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Show 1 young woman will never need-t- o turn a man down, for she will never find it necessary' to snub ' The Kind of Girl it a Man iW ill Marry I- TEA In a mans mind there are two codes of manners j the kind he encourages in a woman and the kind he admires in a woman; the kind for his sister 4jd the kind for the other fellows sister. , Since a manners, like her frocks, are invariably chosen to please a man, it is just as well for her to get oh the opposite side of the looking glass apd to observe herself from the masculine viewpoint. It is very difficult to have to believe that the smiling, courteous man who Is persuading you to take a puff at his cigarette is, down in his heart, admiring' you for not doing what he asks. And, cn the other hand," you are given a shock of painful surprise when your brother suddenly , marries the girl with the butter-colore- d hair and the pink chin, who does all the things he declares are outrageous and which he would have annihilated you for, doing. You There is no are bewildered. rule! you afgh; what one man admires another condemns; and the same man never likes the same thing in two different girls ZAs aT matter of fact, the masculine taste in manners is as simple :hild V taste inf sugarplums and js i unchangeable! .There are just three of four rule by which they are gauged and if the modern girl breaks these rules it is because she is too strenuous in her efforts to be fascinating, and thereby misses the point. She is so full of, pose that she has lost her repose ; ana she is so concernmanner ed with acquiring that she quite forgets her man- girls v ners. Yet there is nothing on earth a man lays so much stress upon as the manners of "the woman he likes! He can forgive a woman more readily for wilfully treading on his heart than for, awkwardly treading on hid dignity. lie doesnt care anything about good form and good style. but he does eare everything about good, ions gets oh his nerves. The very fact that she picks up her, things for herself and beats him at golf takes away that gratifying sense of protection that he likes to feel toward a pretty woman. If she calls him old fellow and speaks brusquely to him he resents it, as a cat does whose fur has suddenly been brushed the wrong way. It isnt so much what the masculine girl does as the way in which! she does it; her ungentle ness offends him. A pretty woman might commit highway robbery and any masculine jury would ac quit her if she had done it gently and in a thrilling skirt and a picin ture hat. He may stand-uawe and admiration of Arabellas golf stroke as she swings .her club through the air like a modern Amazon, but it is the game, not the girl, that he is admiring. There may be nobody" he so much enjoys spending an evening with as his friend, the jolly good who joins in his cigarfellow, ette while she listens to his stor- ies, but he would pick up his hat' and run if she shpuld suddenly suggest that he spend his life with her. When he is going for a eross country walk he may pick out the girl with the strong back and the atrong voice and the ability to take care of herself; who thinks no more of leaping a fence than 8he does or riding astride, but when he gets ready for a walk to the Hymeneal altar it is the fluffy girl in lace,' who under stands the art of leaning gently upon a masculine arm, whom he asks to accompany him: In a word, while brusqueness and boldness and aggressiveness of manner are no longer considered crimes, they are just as offensive to masculine taste as they were in the days of wigs and powder. A man likes gentle manners in a woman, a gentle voice, gentle speech and gentle actions. He needs smoothing and soothing just as a cat does, lie cannoFlie bluffed half as easily as he can be wheedled, and it is the girl .who often est wheedles him into falling in love with her. , Loudness is the second crime in the masculine category of feminine sins. A man will never pardon a woman for attracting the attention of the whole street by her walk, or entertaining-everybodin the hotel dining-rooby talking at the tip top of her , p manners. Lays Etress on Manners. The first thing he demands of feminine manners is that they be feminine. 'Arabella, who struts and swaggers about, corsetless, in a' hideous gray sweater and brags-oher muscle, may have a hallucination that biceps and ,, waist,., athletic boldness' and are attrac prowess tive, but her brother has no such hallucination! A man hates a poor , imitation of himself. Somehow voice. whose manners street The girl the girl who seems to be able to take care of herself on all occas- - he admires is the one whom he never sees, unless she is pointed out to him.' It is the quiet little thing who stands way back in the corner' of the car who always finds some man to give her a seat. The girl who holds up her skirts to show a bewildering French heel and openlength-- ef ILrve been suffering from Impure Blood work stockings, who converses for many years, having Boils and other deof heard S. S. S. I Eruptions. Having for the benefit of everybody cided to try it, ana am glad to aay that it has done me a great deal of good. I intend around and who gives glance for to continue to use it, as I believe it to be as she shoves her way the best Blood Medicine on the market. glance W. K. Deters. Cleveland, Tenn. through the crowd is the one who For over fifteen yean I have suffered every man is glad is the other old-fashion- ed gentle-ma- nnered f thirty-two-inch- y m more or less from Impur Blood. About a mans wife. , year ago I had a boil appear on my leg below the knee, which was followed by The Prude three more on my neck. I saw S. S. S. advertised and decided to try it. Aftex The prude, on the other hand, taking three bottles all Boils disappeared and I bats not been troubled any since. is one of the most distasteful bits Gko. G. Fhrtio. of femininity that a man can run Louisville, W. Ky. Jefferson St., tig ;' Newark, Ohio, May 3, 1903. Prom childhood I ihad been bothered wkh bad blood, akin eruptions and boils, I had boils ranging from five to twenty ttt number each season. The burning accompanying the eruption was terrible. S. S. S. aeemed to be just the medicine needed in my case. It drove out all im purities and bad blood, giving me permanent relief from the akin eruption and boils. This has been ten years ago, and I never had a return of the disease. Mas. J. D. Atherton. ! Write for oat book on blood and akin diseases. Medical advice or any special information about yonr case will ooat ,yoa nothing. .r . The It?Ift Specific Cwnpany, Atlanta, 6a. , up against. She who goes about with a chip on her shoulder, looking for Opportunities to snub a man, can always find them. A man likes quiet dignity, but he hates assumed haughtiness. lie will run miles from the girl who deliberately carries a mental lorgnette and looks at him always as he were some queer specimen up for examination. The young woman who glories in turning a man down may fancy she has made a deep and subtle impression on him, when in reality Bhe has only made a deep wound in his vanity The really modest - . A giri can afford to be as jolly and as genial as she likes. If there is one (thing a man loves it a cordial girl, one who makes him feel always welcome in her house, whose smile is as radiant and as genial as ' the sunlight. By this I do not mean the girl who is too cordial, ' who gushes over the man and makes- - him feel that he is favoring her by bestowing upon her his company, but the one who dispenses her favors graciously, while she makes it distinctly understood that they are her favors: The Coquette. Almost all men like a coquette. The girl who cannot use her eyes, manipulate her fan and make a smile mean whole chapters is indeed sadly lacking in the average Very likely. Your grocerknows. Yn pit fill. fmm mm H jpw TrtniltlW From Ik frtntK friends to mourn his departure. The family, though deeply grieving over the sad loss, are reconciled and feel to say: .The Lord giveth, the Lord . taketh, and blessed be His name forever, and that they have each heard a voice twas a voice of their God: I love thee, I love thee, pass under the Rod. Brother Carl Nelsen has received a letter from Box B. He expects to leave this fall.. Miss Nora Bywater, of Brigham City, is spending a few days in our ward with her aunt, Mrs. An- , - 1 d. t s. I Greenville Gleanings ror An Impaired Appetit L-as-soeia it and his warder. And woe everywhere Loss of appetite always results to him who falls Into the hands of a subaltern drunk with his authority! nie Lloyd met with the associa- from faulty digestion. All that We forget 'that the first duty of him tion and made some very good re- is needed is a few doses of who exercises power Is humility. Chamberlains Stomach and Liver Haughtiness Is not authority. It la not marks, both to young and old. we who are the law; the law la over this ward was fully organized on Sunday, March 5th. Sister Jen- Tablets. They will invigorate the stomach, strengthen the digestion and give you an appetite like a wolf. These Tablets also act as a gentle laxative. For sale by all druggists. , Brother Lloyd being present, also made some good remarks and t us to keep on as we are all urged doing. Our ward is in mourning over the sad death of Brother John A. Baugh, who died in Pocatello after tfn attack of pneumonia. As Mr. Baugh was married to a Greenville girl, Addie Ferguson, Mrs. Ellen Ferguson, Mrs.Baughs mother, and her two brothers, Will and John, went to Pocatello, and brought the remains to Logan, Wednesday. lie leaves a wife, two babies and a host of mv J f Pullman Observation. Sleeping cars, latest patterns, are being operated on D. & R. G. tran No. 4 Ogden to Denver, via, COLORADO The MIDLAND, only through Denver sleeper on that train. Write to L. H. Harding, Gen. Agent, Saif Lake for fold era and information. mw J 1 ky our heads. tVe only Interpret if, but to make It valid in the eyes of others wt most first be subject to it ourselves. To command and to obey In the society of men are, after all, but two forma ot the same servitude It you are not obeyed. It la generally because you have not yourself obeyed first The secret of moral ascendency rests with those who rule with simplicity. They soften by the spirit the harshness of the fact. Their authority la not In shoulder straps, titles or disciplinary measures. They make use of neither ferule fior threats, yet they achieve everything. Why? Because we feel that they are themselves ready for everything. That which confers upon a man the right to demand of another the sacrifice of his time, his money, his pas- virtue-volunt- ary F0H uv. J . Co. sums, even ms me, is not only that he Is resolved upon all these sacrifices himself, but that he has made them ln advance. In tbe command of a man animated by this spirit of renunciation there is a mysterious force which communicates itself to him who Is to obey and helps him do his duty. In all the provinces of humafl activity there are chiefs who inspire, strengthen, magnetise their, soldiers; under their direction the troopa do prodigies. With them' one feels himself capable of any effort, ready to go through fire, as the saying has it, and If he goes It la with enthusiasm. But the pride of the exalted is not the only pride; there is also the pride of the humble this arrogance of underlings, fit pendant to that of the great The root of these two pridee Is the same. It la not alone that lofty and Imperious being, the man who says. "I am the law, that provokes Insur- t rection by his" very attitude; It p ala. that pigheaded subaltern who will not admit that there la anything beyond his knowledge. There are really many peopl who find all auperlority irritating. For them every piece of advice la an offense, ev ery criticism an Imposition, every order an outrage on their liberty. They would not know how to aubmlt to rule. To respect anything or anybody would teem to' them a mental aberration. They say to people after tljelr fashion. Beyond nst there la nothing. To the family of the prond belong also those difficult and anpersensltlre people who In humble life find that their superiors never do them fitting honor, whom the beat and moat kindly do not succeed In satisfying and who go aboot -- their ditlM with th air of a martyr At bottom these disaffected minds have too much misplaced aelf respect They do not know how to fill their place simply, bat complicate their Ilf and that of others by unreasonable demands and morbid suspicions. When one takes the trouble to study men at short range he la surprised to find that pride has ao many lurking places among those who are by common consent called the hnmble. So powerful Is this vice that It arrives at forming round thos who live In th most modest circumstances a wall which Isolates them from their neigh bora. There they are; Intrenched, barricaded with their ambitions and their contempts, as Inaccessible as the powerful of earth behind their aristocratic Obscure or Illustrious, prejudices. pride wraps itself In Its dark royalty or enmity To The human race. It Is the aame in misery and In high places solitary and Impotent, on guard against everybody, embroiling everything. And the last word about It Is always this: If there Is so much hostility and hatred between different classes of men It Is due less to exterior conditions than to an Interior fatality. Conflicting' Interests and differences of situation dig ditches between us. It la true, but pride transforms the ditches Into gulfs, and In reality It la pride alone which cries from brink to brinks There la nothing in common between you and nst We have not finished' with pride, hut It la Impossible to picture It under all Its forms. I feel most resentful against It when It meddles with knowledge and appropriates that We owe our knowledge to our fellows, as ws do our riches and power. It la a social force which ought to be of service to everybody1, and it can only be ao when those who know remain sympathetically near to those who know not When knowledge la turned Into a tool for ambition It destroys Itself. uuu (To be Continued.) (EXm ( i So many people who have apparently recovered from an attack of La Grippe are stricken with Pneumonia . This is due to the fact that the Bronchial Tubes and Lussgs are left weakened and unable to resist disease. not only cure3 La Grippe Coughs, and prevents Pneumonia, but strengthens the Lungs so they will not be susceptible to the development of serious lung troubles. Do not take chances with some unknown preparation that may contain some harmful drug when FOLEY'S HONEY AND TAR costs you no more and is safe and sure. Contains no opiates! ' I had a had caae of La Grippe about ten yeara ago which' left my Lung so weak that I have been troub led more or less every winter since until I used FOLEYS HONEY AND TAR, which cured me completely and my longer trouble me. J. H. BROWNING, D.D.S., Orrick, Mo. if G. VACHER, 157 Osgobd St, Chicago, says: My wife had a vary severe case of La Grippe, and it left her with a very bad cough. She tried a bottle of FOLEYS HONEY AND TAR and It gave immediate relief.' i size contains two and one half times as much as the small size and 50c, $1.00. The the $1.00 bottle almost six times as much. RafUM Substitutes ? 3 Three aizea 25c, 50-ce- nt . K. A , 4 I 415 - sou ra nEc:::L.:iD 3ESitoxBrotib.exs IDru--g t Had Low! Mry St Life Copyright. 1901. by McClure. Phillip eyes. The-Yr-Lr--M ' I By CHARLES WAGNER SB nie M. Nelsen. A baby girl made its appearEvery modern girl wears a pose ance Tuesday at the home of Mr. as .she would wear a color, beCarl N. Nyman. Grandpa Ny- cause she considers it becoming. man feels proud, as this is his j wide rule Is a universal malady whose If she only would remember that JmPtma lelonglo alLtlmeaJn evfifth democratic grand-ehilI :t it is not pose, but poise that ery man there sleepaatyrentawalt Airs. Ida II. Petersen and Miss favorable occasion for wak- only man admires, not manner, but Mabel Holliday, sisters of Mrs. lug. New, the tyrant la th worst enmanners, not prudishness, but C. of authority, because he furnishes A. Nyman, spent Tuesday ev- emy Intolerable caricature, whence us sweetIts not but style, prettiness, in our ward. a come multitude of social complicaening would in nine cases out ness, she Mrs. George Maughan, who has tions, collisions and hatreds. Every of ten be very much more lovely man who aaya to those dependent on been spending a few weeks in him, Do this because it la my will and and lovable. It is so easy to rewith her mother, Mrs. pleasure, does 111. There Is within member that just these four quali- Logan, home eac 0110 ot tu something that Invites ties sum up the masculine idea of Hugh Adams, returned lus to resist personal power, and this glad to see her something la very respectable, tor at feminine manners; gentleness Monday. We are bottom we are equal, and there la no looking better. ' modesty, 'cordiality, coquettish-nesAir. C. A. Hibbard, our mer- one who has the right to exact obediThe first is natnral to most ence from me because be la hs and I on to has chant, Ogden am gone If he does so his command de is a virtue; women; the second business. grades me, and I have nJ right to sufthe third may be cultivated, and myself to be degraded. Mr. Albert Nyman has gone to ferOne must have lived In schools. In the fourth is as the breath of life travelPocatello other and In ths army, in government places, workshops. to all true women. Detroit Free offices, he must hare closely followed facfor the ing Logan Knitting Press! the relations between masters' and tory. He expects to be gone all servants, have observed a little everysummer. where where the supremacy of man exercises Itself over man, to form any Mrs. Wm. Davidson is reported Idea of the Injury done by those who quite ill, but we hope to see her nse power arrogantly. Of every free soul they make a slave soul, which la out again soon. And It apMr. and Mrs. Ole Jensen, of to say the soul of a rebel. pears that this result, with its social Star Valley, arevisiting with the disaster, Is most certain when he who Smith family, as Mrs. Jensen is a rommands Is least removed from the of health The Journal: Editor ktatlon of him who obeys. The moat sister to Aunt Susan Smith. the people generally is good. ftnplacable tyrant is the tyrant himself Mrs. George Saundesr, of Hyde under authority. Foremen and overWe are enjoying beautiful put more violence into their dealand the people Park, was a visitor in the ward seers than Bpring weather ings superintendents and employS. A. X. are taking advantage of it, fixing this week. ers. The corporal Is generally harsher than the colonel. In certain families Greenville, March 11, 1905. up the roads and walks of our where madam has not much more ed town. nnHnn than her maid the relations be mans ' M' l You get the wrong tea, ( him - awvw ucauaj ) iiiciivu cv Compaa'y |