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Show C5 DESERET NEWS, Thursday, October 1, 1970 Oldsters ' Become Tactless By HENRIETTE KISH - NEW YOPK (WNS) The other night there was a discussion among a group of oldsters. A man insisted that as people get older they get more critical. a It's not really that, disagreed. We just get more outspoken. Were more inclined to say what we thick. Maybe were not as tactful, but were much more woman , honest. I have heard this argument many times, and it has valid!limits. within ty Who has a better right than we who have lived longer to tell off some of the younger ones? a man said to me not long ago. For that matter, to tell off anybody? , LOOSEN TONGUE Your hair is graying, your and middle is thickening, there should be some compensations. All through the years youve been holding your tongue. Now its time to loose it a little. , The trouble is that at just about this point others may reveal more criticism of you. Everybodys finding fdult with me now that Im older, a woman complained to a friend. Nothing I do seems to be right. Why should a few extra that make years happen? I didnt want to tell her so," the friend said after- . few last in the But ward. months I have seen several I people wince under some caus- ( tic remark from her. A sis- - , ter. A A teenage grandchild. woman who works for her. The boy who delivers her gro-- 1 ceries. Shes one of those who ' think age entities her to find Cream or Whole Kernel Eei fJlonQCi (E2EI fault but take the privilege from everyone else. . NEVER OFFENDS , , woman in her 80s has earned the reputation of bein' understanding. particularly Possibly its because she No. 303 Cans A never gives advice. But 303 Can Del Monte VGE" f TOBD.GS I Spinach or Mixed Vegetables its because ( t i c a li y unasked-fo- r mostly, I J ' think, she can say prao anything without offending. Grandma never sounds critical when I ask her what I , should do." her grandson . says. Thats why I never , mind what she says to me. I . dont remember her putting any of us down, even when we , were children. And she hasnt taken advantage of her age to . start now. He didnt use the word , tact but thats what it takes, to make most criticism palat-abiWhich reminds im of fln amusing definition I heard: Tact is the ability to make! people feel at home when you wish they were. I would say its also the abil-- , ity to criticize without really sounding critical. n) U - - A nT - e. Ha! KHnnn uci muiiio TFomaG (SciOsup Bottle 14-Oun- -- Lll ADVERTISEMENT .HEW WAY TO BE A Western Family SU!P No. 1 delightful treat - Caramel or GANDY APPLES mm mammm BANQUET FROZEN Cans SUDDENLY SLIM Fresh, Firm, Golden 2for25c LOUISIANA YAMS mimmmam mmtm 03!S13(0 Los Angeles: Are you a woman whose figure is on the good side but might look perfect?' Youll be thrilled by the new easy way science has discovered for you to become Suddenly Slim and yet completely comfortable. ?, ' 4 If youre more sJ than -- 5? pounds . 15 over- - i or weight, your waistline " is larger than 32 inches, then this idea , M I is not for you, jU, If your weight rnilfij, T fj :,.:4 problem fell within this range, then you can re; alize a new, smoother figure today. without diet or exercise. H, ' (S !" kind Suddenly Slim is an of girdle constructed of science fibers. One startling inno nation is the shcor nylon front panel This is permanently stiffened by a science process and cannot give or sag. Ifs surrounded by a slimming action Odder. A fealliersliUiied panel down each side of this girdle Will ntour your hips if they are a problall-ne- 8-Ou- nce Size em- . ;C The girdle itself is of a wondstf Lycra spandex blend. Its a new power net consisting of nylon, acetate and spandex. It is so comforta-ble, but has such slimming strength, it gives your figure every-u- f thing thats possible with a founda ! ' tion. jr" "Suddenly Slim, in both girdle and panty versions. Is the pgtfjt achievement of the California designer-geniuOlga Available at Juliettes Intimate Apparel, 35 East Broadway, phone 363-265- -- |