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Show Wednesday. October 7. Alcoholism played heavy hand in abuse v t- I WK. Dear Ann Landers: Your inheritances was of special interest to me. My parents were divorced when I was j child. My mother was an intelligent, professional tjyoman. She was also an controlling and manipulative. u Mother married a monster. He, too, was an alcoholic, "yyho abused me and my brother for 12 years. Our mother stood by and did Jjothing. My clearest memory is hiding from them, quaking in fear when I heard the car door slam. I knew they were coming home from work and J would be punished for something - real or imagined. To this day, the sound of a slamming car door takes me back to those days of terror. ji After I left home, I moved as far away from my mother as possible, and we had no Contact. When she became terminally ill, my brother persuaded me to fly back to "pay by respects." The first words out of her mouth were "You're fat." We had not seen one another for 15 years, and that was all she could think of to say to me. My mother died in 1995 and left a large estate to be divided between my brother and stepfather. Do 1 regret that she left me nothing? Not for one single (Column Strictly enforce op. second. have my and there is no price tag on that. Content in Calif. " Dear Content: Your childI End the promotion of college athletics by alcohol beverage companies. Set personal examples for hood sounds like a nightmare. I hope you have had Counseling to rid yourself eF the anger that must have been stored up from those early years of abuse. Writing to me, I'm sure, was therapeutic. Your letter might also make an impression on parents who drink too much find don't realize what their alcoholism does to their children. Thank you. our children about appropriate drinking behavior. Understand that anyone xa can develop a serious alcohol problem, including teenagers. Talk with your children about alcohol. Research shows Ann Landers that when parents talk with Dear Ann Landers: The first Monday in October is National Child Health Day, a time to reflect onJika health of, our children. As surgeon general, this year, I am asking Americans to help curtail underage drinking and the shadow it casts over the health and promise of our youth. Among teenagers, alcohol is used more frequently than all other illicit drugs combined. Recent data shows that more than 30 percent of high school s seniors and 25 percent of drinkreported binge ing. 10th-grader- Alcohol-relate- car crashes d are a major cause of death for young people aged 15 to 24. Alcohol is also associated with homicides, suicides and drownings. Adolescent drinking has been linked to risky sexual behaviors that can lead to AIDS, sexually transmitted diseases and unintended self-respec- t, preg- nancies. An overwhelming number of college students use alcohol, and nearly half of them engage in binge drinking. Students who binge-drinare more likely to damage property, get into trouble with the authorities, miss class and experience injuries. Most importantly, they risk alcohol poisoning, which can lead to death. I offer these suggestions to help curtail this serious public health problem: k teens about drinking, those teens are less likely to use alcohol. Anyone interested in more information can contact the National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information LONDON (AP) The e of Earl Spencer is trying "for a second bite of the cherry" in suing the law firm that advised her before her South African divorce, the firm argued in court Monday. The London-baseFamily Law Consortium didn't handle the hearing when a $3 million settlement was reached in South Africa in December and (www.health.org) and the National Institute on Alcohol and Alcoholism (www.niaaa.nih.gov). - David Satcher, M.D., Ph.D., surgeon general, U.S. Public Health Service, Washington, D.C. Dear Dr. Satcher: Thank you for a letter that will surely open the eyes of a great many readers. I hope it will be discussed in homes and classrooms around the nation. An alcohol problem? How can you help yourself or someone you love? "Alcoholism: How to Recognize It, How to Deal With It, How to Conquer It" will give you the answers. Send a long, SUNDAJ 7:30 p.m. ."Wednesday. TValre Harris Fine Am Center M off wuh BY I' student ID) rine Arts Ticket Ofltce i14tU www bvu eilticfac Happy Birthday: Use your energy wisely and you will accomplish all that you set out to do this year. If you put demands on others, they may do what you want but they will also develop a poor attitude. You must use your charm and finesse if you really want others to bend over backward for you. Your added discipline will enable you to master anything you set your mind to. Your numbers: 5, 12, 21, 30, 39, 48 ARIES (March 19): Your anxious behavior may get you labeled a You will tend to overdo it if you are pest. teasing someone. Don't be surprised if the reactions you get from others are negative. 3 stars TAURUS (April 20): Talk can mean trouble. Don't say anything derogatory or you may find yourself building a web that you can't get out of. You mustn't cover up for someone who has been taking advantage of your loyalty. 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Bryc Parking 31 Urban Legeng Birthday Baby: Your greatest gift lies your own wilipower. You have the determination to stand your ground, stick up for your beliefs, and abide by the traditions and morals you are raised with. You will bring your family hope, strength and courage with your steadfast manner and reluctance to give up. Rytting General Admission Students & Seniors . -- stais in Uni innnnly i ho and Steven Kapp Perry jvSSs,. Jwtny ftakvr Oaks VloSfi Sotoiit May Come AlltZ r II - 4 arsuNiymmr picwy. 4iiVPEO ARCADE LOCATED (PG-1- Sun. 1:30 HTTPwww.alive on Iine.comsymphony ONWWOUfWnCMTOMBItl r- develop quickly. Don't make rash decisions or commitments. 3 stars SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 21): Your involvement in sports clubs will help keep you fit. You will meet interesting individuals through work. Be aware that risky financial ventures are not likely to pay off. 3 stars CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 Jan. 19): It is best to work diligently around the house. Too much idle time could lead to fault-fining. Don't judge others too harshly. 5 stars AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 Feb. 18): You will be in a good position to present ideas. give lectures or just let others know precisely how you view the issues on hand. Rumors will be the source of your aggravation. 2 stars PISCES (Feb. 20): Get agreements in writing Career changes will be tempting, but will not necessarily be in your best interest. Empty promises may lead you to make wrong decisions. will JUMPERS A NIGHT AT THE ROXBURY Daily 4:45 7:10 9:10 Sat Mat. 12:25 2 25 URBAN LEGEND (R) Daily 4:20 7:05 9:40 Concert J "I'm still so thrilled to be able to come to work. I am having the time of my life," Gaines said. "Let's go for the next 1.000." J Daily 4:35 7:00 9:20 2 Night If i i i Sat. Mat. 12:10 2:25 "ONE TRUE THING" (R) 4:20 7:15 9:50 Sat. & Sun. 1:45 "THE MASK OF ZORRO" ) 4:10 9:30 Sat. & Sun. Matinee 1:15 Hollywood. Gaines was caught by surprise when Hetty White took the stage during curtain calls and told the audience of (laities' landmark. A banner unfurled and a cascade of balloons dropped from the ceil- (PG) RUSH HOUR ) Daily 4:30 7:00 9:30 Sat. Mat 12:15 2:25 WHAT DREAMS MAY COME 7th & Thursday October 8Lh. 7:30 P.M.. Provo Tabernacle Iv V SwrfniMintpii J" n October 5z) - events will lead to romantic opportuni ties. Get involved in creative hobbies that will allow you to use your hands. Singular sports such as tennis or golf will be challenging. 3 stars CANCER (June 21 July 22): You are likely to have a chance to make changes to your home. Expect friends to drop by. Peers will resist it you try to push your beliefs on them. 4 stars LEO (July 22): Your interest in travel will lead you to some new and exciting places. You will be able to help a friend or relative who has a tough personal problem. 2 stars VIRGO (Aug. 22): Financial investments look like they will give you You a can make quite gain. professional moves that will bring you more satisfacnot more to cash. 5 stars mention tion, LIBRA (Sept. 22): Your part ner may be expecting more than you are willing to offer. Don't make demands at work or at home. It is best to listen to others rather than force your own opinions on them. 3 stars SCORPIO (Oct. 21): Your ability to get a lot done will be appreciated by clients and employers. Relationships Ol Aimmm WTTI..H1li;f.1?!W-TT- T James ISJa Sunday night at the Pantages theater-i- Daily 4:30 7:00 9:00 Sat. Mat 12:30 2:30 Valley Symphony gala opening concept $11) con- fetti and balloons on a beam- For Oct. 7 S Utah Margelts LOS ANGKLKS (AP) The cast of "The Phantom of the Opera" showered "I couldn't do 2.000 performances if I didn't love what I do," he told the audience ing. EVER AFTER (PG-13- ) Daily 5:00 7:15 9:30 Sat Mat. 12:15 2:30 4:00 7:00 9:40 Sat. ' Phantom celebrates by Eugenia Last 111. "URBAN LEGEND" IRI Onlhv Rtoren 5:15 7:30 10:00 Sat. & Sun. 1:00 3:00 17, 1!W8 September Her $2.7 million lawsuit suggest that she could have won $6.4 million if Family Law lawyer David Hudson had advised her to sue for divorce sixmer and in Britain. The press would have been excluded in liondon from the hearing and publicity kept to a minimum, she said. HOROSCOPE envelope and $3.75 (this includes postage and handling) to: Alcohol, co Ann Landers, P.O. Box ANTZ CLOSED said the Countess Spencer's negligence suit is an abuse of court process and should be thrown out. The former Victoria Lockwood was married to Princess Diana's brother for eight years. They have four children. a check or money order for 11562, Chicago, Page D3 ing Davis Gaines as he took his curtain calls after his 2,000th performance as the Phantom. PEOPLE IN THE NEWS d, business-siz- e Hirm Finr Arti Ctiucr Fine Vti Ticket OAkr Nightly 7 & Mutts $4 Children $3 d at il!offimT(HBMlDl Pirdot TVtrr (PG) 9 Sat. Mat. 2 & 4 p.m. e ents. alco-jioli- . minimum-age-of-sal- laws to help par- ADVICE COLUMN DAI I V III RAIT), Prmo. I lah HI Earl Spencer's ex suing law firm over divorce settlement ex-wif- - 1 |