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Show C Paj;c Till h Provo. Utah, Wednesday. October 14. IWK DAILY HERALD, mom says make tieen dirSveirs Sallti Lafoe City Dear Ann Landers: I just n ad the letter from "Scared Mom in Seattle." Her son was getting his driver's license, and she was more than a little nervous about it. The information you gave her was Hkh1, hut how about reprinting that Contract for Drivers that you ran several years ago? 1 cut that contract out of your column when our oldest son got his license. My husband and I made some minor changes that reflected our personal expectations, and it worked beautifully for all four of our children. Our youngest son. who is now 20, didn't always like the rules, but he lived up to his end of the agreement. I dread to think what would have happened HOROSCOPE or Oct. 14 I Happy Birthday: You will have some wonderful ideas this year, but if you are too quick to put your plans into motion you will fall short of your goals. This Is not the year to take chances and certainly not a time to pursue your goals if you haven't prepared well for the task. You must slow down and plan your actions wisely and efficiently. Your numbers: 10, 19, 24, 28, 37, 46 ARIES (March 19): Try to give others the benefit of the doubt today H will be important that you keep busy. Don't start arguments in your domestic scene. You will be erratic and unpredictable. 5 stars TAURUS (April 20 May 20): Be creative in your work and you will get favorable response from employers. You can help a friend find a solution to a pressing personal problem by offering advice based on your own experiences. stars 2 GEMINI 20): Financial (May changes can be expected. Hidden assets or money that you didn't work for may be coming your way. Insurance surrenders, tax rebates or an inheritance may be forthcoming. 4 stars CANCER (June 21 July 22): Don't overreact to personal situations that you cannot control. Visit with relatives who can help clear up your emotional confusion. Be careful not to nag about household chores. 3 stars LEO (July 22): Your work should be your prime concern. You will be able to instigate important jobs if you are persuasive in your presentation. Make tne changes you feel are necessary. 3 stars VIRGO (Aug. 23 Sept. 22): Your high ene'gy and competitive nature will put you in the driver's seat. Go after your goals and don't let others hold you hack. Don't get involved in joint financial ventures. 3 stars LIBRA (Sept. 22): It is best to sit back and do your own thing. When family members need help let them ask. You will have trouble with loved ones If you get in the middle of an argument. 4 stars SCORPIO (Oct. 21): You should be looking into new avenues. Sign up for courses if you are having a problem keeping a job. Financial problems are causing friction at home. 2 stars SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 Dec. 21): Relatives will be demanding if you let them. You must learn to say no if you wish to keep your sanity. Put your efforts into your professional goals. 5 stars CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 Jan. 19): Get involved in worthwhile groups. Your male will be demanding. Try to be understanding about his or her concerns, but don't give in to unreasonable requests. 3 stars AQUARIUS (Jan. 18): You should look into night courses that will enable you to change your professional direction. Expect to have a problem with a colleague who doesn't like the way you do things. 3 stars PISCES (Feb. 19 March 20): This is a great day to do things that you will find self satisfying. You need to get out with friends or get into a hobby that will be stimulating. 3 stars Birthday Baby: You love to be on stage. You're a born entertainer and a dramatic individual. You are in love with lite and just want to enjoy all that it has to offer. You're not the best when it comes to saving money; however, you will experience a host of events, activities and circumstances throughout your life. L-- ', ft I f 'Zl $Z3SS3sJ 0NW PHONf - II (( ORDBt at 1)014:25 k Roxbury Urban Legend Rush Hour (( If II "No SPANISH 1. Breaking the driving laws or abusing a motor vehicle can result in the loss of driving privileges, even if we learn about it from a source other than the police. You never know who may be observing you. If WHS u IfG 13)4 20 6 50 940 II l nmmMis 1 II) 4:30 IfcllltS 'JO 4:45 MS HO f oupont S THEATERS PmM in Hm com Abigail van Buren Fed up in think of him? West Virginia Dear Fed up: As long as you're living under the same roof, you'd be wise to keep your mouth shut. Dear Abby: Regarding your response to "Irritated in Minneapolis," the woman who was distressed because a minister's widow was chasing after her husband at church: You said the widow probably needed "verification that she's still PEOPLE IN THE NEWS "Just Shoot Me" helps lighten her load. "To go to work and laugh every day is great medicine, and it's a great way to live," the actress who plays Maya Gallo told US magazine. San Giacomo divorced actor Cameron Dye this year after eight years of marriage. Their son Mason, who is almost 3, often joins her on the set of the comedy about the ups and downs of a fashion magazine. "She has tunnel vision on that kid," said David Spade, assiswho plays tant Dennis Finch. 'That's why I like her, because she works really hard, and the tart-tongue- d second it's over, it's all kid." he said. "It's a lesson in parenting and growing up and everything that scares me in life." Back on the beach The reclusive Brian Wilson belted out "Surfin' USA" and "California Girls" during a rare live appearance. IRVINE, Calif. (AP) was The former Beach Boy joined Jimmy Buffett and his Coral Reefer Band on Sunday night at Irvine Meadows as Buffett wrapped up his summer tour. A serious-face- ffrWltffhr'riErtlSnflfirt 11 We all mn thought his response was hilarious. Longtime -- . . thought you might enjoy our family's recent laugh. My grown children have a wonderful relationship with their m Reader in Indianapolis Dear L.T. Reader: Grandpa sounds like a delightful fellow. Please tell him he has an admirer in Chicago. Gem of the Day (Credit '7 Cary Grant at age 81): "I've" never done a damn thing. 'tb " stay in shape. The best '' ' exercise I know is making" Dear Ann Landers: By this time, the Viagra jokes aii becoming a bit raunchy and more than a little tiresome. Nevertheless, I grandfather. Recently, one of them asked, "Grandpa, when are you going to give Viagra a try?" Grandpa looked a bit startled, laughed and replied, "There's no use putting new lead in the pencil love." HUT Write to Ann Landers, P.O. Box 11562, Chicago, 1L 60611- -' 0562. but I get the feeling you're attracted to my husband, and it makes me uncomfortable." They always deny it at first, but I treat them with dignity and honesty, and it earns me their respect. I have no more problems with them. In fact, I get the sense they're relieved to have been stopped in such a loving way. It A wife who cares works. though it's unfortunate he's deceased, pursuing someone else's husband (in her own church, j et) is not only inappropriate, but disloyal to the man's wife. People like the widow invade others' boundaries and count on "compassion" in order to continue their game. The husband is not always "not attracted," and it's not the wife's job to find the widow a new man so that she won't steal hers. I have been in similar situations and have a solution: I take the woman aside and say, Dear wife: Your experience gives wise voice to the other side of the story. In a perfect world, no one would desire or deliberately entice another's spouse. Unfortunately, however, we're not living in a perfect world. Pi (Rl Wednesday in support of County Tyrone Hospital in Omagh, where an Aug. 15 car bomb planted by Irish Republican Army dissidents killed 29 people and wounded 370. "This is the first time a piece of art by Prince Charles has been auctioned anywhere in the world, so we have not placed a reserve price on it," said John de Vere White, Dublin's premier auctioneer of fine art. Christie's London office has valued the lithograph at 2,000 IMF' Royal litho donated DUBLIN. Ireland (AP) Prince Charles is donating 'Iiddam I crccKin" one of his lithographs of Windsor Castle to benefit a "I may be wrong, I love her more than the very , ,t air I breathe, as I do all my children. This happened approxi- - ' ;i. """" mately 18 years ago, and I chil-'" have since had two more dren. The child I gave up has"" met her sister and knows tHt" she is her sister. Now, as she,UJ approaches her 18th birthday, she has made it clear that She ' wants to meet me ' Abby, I am terrified to meet her. I don't know what to say to her. Could you please advise me about what to do? Scared in Vista, Calif. Dear Scared: Tell your - daughter exactly what told me, and do not be yeu-hav- Dear Abby: I gave up my child for adoption when she was 7 days old. It was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. Please do not get me wrong; the choice I made was a loving choice. I did what I felt was right for my child. You see, afraid. The most important" message you can give her is that you never stopped lov-ing her, and you did whart"-yo- u thought was best for her at the time. Write to Dear Abby at P.Q.;,. Box 447, Mount Morris, IL ,;;J. 61054-0447- . ,;, '. hospital that treated victims of Northern Ireland's worst-eveterrorist attack. The signed and dated lithograph will be auctioned 9 r 1 7:30 5 -- bomb-ravage- d " "WHAT DREAMS MAY COME 4:00 7:00 9:40 Sat. & LOS ANGELES (AP) Kirk Douglas, who helped break the Hollywood blacklist in 1958, is the next recipient of the Screen Actors Guild's life- time achievement award. "In honoring Kirk Douglas, we pay tribute to a performer 98 W. Utah Ave., Payson ANTZ (PG) N JdulU (PG-13- nTTTrw:,riirrnM.llimTT..l ANTZ c (PG-13- The TRAIL of MAFIA . Mr THE PARENT TRAP r3. THE TRUMAN SHOW I'.i.r'-m'V- f 5:20 7:50 Daily 4:30 7 00 9:30 12:15 2:25 WHAT DREAMS MAY COME Sat. Mat. DREAMS Nov. 16 ABOUT MARY ?l 2.45 5:15 740 WATER GARDENS CINEMM CARMIKE 10:10 WTNHSONG : 4925 2:35 5:208:0010-- EDGEiHTSR 1! D! 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Mat. 12:30 2:30 EVER AFTER ) pioneer musical by James Arrington, Marvin Payne and Steven Kapp Perry -- Ss, ins--, I'p?" A'tor OO p m very Mondi Niyf'l Wliolo Family For :3 ; ' CINEMAI6 LIVE ON STAGE...The HOPE FLOATS )!) 1 ) funy. Mn 17, 7:30 p.m Hams Fine Arts Center rgetts Theatre $10 U off with BYl! or student ID) Fine Arts Ticket Oflice 37M322 www.bvu.educfac SHOWTIMES: Evening 6:45 Sat. Matinee 1:00 Niy :30 6:30 9:40 September Nightly 7 & 9 Sat. Mat. 2 & 4 p.m. $4 CMWrM $3 CLOSED SUNDAYJ ARMAGEDDON 12:30 The award will be presented" March 7. Douglas has been nominaY-"- ' ed for three Academy Awards r' In 1958, he insisted that credit;' be given to a blacklisted writer, Dalton Trumbo, for the1 screenplay of "Spartacus," a in which he starred. "j. I 1 Sun. 1:30 STEREO SOMETHING Monday. Douglas' life honored 1 ii SO 1:15 3:15 5:15 7:15 9:35 " throne visited the hospital and town three the days after the attack. 1 Hnlhu fitprftn IR whose critically acclaimed '"""' achievements as an actor are matched by the strength of Iris personal character and integriiJ' ty," SAG President Richard'' Mazur said in a statement to 3,000 British pounds ($3,400 to $5,100). The heir to the British I 0:00 Sat. & Sun. 1 :00 3:00 "ONE TRUE THING" (R) 4:20 7:15 9:50 Sat. & Sun. 1:45 ) "THE MASK OF ZORRO" 4:10 9:30 Sat. & Sun. Matinee 1:15 5: El 1:307:30 II If paint off the wall. Dad: Mom: New driver: attractive to men." Abby, you excused this woman's behavior and minimized the wife's distress. The minister's widow should know better. She does know better if she is trained in the holy Scriptures, which are guidelines for what is appropriate and what is not between the sexes. The widow has already had a husband of her own, and j24?4 W. UNIVERSITY PKWY. JUMPERS" VPEO ARCADE LOCATED IKSC6I STEREO WHISPERER Wilson, who d just recorded a new CD, appeared slightly uncomfortable and raised his arms when he got a standing ovation. Wilson, 56, lives most of the year in St. Charles, 111., with his wife and twin daughters. ( i RUSH HOUR DOLiA DKil)AL1HX l O S ?0 7 i 40 lit) SAVING PRIVATE RYAN iRl DOI 9V DIGITAL 1? (in 30 OO 110 1)0 f HI & SAt SIMON BIRCH (PGi DDLPV DIGITAL THK 00 2 .10 f, OO 7 30 10 15 RUSH HOUR DOLBY DIGITALTHX 00 ;i 10 b 20 7 30 9 40 ROXBURY DOl BY DIGITAL no 3 oo b on r on i no GHOST OF DICKENS PAST ,G) 00 3 00 b 00 7 00 y 00 ANTZ (PG) UOI.HY DIGITAL 2 5 4 30 I 00 9 5 ANTZ (PG) DTS HS J (in R IS S 30 HOLY MAN (PG) DOl BY DIGITAL ? 1S 3 II) 7 15 Ab MX RONIN(Hl DTS Y.' lb 3 4!S r 15 10 00 OOl HY PIGIlAt HOLY MAN(PG) 50 9 Vj V2 '0 II MM Plm when you don't have anybody to write to." Grandma was standing right next to him, and the loe she gave him nearly peeled, the makes a man want to raise the roof ADVICE COLUMN LOS ANGELES (AP) Newly divorced, Laura San Giacomo says the NBC sit- HOPf FLOATS !PR 1.1) SIFREO Dailu fi '.n 4 30 S4t A Sun Mat 30 4 MULAN (G) ST CHE O or condition that might render you less than 100 percent competent behind the wheel of a car, phone us. We will come get you. This will not result in the loss of driving privileges. 5. You are never to be a passenger in a car in which the driver should not be driving. A call to come get you will not result in the loss of driving privileges. If you cannot reach us, hire a taxi. We will pay for it, and there will be no punishment. Date signed: 'Just Shoot Me' star says work a break from real life II Ever After MM Ann Landers WROMGFUUY AntZmit50 7:ISHS Night upset when I criticize her brother. She's very protective of him and feels he can do no wrong. She thinks I'm vindictive if I disagree with him. Should I keep my mouth shut for the sake of peace, or do I have a right to say what I strive to main- level as when we first granted your driving privileges. 3. No one else should be allowed to drive a vehicle entrusted to you. This means you may not lend your vehicle to friends. 4. If you are ever in a brother-in-la- w Dear Abby: My wife and I live with three friends in order to save money. One of our housemates is my wife's brother. I can't stand him. He's bossy and always wants things his way. The other housemates ignore him and let him do what he wants. I am the only one who seems to have a problem with him. Abby, last night he held a "family meeting" and asked my wife and me not to fight on the front porch. We don't fight very often, but there are two things we fight about: money and her evil brother. I have considered telling him what to do with his thoughts on many occasions, but I have kept my mouth shut because my wife gets HORSE What Dreams May Come yA Violette of Nederland, Texas. Many of my readers have told me how helpful it was. Here it is again: Contract for Drivers It is understood and agreed that having a driver's license and driving a motor vehicle are privileges. Any privilege has to be earned, and it must be earned on a continuing basis. This means that driving privileges may be revoked due to an infraction of the following rules: 11 'Holy Man irenio6ns J ADVICE COLUMN 798-97- Simon Birch II IN IICKET SYSTBtlhW S V If II OMfWIW MnbMSMN 2. You will tain the grades, conduct and attitude at the same high first-tim- e Bossy EUGENIA LAST By without that contract. It helped us sleep better at night. Please print it again, Ann, for drivers. parents with Mom in Salt Lake City Dear Mom: That contract was the brainchild of John iratecE sogira Open Wed. rrm nymyrmi -- rote WKIll) Sal at 7:30 I Utah valley's Lonaest Runnings Indoor Haunted Attraction Reg Price $7.00 Ea. Limn 1 Cmm Ptf Ptrsoi. z S I I Ntt VHH Wltk Aw Otkw Ofltf POOR |