Show 4 u-- i r-- 1 H — : r— THE OGDEN STANDARD EXAMINER — SUNDAY MORNINGt JANUARY 14 1931 "iil Q n (J5 1 1 II M P err 0 Editor i note: This is the first (oui- - articles discussing With Marriage r of a series of the Matter used masculine tactics would "certainly lose him while the woman who pretendH not to 0 ¥ By Helen Wclsliimer 1 TK I fmmmm m m ma y 0) What's 3 i that piychologiiti and novelist! are laying that mirricd T OW womtn must ihaie their buibandi with those vl who revn carried orange blossom since the number of unwed women is far M excels of the number of unwrr) mn ' Mnnla ar beginning to wonder what ii going to happen j Win half a husband ever latisfy any woman? Will she be contented to live in one corner of his heart while a stranger set up housekeeping in the other? - In brief will some women be happy and other lonelyMor will they all be not very lonely and not1 very happy? An anonymous spinster writing in a contemporary magazine suggests that an unmarried woman with a yearning for somebody else's husband hat a right to love him providing' he lovci back Othen contend that a man may be welcome at sevcrai of the ad drMBei in hii pocket notebook Or better yet he may bring the women under the same roof together I 'is - w k - j 1 I ' V I vi m V ' ' ('''' Hl " A 1 r I'M? II : ! i - : ! I ' I I 1 - r i N(f 0' G A fS £ j f ihe opinions of" (Mi two Oddly enough famous women run current wlcn )i omei to the type of woman a man willlchbdse to have in charge of his home and heart But the prima donna believes in a teafeetv4i r rangement while the author thinks thV may v v miv muni wi lauici Biu bocikiv - p tl Winsloe maintains "Men dread clever fwom- Whatever you do never make tn'n inferior He will never forgive youi'Lcl him be the wiser the superior 1 party : "Men don't want their wives to lis beautiful either They don't want them t njake a show so to speak wherever thev annelir" 9 yp Igct excited over beauties but they dol-J- t : marry T i & - it ' cm Sf sucn an arrangement! "In fact I Ithinfc women would favor it Men never will It shows woman's superiority to think that she would accept this state of affairs as legal if necessary" j 10 "OUT Miss Hempel doesn't know where to find women either who are eager for the restoration" of the harem "No woman will be happy: however great the shortage of men by dividing the husband of another woman or sharing her own hus band" she says "She must have full possession It is foolish for anyone to prophesy that women will lawfully — or willingly— shard men VJLl O Frieda Hempel opera diva the grand to wives! - '' think f i - the hareml "I Z3 "I don't think that men are tellirnr iLirfrnrk iwhen they say that they like women with a sense of humor They make this remark toJ llhrow womcnoff the track and to klepjhem jfrom diucovering just what characteristics they do prefer A man doesn't want his'twife to make light of every happening Of cburse ho likes to be entertained but no man Vaiits t 1 wife who is terribly funny A man really wants a comfortable iwil I I L 'I I Ii a att uyuic onu nas nice cntiaren io ivien don't want wives who are noted as actress or ' are terribly good bridge players Thydon't " marry women because of these accomplishments pfhey don't want brilliance The jvant ho thinly it will be hard to find women Tho reill care for a restoration of r 11" ST ST I f oojeci last part ofMm rapel'i opinion Miss Winsloe fnthuWstlcally "The average man alwavs earol tA iU woman who is gentle and not tod clcv?r'f Misa 7vty says Opera Singer Frieda Hempel man shortage or no man But Author Christa shortage Winsloe demands "Why not? the two opinions verge again 'If a man and woman hav cparated after a happy marriage experience no longer loving each other but still retaining a quality of friendship there is no reason why they should avoid each other Miss Winsloe contends "In case the man remarries and his first and second wives happen to like each other tle three of them should be happy If the second marriage doesn't last together and there is a third woman I think women are big enough so the new one could be admitted to the group The four people might be very happy as a group "Of course only one woman in the group should bear children The other two would probably have outside interests and professions 10 occupy ineir lime Mo longer being in love with their former husband the former wives would be happy in this relationship If the women in the group liked one another well enough there isn't any reason why they should th agrees wv Christa Winsloe noted author of "The Child MllnueaM tie nove"whicn w ln basis of her famoua motion picture "Maedchen in Uniform" "I don't see any reason why several women who have loved one man in turn can't live together like a happy family 'Never l" Frieda HemDcI loner famniu Mt 'A woman can't be happy unless she knows that Opera star exclaims she holds full sway in her husband's heart She can't share the man she loves She is so constructed emotionally that it is She impossible ' wants to know that he is true to her" On one thing the famous author and the noted singer agree A man can t love two women at the same time in the same romantic way He can't play Romeo on two balconies however fair the Juliets npHERE WITH n "WHY not?iay! 0 be interested would just as surely $iquo hit interest i AND a - ' that women may have to learn to be satisfied with merely a part of a man's com- pany and to extract 'from such communion the elements of personality and conversation that are not available in feminine reIn other words unmarried women lationships will have to learn to accept men as friends not as lovers jj "Von can't legislate morality nor can you by a single business depression or even two or three business depressions in a row Change the complete nature and viewpoint of a woman's attitude since depressions are fleeting and ' human nature is not j "Times may change but human nature has remained remarkably unaltered in its1 principles since the days of the cave man there definite feminine emotion and a masculine one JrTff I I s i ''::' i - illi y I i wife they will tell you iVtie sme breath is a woman who possessei Empathy loyalty understanding tact fulness too and the ability to make a hfne "When a woman is with her ruslnd all her interests center around him" Mis rjlm-p- el observes "She dresses for him" Shi§ wjtnti to be attractive for him She wants l $av the setting in her home that he likes beitl basks in his favor and is happy" j fV her1 Here again Miss Winsloe with hne ibving mind agrees j "The present marriage difficultie haV nth ing to do with morals" she says "Ttay-- ar based on habits Not many people haVc real ' homes any more "If a man has a home with a widhiirth and comfortable chairs flowers in the! bowls and a wife who makes him feel ebmfWtahle he won't want to gp out in the evening People themselves arent any different iha they ever were Dut their lives are" A ) ess h-p- 5u C7ir3 Winsloe novelist ' who believes Women who have shared the same man could get along well together f - I would not little it by speaking of the whole thing as the double standard but there is no use denying that what 'goes' for men docs not always 'go' for women "For instance no matter how few men there are the women who pursued a man and who '' mmmzm Ft I X I E py 'V "s r-X t 2 uli (CcpyrJshfci 1314 iiiii:::!iiiiniiiiiiii!iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!iiiiiiiiiiii by EvtryWtsk Masaxln) 'liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii i '1 k'iiiiiioo: V fit |