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Show 1 i - Rapist And Survive A FASHIOn EVE B. PTRmMCCORSA(X UPt Family Ksastfc f jstsr Ten ago, a junior at Vrw Carohna State in Ralegh far, ?flsi-- i gid's stream. lie tfi4 'B OF ROMA HAS A GARDEN GIFT FOR YOU 'The Garden of Eve is a terra cofla hanging planter filled with cosmetic delights, it's yours hf just $5 with the purchase of any Eye of Roma (osmetic. Why not try Dew Hydrator ta Mei$tuuier, 6.50 & $10, Qui Reman $S. Glow Blush, Cream, Contouring $5 too De Eve Spray, 8.50, ZCM1 Cosmetics teenage soys Liking turns raping $ firl, 1. 'IV stucsert, Frederic Storas-feel i, 19! pounds, bl.k belt U m jiido, up He too th gin home "I put her i the iiung room wdi and tci J her father she had him accident, then toe aa.jp." Kor&&a said irs as S 6 fetx-k- ufienir. t told the father h:s dsugtuw hid been raped by tnis g3!g, he reaced the nay society reacts teard a girt who has levn raped 1 he father said"Better she should fme died She's nji"?d " Storaska. a psychoid) major from Tsrrytowa. N.Y.. said little research had been done on the subject of rape. So he began and. for the past !0 yevs has made his living leciynng to college students Its objects, teaching females how to thwart a r?pist and survive and encouraging men to treat every date as if it were her last night on earth and give her s beautiful time, fie said 55 per cent of the whiten attacked sre victimized by their fiance, a boy friend, on a date or not, or their husband. "And 35 per cent are raped by someone they know in some other way. The father's boss or subordinate a teacher. "Oniy 30 per tent are raped by a st ranger." Sloraska. executive director of N.itkmsl Orj;ai'itii for the Prewtioti of hape and Assauit. ?aid kicking and screaming is an almost certain way of getting killed by a rapist. Then isn't a female's best course to folio the old line '""Alien rape is inevitable, relax and enjoy it"? ' You have to have mental paraplegia to e.'.pect anyone oemg rapid to either relax or enjoy it," Storaka said. "Itape causes dehumaniza tson. and dfnul-ivn- t Forced intimacy isn't seK'j.t.1 uiiercourse " Reported rapes run to 50,000 a year. But authorities estimate from four to 10 umes thai murlser occur. Many unreported cases are young g is raped by a relative, Sturaka said "I ike the girl who said when she was ID her brother raped her and her notlicr blamed fur for taking her clothes off. We'll a! ays have rape unless we change the attitudes: men, women, passive, he said. - 3.n-.vssve- i Jl i 11 MB .MS ii; I isi ii y ru .23 i i r, y C IV2 IijmK A jmm, x w-jk- a j v ; All mi vuuuuwimi mi be released and in a book to be published this month. Sloraska teiis "'How to Say No to a Rapist and Survive" (Random House) incljdes: rK use hatpirb or anything ILsstrat-g- y IX of the srift You wal no! have time to blow a whistle or use any protective device m your purse. Talk and stall. Try to keep cud. Every second you can use approaching the rapist as a human being gains you ground. Try to evoke sympathy from therapist. Stoiassa dcscr.bed the case history of a woman who persuaded the rapist that she was pregnant and afraid of losing her baby. He said the rapist eventually walked warning the oung woman away, : "Don't walk through parks or tn had places in the dark. That's stupid," "A woman can always scream arid struggle later if this strategy doesn't work." Sloraska said "I know it works." he added rape He said about 300 women in situations had told him they saved themselves bv stalling and approaching the r.tpist as a human being Storaska said rape is a crime of hate, not a crime of passion. "The rapist usually is a person who ovendealized his mother or was put down by an aunt or an older sister or an old woman. He haies women and has developed an intense inferiority complex. "He views women in general as looking down at him from a pedestal and laughing at him. "He :s definitely emotionally disturbed not a raving maniac but not normal either. He is a human being, however, and not a monster. That's why dealing v;jfH bin ?is a h'jman being 'works. Storaska said his bonk is verv can rius'h rrcn. $ thr-"understand that men don't have a njjrt to take what they take" ".her. they rape. He added. "A masculine male dwsn't rs H to is a Neanderthal " fr WE'VE CAPTURED THE FANTASY-LAN- EASY-CAR- E OUR LATEST LESLIE FAY D ESSENCE OF THOSE BEAUTIFUL GIBSON GIRLS The Gibsons mode history wearing dresses like this. The reasons? The flattering lines, the flounces and lace. Our polyestercotton dress captures that same spirit with a lace yoke and ribbon sash. Choose a print stripe in navy, dress red. soft green, or tan. An for making your own history. Sizes you'll want 5 to 13. $22 from the Loft Dresses. vf3 .1, T PRINTS IN INTIMATE THINGS IS THE LONG SHIRTDRESS FOR YOU FROM VANITY FAIR YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR Vanity fair's "Java Jungle" is lovely intimate apparel in flowing Oriental shapes and accented with red piping and buttons. 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