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have your instead of their spendminister or close faming so much money on ily friend explain to my cultural training or you why you them f or thera and aney will send mo there V thi the war have decided upon outside if you ne w york minneapolis is over 1I cant stand the thought bc choose chicago Chi capo sia s 1I personally dont think our fami- or wherever there are many nisei men ly is that you may someday neet meet the right man meet boys I1 want to rabot fall in love thinking but dont go thin kinIg you will find and get married I1 feel like running him in two or three months for love away doos not lie in wait for you like the doss yours truly days on a calendar etor can you vill ll1 K to happen just happens PS please write the answer in the find a job determine to work hard at paper I1 hope my parents aill see soo ev be a success in your it and try to he it fusing 1 I1 it 1 L K ait 1 it st with what you havo have set forth in your letter we are unprepared to addiso you may still bo 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