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Show 14 Hilltops February 18, 1999 Differences can affect future relatioesMps This week, well by Chaplain (Maj.) Ronald Underwood finding the discuss the importance of Senior Protestant Chaplain It is true that opposites are often attracted to each other. For some reason, we seem to admire qualities in the other person that we ourselves don't have. Yet, if there are lots of differences between us, we can find our marriage in a constant state of negotiation, compromise and change. Put another way, our relationship is constantly under stress, leaving us less time for intimacy and laughter. Therefore, we should work hard to find a person to love who is a lot like us. A series of discussions on "Finding the Love of Your Life" is held Sundays at 7:30 p.m. in the Base Chapel basement, Bldg. 475. They are open to anyone who works on Hill AFB. values, you can find enjoying each differ in major involved in some dis- dating and marrying someone who is a lot like other instead of yourselves LOVE ourselves. findResearch those involving two people with many similari- There are dozens of similarities I could .Life show that the happiest and most fulfilling marriages are or fussing and fighting. ofyour ings consistently adapting name that are critical to keep holy habits. Conflicts over punctuality, orderliness, responsibility, smoking wedlock from becoming unholy deadlock. It's and food can cause many a major argument. important that a couple be simi- It needs to be said that there are some things you'll not discover about your spouse until after you've said "I do." That is why everyone needs good counseling and needs to of take some the risk out of dating and marriage by thinking about it lar in intelligence. By this I don't mean educational levels, but IQ lev-- ties. Similarities give a couple a lot of common ground to operate their marriage from. They enable a couple to operate from a position of strength. They can spend their time major agreements. Other major areas where a couple needs to be similar include levels of intimacy, interests and expectations about roles. There are dozens of dissimilarities I could name that can wreak havoc in a marriage. Differing attitudes toward money and sex are at the top of the list, along with differences in personal negotiating and pre-marit- al els. It is just as important that a couple share a similar value system. If you for less Low Rates on Postdated Personal P Checks for All Military "Vie make your -- next payday today." Tax One within 24 hrs. .1 W479HM1-- r repels dirt? with the DuPont I I for a carpet. i . .w j S 1 r K I i - t GULISTAN QUALITY CARPET r m Jiannnai mil mm himmiImwii mhiiII iMl imii Prince Isle SkyRider For those on a budget who want the best nylon Stainmaster Plus. 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