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Show Page C6 THE DAILY RALD, Provo, Ltah, HE Salurdj. lW January 23, Woman should tell mother-in-lashe's seyen months pregnant 4 w Dear Ann Landers: Please help me figure this out. I am seven months pregnant, and my husband still hasn't told his mother. She lives in another city. We already have one child, so it's not as if she doesn't know we are sleeping together. My husband obviously doesn't have a close relationship with his mother, but this example of poor communication makes me uncomfortable. I wanted to tell her, but he said he wanted to do it himself. Meanwhile, he keeps putting it off. My mother-in-laphoned the other day, and I didn't know what to say when she asked, "How are you doing?' Should I tell her I'm p.g. or just wait until the baby is born? I'm pretty sure my husband won't have any trouble telling her then. Infanticipating in Berkelev, Calif. Dear Berkeley: Tell her yourself, and the sooner the better. Apparently, your husband has some kind of hang-u- p about his mother. So, my dear, out with it. Privileged nurses Dear Ann: You have printed several letters from nurses who said their job is difficult, and unrewarding. While I agree this is not the easiest work in the world, I feel privileged to be a nurse because I can make a difference in the lives of people when they need it most. I am honored to be a member of this noble profession and am sure there are thousands of others like me. Becky in Charleston, S.C. back-breakin- g El GEM A By secrets may be brought out in the open if you trusted someone who just cant keep a secret. Eliminate those who may not have your best interests in mind. 3 stars LAST F.x Jaii 23 Happy Birthday: You have enough charm to persuade even your toughest opponent to see and do things your way. Your approach to life will attract a lot ot attention and open up a multitude of new and enciting opportunities. Your ability to adapt to change will help you deal with any ot the obstacles that stand in your way. You will have an answer for everything, so don't be afraid to speak up. Your numbers: 8. 14. 23. 30, 37. 41 ARIES (March 21 April 19): Sudden changes on the home front are evident. Temper tantrun,- will be frowned upon so don't bother. Try not to let your professional efficiency suffer or you may find yourself unemployed. 3 stars TAURUS (Apnl 20 May 20): Hidden Am Ann Landers what follows is the last GEMINI (May e 20): Neglect cause problems with your mate. Try not to upset matters further by going out with friends. Your fickle nature will be sure to cause jealousy. 4 stars CANCER (June 21 July 22): Deal with unfavorable situations before they get out of hand. Compromise if you wish to keep your present relationship. Your mate may be uncertain about his or her feelings toward you. 2 stars LEO (July 23-Au22): You're ready to get out and have some fun. Try to mix business with pleasure; however, don't be too willing to pay for others. Gambling should be controlled if you wish to avoid losses. 5 stars VIRGO (Aug. t. 22): Uncertainties about your position may will i in your domestic scene. through functions at work or through Concentrate on your career. Refuse to be socializing with colleagues. Minor health care of rather forced into making personal commipi Golems should be taken than ignored. 2 stars tments or decisions. 3 stars AQUARIUS (Jan. 2ffeb. 18): Your t. LIBRA (Sept 22): You can ; ability to come up with original ideas will make money through wise long term investments. Help friends who aren't as - bring recognition and rewards from those in higher positions. Proposals will be efficient with their money matters. You extremely well done. 4 stars should terminate situations that are nc PISCES (Feb. 19fvlarch 20): longer to your benefit. 3 stars Be careful that . Extravagance is likely. SCORPIO (Oct 23 Nov. 21): Get out to impress you aren't spending money and enjoy the social scene. Take advanothers. You mustn't let someone you tage of the romantic opportunities that love talk you into buying luxury items. are apparent. Expand your horizons by Don't let anyone take advantage of you. being receptive to the thoughts and 3 stars ideas of others. 3 stars Z SAGITTARIUS (Nov. Birthday Baby: You love a challenge, 21): and you are an innovative individual. You Social activity should be on your agenda. love to invent and discover. Although that New relationships will develop due to may get you into some trouble during your outgoing nature. Be ready for advenwill find that it your growing years, you ture and travel if the opportunity arises. will come in handy as you mature. Learn 5 stars to use your abilities well and you will CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 Jan. 19): succeed. Romantic opportunities will develop cause problems cor- sage I am pinning on the nurse's shoulder for several months to come. Here it is: Dear Ann Landers: , . ....... ADVICE COLUMN 1 HOROSCOPE Passion cannot by itself be foundation for solid marriage Dear Abby: You printed a letter from "K." a woman who has been dating a wonderful You recently printed a job description for nurses dating from the 19th century. The writer gave the erroneous impression that nursing is a lot easier today than it was then. He is wrong. After 20 years as a nurse, I've seen tremendous changes in both duties and ethics. Today, nurses must be educated and continue to keep on technical advances and procedures. There are discoveries almost daily that affect how illness, wounds and trauma are treated. Today, a nurse must be a facilitator, educator, caregiver, confessor and manager. She must also have intelligence, compassion and intuition. We are no longer menial servants, as that century-oljob description would indicate, but highly educated, highly skilled medical professionals working to bring the best care to each person who seeks our help. I do not claim that nurses are one rung down from saintNew hood, but we're close. Jersey R.N. DEAR ABBY man for 1H months. She loves him with all her heart, but thought she would rather be his friend than ermanent partner. You advised her to break things off. so that loth of them may be free to find "true love." Abby, that helps perpetuate one of the saddest lies of human existence. "Chemistry" and as you call them "magic" have almost nothing to do with love. Passion and lust, as such, are illusions that hold empty promises and fade quickly. Why do you think there are so many more failed and broken relationships than happy, lifelong ones? Iiecause people believe these lies are indicators of love, and search again and again for them when they fail to fulfill. Love is eternal and I)ve is also more closely related to friendship than passion. If you polled successful marriages, you would find that the most committed partners claim they were best friends d al attraction is missing. Please read on: Dear Abby: This is my first letter to you, but because the Abigail Van Buren first. Passion is certainly exciting and part of the shared experience between partners, but true intimacy grows from trust not from the and friendship fear that lustful illusions bring. Bruce Culp, Vero Beach, Fla. Dear Bruce: Although much of what you say about love is true, it's my observation that when a woman-sayshe "would rather be friends," it means that sexu ever-presen- t. topic is so important, I felt 1 must share my thoughts. I am writing in response to the young woman who has been seeing a man for 18 months, but wants to be only friends with him. You were so right to advise her to be honest with the man. I hope she takes what you said to heart and doesn't fall into the trap that I did. Twenty years ago, I had been seeing the ideal man. We had so much in common. After a few months of dating, I told him I liked him very much, but didn't fwl that I was in love with him. I lo was devastated, and I was racked with guilt. I doubted my own judgment and wondered how I could throw away the "perfect" mate. The result was that I "learned" to love him and we married. Abby, after 1 7 years of a very difficult marriage, I am finally on my own regretting that I ever gave in to guilt. Please tell your readers, as the saying goes, "In matters of the heart, follow your heart ..." not your need to take care of others. The Learned the price is too high. Hard Way T017ME M?iVi CINEMAS WHAT I UtahAw7iny8on46TM51'' PATCH ADAMS (PG 13) 1 JMuH $4 Daily 7 & CMMran $3 CLOSED SUNDAYJ DREAMS MAY "s-318-1 COME (PG 13) MEET JOE BLACK (pg Nightly 7:00 Sat. 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