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Show DESERET A Ste Carter- - Whetman ! Director, Anwrfcen Institute sf Fan , Mr. L. Writes: "I took what I thought were spedaUpains to make friends with my wifes two children before she and I marriedj, It seemed so simple and natural, that I began to wonder why so many stepfathers had trouble with their stepchildren. Now I know!-They seemed to have turned Into enemies! Maybe Pm putting it too strongly, but I will say that I have a first-clas- s discipline jproblem on my treat me if I werent even in the same house with them! I might as well be invisible! ThOy Ignore me completely. Before I take any drastic steps and jeopardize my hap-- ' py marriage Id like to hear what you -- have to say, Dr, Popenoe! , Hr After honeymooning in Las Vegas, newlyweds Mr. and MrsT Dan E. Whetman, will make their home in Salt Lake City. They were married Friday evening at the Sandy Fourth-FiftWard h hands.-Boto-eftoe- m ''The bride, the former Miss Sherry Carter, is a daughter of Mr, and Mrs.. Norris H. Carter, 931 S. 4th East, Sandy, FETED COUPLE Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence A Whetman, 7419 Butler Hills Dr., are parents of the bridegroom. They gave a'wedding breakfast for the coupl- e.- Mrs.' Dan Whetman Mrs. Emmett Miller ' man. Miss Susan Tolman and Mrs. Brent Covington. . - For her wedding, the "bride wore a gown of delustered satin. A satin rose released her veil: She carried red roses and white carnations. HAVE SYMPATHY There Is more to the same Boggess and Cari Carter were flower girls. ' Robyn 'W h etman, Charles Gary-Cart- RevlUe- effect, and every parent, naturalrwill sympathize with you, Mr. L, The children deserve a little sympathy, too. From their- - point of view, theyTe correct In saying that step-o- r Feted At David Whetman was j best man. Ushers were Benny er," d - October- YOUR FAMILY AND YOU . belong to yon, doesnt A13--Monda- y, 1964 12, - the yountgsters as an under standing friend and comrade, youll be accepted gradually and finally welcomed heartily. youll have nothing but trouble. It you can establish yourself with Retehons. - NEWS, no right to direct thei-r- velope, for my FREETreadlng Child Guidance. lives. Many stepfathers, and list on youve 'still more stepmothers, are unable to get the childs point of view in this matter. Leta lay down a few. points to be followed : 1. So far as possible, leave discipline to the . natural parent the mother In this instance. Of course, you want to show her and yourself, that you are a good father, and youve probably overdone it 1 spoke of discipline. As a matter of fact, Id just as soon abandon that word with its reminder of Army life. Lets instead. The say guidance best guidance you can give is by setting a good example. TRAINING. LACK - 2. Probably youve had little training tor this parenthood that thrust upon ready-mad- e has you been suddenly. Most stepparents need to study the subjects Write me, Dr. Paul Popenoe, Deseret News, Box 1257, Salt Lake City, Utah 84110, enclosing a en- stamped, Your public library can supply 4e books, S. Identify yourself in the childrens mindsNith pleasure and happiness, not with punishment Treat them as nearly hs possible as equao. Take .them on trips with you Do little things for them. Ybull have to be careful not to overdo this and seem to be buy- -' lng them, but the danger of seeming to them merely to b a slavemaster and whipping boss Is vastly greater. The stepparent, whether man or woman, can meet a deep need of children who have in some way been deprived of their own parent Youll have to have clearly In mind the plan of campaign ttaf yocr tend to follow and then play your cards- carefully. If you merely try to assert authority which in some ways SEAS0I1 VJITtl STEERO Oven-frie- chicken d Sprinkta with instant Steero, bake in buttered pan 45 min. Juicy hamburger Mix I tsp. instant Steero with each tb. of meat firsts Sprinkle outside with instant Steerok Makes rich pan gravy. 7 Only ' calorie par tsp. t No Instant - UlLLON free recipes) Write Sti Av. Jertey City 2, N. A 818 Jersey -- othaf Masoning needed ...not even celt X ALSO ASSISTED 1 Bridal attendants were Murray, matron Mrs.-.Penn- Prenuptial parties were giv en by Miss Carter, Miss Diana Honeymoonlngjo Los Angeles Tolmart. Mrs. Murray Miss Mr. and" Mrs. armewlyweds Lynefte Orgill, Miss Judy Emmett M. Miller Jr. She is the Sjoblom and Mrs. Jay forma Miss Patricia Lon ey of Magic-O-n - They were married Jriday evemng at Garden Park Ward, " 1159 Yle Ave. Fireplace RECEPTION HELD JrhvandMra. DelbertAIhur Herbert Ave.- ,- the parents, honored the couple at a reception following 1147 ltn, brides the wedding, The bridegroom is a son of Mrs. Alma Fellows, 2982-llt- h East, and the late Emmett M. Miller. Mr. and Mrs. Fellows gave a wedding supper for the bridal pair at the Doll House. Carolyn Hansen For the nuptial festivities the bride wore a gown of lace over satin. Her veil of illusion was caught to a jeweled crown. She carried a bouquet of white carnations and red roses. ATTENDED-BRID- 1 E in the bridal atten-dants-" were Mrs: Michael Thulin, Miss Virginia Kistler, Miss Pauline Sitze, Miss Joanne Thulin, andJunior bridesmaids,. Miss Jolene Miller, and Miss Karen Included Thulin. George Edwin Brown November Weddings Date Set'-- good-size- A November 30 wedding in the Lake Temple is being Carolyn Hanbest man. Ushering were Dan sen and Allen L. Tinsley. Thulin, Gary Thulin, Michael A receptii Thulin, Thomas ThuIInV Ronald First Ward meetinghouse, Cen- Thulin, Randy Miller and David terville,. wilfrbe heldto honor Fellows. the couple that evening. The newlyweds will, make are Parents of toe bride-elec- t home in Granger. Mr. and Mrs. Alma M. Hansen, Mr. Miller has served a tour 216 E. "Chase Ln., Centerville. of duty with the U.S. Army. The. future bridegroom, who resides in San Francisco, is a son of Mr. and Mrs. Edmund Z. Homer.Tremonton." The future bride has attended Brigham Young University. Her prospective bridegroom was graduated from the University . ' of Utah where he affiliated with Delta Phi Kappa.--He has fulfilled an LD5 California mission. SINGER Introducing By DOROTHY DRAPER There seems to be a sudden across burst of "mantel-mani- a the country. Other than toe conventional candles and a clock what can one use? I am often asked. 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