents 1 ' its importance as a it is among Hu nu sc lentil (onunumtv lion s leaders in medical research and is exoer encmg rapid grow in as a lot national harness fine head-quarte- This has helped maintain the downtown 3ie.i a.s a (.lean. aitiaUive and piospeious sector of the city, contrail-tthe expei icnce m many large American cities where business has fled and blight and decay have taken over Of the 20 top cities m the V S . according to Mayor Welch, Houston is the only one that continues to set .records m central business district retailing and this despite the development in recent years ol a number of major suburban shopping centers James r Wam-ne- to Utah who is also audiences The noted recitalist is now a college prole sor m San Leandro. Calif. He has sung with the Salt Lake Oratorio boctetv m its perfonnames ot the Messiah ' m 1965 1970. and 1971 Mr. Wainner gamed national prominence for his solo roles m the nationally telecast performances of the Messiah ' with the prestigious Handel and Haydn Oratorio Society of Boston m 1904 He appeared with the National Symphony. Washington, DC, Houston the Cleveland Orchestra, and the I s Naval Academy Choir. well-know- n Svm-phon- v. The Carmel APPOC.GI VTl R AS Bach Festival that attracts a 'number of I tah music buffs and frequently involves-Utamusicians (Norma Lee Madsen, for one;, will run year from July under the direction, as always, of Sandor Salgo . . , Los The Philharmonic Angeles Orchestra will preface its IS Friday evening programs next season with a senes of interviews and discussions. Could it be stealing a feature from the BYV pre Utah Symphony concert senes m the Assembly Hall . . . Whv is Ehrtmg Sixteen being dropped as the music director and conductoi of The rumor perthe Detroit Symphony sists that his fellow countryman from Sweden Goeren Gentele. new manager ot the Met. is engaging him for ar. im- portant poMtiou at the Metropolitan-OperWhich really means that Sixteen is not being dropped; he has asked that his new contract not be renewed. h ys 0 a holics wno have first been treated at the prison (arm and who are deemed to material for rehabilitation. The cost of the house, explained the is relatively modest at $162 (WO per year, compared with the Si million annual cast of processing Houston s drunks lrom arrest to prison farm. roa-o- r, Of 366 alcoholics sent to Pioneer House in 1971, 183 of them weie able to return to work or to their famnties. About the same number were handle! ( Jti7), and a year later less than a Imrd had beer, reanested for repeat ot tenses said Welch in 1970 Among the reasons for this are the development ot downtown attrae'inns related to early Houston hislon ihese Allens include Old Maiket square reLanding Park and the Long Row a ol the citv s tir-- t shopping production center Mayo) Welch abo takes pride ,n now "kid mw ' programs lo rehabilitate drunks :n Houston The citv maintains a sort ot haitvay lvuse called "Pioneer House' toi alco 96 back? T L.S., Stone. Idaho. sometimes trying to get a return! is as ditficult as catching fish so it seems with your problem In spite of the fact you asked for a refund in a letter the middle of April they now say by the time we received vour request to cancel the item had already been shipped. If you don t want tolceep them, however, they say you can return tor a refund. 2 rt GEORGE C THOSTESON M D Dear Dr Thosteson Thiee oi tour times a year one eye goes oul as I tali it ft happens when 1 am burning, or h ive a cough or am under pressure-Thsight starts fading awav and I can see only clouded obiects, usuallv light white oi vellow Then it grows real black It lasts about live minutes usually. but todav it lasted 10. The sight gradually returns It this is aused by any particular reason, whv doesn t my doctoi send me to a special- B In addition Ins is at cumulative thus the its at pic-en- t 3o on Aug. 5. 1971 I suftered a heart attack and was confined to a hospital until Aug 20. As we had recently moved Iroin (abforma I filed for mv disability from that state. I didn't hear anything Thin on March 25. 1972 suffered another attack and was again hospitalized Hi April I was also hospitalized for tests. I filed again with (alitornia but have heard nothing I know that bureaucratic wheels turn slowly but this is ridiculous. (. T I) Salt Lake ( in. . it ,un File Again v Keep Do it Claims Lost; 1 diet a law er as qmc klv as possible Prolcslatmns ol lnnoterice to the police almost invanablv have no efteet (thev) know tnat it thev iclease a pet son thev have anesteci. thev mav hi opening themselve1 up to a suit ol false aiTust Patents should sign a wane! ot such a suit if police oltei them he chance as it s well worth it to get tneir child as quitkh as possible What should parents do it friends tpll them their child is expet lnientmg with dings write to Salt Lake City Utah 841 10 1 DEXTER C ELLIS News Political Editor This thriving ntv has a HotsTON sure lire remedv lor urban sprawl and two maladies which shrinking tax base atfiict Salt Lake City and have been causing difficulties the in public NIg MAN. Writer Views Downtown Houston 1) 7 972 DO-8- T unable d eik .m the wai The aoc ret papeis prepared tor Nixon tell how the Soviet government, in Mav 1 g lETgSCTU )i As reels from Nixon Confident Russ Want Peace A NEWS, Friday, June 9, is on itu m to do u If a child is exonerated in a boi.iei line case ('have! said, the patent m.iv t want to . pplv his own discipline cause u is unhealthv lor a child who n.is c havet said th.d a- - ,i geneial rule a patent should give no trim illation to police until the I, vwei is on the scene i It ll" DESERET breakdown ol 11)2 skidiow arrests m 1970 Showed a 62 20 peuerit cut m anest among those who had bom given tieatment at Pioneer House A lhe i.miilv e operated by the heal'h depart, nent, and offers a proper diet, cleanliness, responsive social ment, human dignity and expei seme e, stated Wekh oursel-m- In December I bought a plastic showcase for a figurine from Sunset Products, San Francisco. My check for S14.M was cashed but I have never heard from them. I wrote them again in M L.B., Bountiful. April, but no reply. They say your refund chetk was sent to you on May 22. Overpayment Acknowledged My brother and I bought some pots and pans from Spiegel in Chicago. $23.75 each. I were both to pay half my paid my half and inadvertently brother paid his half twice. Now Spiegel owes us a $2175 refund nr a credit. Ive written them about this but have never heard. J.R., Roosevelt. Theyve now acknowledged the overpayment and have sent a refund along with their sincere apologies. Just a $3.00 Gift 1 sent a check for $11. M for a Layman's Directory of L'.S. Schools to Norman Publishing Co. Pasadena, Calif, but when it came it wasn't what 1 wanted. I returned it and asked for my money back. No answer. Later 1 got a request to subscribe to a magazine offered by the same publishing company. The magazine cost $7.(6 a year so I wrote and said send it for the $16 you owe me and we'll call it square. Still no answer and now 1 want my R.L.B , money back. Do something. Downey, Idaho. Thev never oothered o answer our letter, but now you tell Us they have apologized for their slowness and that you aie o gel the magazine, as requested lot a vear. .No mention ol the extia S3 00 So you ve lust made them a gilt of $3 00 Nice money if you can get it. Apology And Refund Re woo a vacation in LasYegas irom the Complimentary Vacation Club. They sent ns a letter confirming our starting m May 5. Tken we got a letter tke day before we were to leave rescinding tken because of overcrowded cosdidens. We kad sent them a check for SUM. We failed them and asked for the money back. It never came. Can you help? The club is in Tar-mnCalif. Mrs. S.J.W . Salt Lake - Their reply to our inquiry ofters you an apology and they say they you your $14 GO stompi or w wfw in this ewnn. oiy m 4vtn wwrei will be con g a, City. vend environ1 1 They S?nt Refund have sent wui mm. i n om euwstt answered. Give vour rotai dress and teleoftone number not for publication to nplp Do-f- t Man ftetp yo-- t ) hr |