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Show nn jlv TUESDAY, JANUARY 28, 1964 Utah The MATURE PARENT fUliy Utah County. Baby Cant Give Love On Demand POLLY'S POINTERS House Held Alpine Open For Recently Wed Couple Enjoys His Two-Year-O- ld a ' -- ' ' - 7 M"f An open house Mr. and Mrs. Robert Ashpole ALPINE Mr. and Mrs. George of Salt Lake City, sisters and honoring of the groom. A. Brown was held Saturday at brothers-in-lathe Brown residence in Alpine. I Beverly, Barbara and Lynne The couple took their marriage Ashpole assisted with' serving By POLLY CRAMER vows Jan. 10 in Elko, Nev., in and Russel Brown and Lyle Newspaper Enterprise Assn. a double ring ceremony. Bell carried gifts. Shirley Reid Our teleDEAR POLLY Mrs. Brown is the daughter and Hilda Neice served. ' IV" below the a shelf vision set has of Mr. and Mrs. LaMont D. Mr. were guests inBell of Rexburg, Ida., where and Mrs. Sherill Bell and Mr. cabinet. On it I keep several she graduated from Madison and Mrs. Garon Bell of Rex- expensive plastic ornaments. This is known as our High School. She also attended burg, Ida., and Dr. and Mrs. NEW TENANT AT WHITE HOUSE Warrie Lynn shelf. When I clean she Ricks College and is presently A. O. Smoot of Salt Lake City. Smith of San Antonio, Tex., right, is greeted at the gets her dustcloth and cleans employed as a surgical techHouse by Mrs. Lyndon Johnson, center, and White shelf and and rearranges her nician in Salt Lake City. is busy and contented as I work. her oldest daughter Lynda Bird. The girls, who Mr. Brown is the son of Mrs. When young visitors come to were classmates at Texas U. last semester, will regGeorge A. Brown of Alpine and! she! know and the guests call, ister at George Washington University at the the late George A. Brown Sr. with to allowed are; play they capital. Lynda Bird invited Miss Smith to live with He attended school in Alpine these things and they leave my her at the White House while they are attending and American Fork, graduating knickknacks alone. MRS. P.H. college. (Herald-UP- I Telephoto). from American Fork High I had had wish I GIRLS; School He is emloyed in Orerri. such a shelf to keep some re For the open house the bride kl-.J- J cent young visitors occupied. J. -1 wore a street-lengt- h 1 white wool v-- wi 4 ii iwoo I my and mohair dress trimmed with Among the new season's ava Perhaps compote would! fab- er's covered sequins with a matching pill- lanche of costume styles, still be intact. POLLY box with veil. She carried a rics, and colors, an exciting DEAR POLLY May I say of bouquet of pink carnations and and widely diversified array I think that 1964 Polly's Pointers will hold its sixth annual "start gardenias. Sandra Jean Bell, tweeds is holding the initial de- are By GAY PAULEY just about the best I have the bride's sister, attended her fashion spotlight. To really Your Own Business" show at UPI Women's Editor I have five children of in an embossed pink dress ac- rive the most flattering rewards read. New York's Coliseum February d my own and am also a den NEW YORK (UPI) Combine cented with a rose veil hat and when wearing such designs, beauty authorities mother for the Cub Scouts. I some capital and canniness and corsage of white carnations. Many of the exhibitors are recommend these make-u- p tips. save all the tips and particular- you too can start, and succeed, Cindy Brown was flower girl. anxious to franchise, he said, like those for making things. in your own business. line To begin with, your most im- ly Also in the receiving in this era of corporate and many are adaptable to Two of favorites are the Even were parents of the couple. portant accent color will be Christmasmytree made with bottle husband-wif- e operation. giants, there still are numerous Mrs. Bell wore a teal blue your lipstick shade. This should for self will include: The exhibitors and the mesh bag to hold opportunities employsheath and Mrs. Brown, laven- be chosen according to the caps balls. I would like to know if ment, says the man who directs A company looking for door der. Each added white corsages. dominant color in the tweed the other readers could Own annual Your the "Start to door salesmen for its cosare wearing. With any of give Raymond Adams was best man. you in New Business me some ideas for items Exposition" metics: The rooms were decorated the tones, wear a clear red Cub Scouts could make. As my York. you A company with some 100 with bride and groom and cupid shade. With dominant colors of The Arons, director, George little have know, n drive-ior probably boys mauve, doughnut and coffee silhouettes and guests were pink, blue, purple, to the trend to conand says love tone. busy a choose keep they For anxious to open more; lively pastel served at small decorated tais growing and there are shops I would be structive in weaves things. the A yellow, orange, manufacturer of nurses, bles. Gifts were arranged by numerous business opportunities for most help. coral or any wear grateful category, Karen Petersen of Ogden and green, for the woman, the husband- - and industrial uniforms looking MRS. A.C.G. melon colors. for more retail outlets; Janet Newsome of Salt Lake wife team, the man. I GIRLS know Mrs. A.C.G. A pastry and bread whole Although beautifully blended City. At the guest book was "I believe this," said Arons, Mrs. Kathlene Rundel of Magna. in rich, vibrant color tones, can count on your help.POLLY "despite such things as the saler looking for retail franchisI am a DEAR POLLY Acting as hosts were Mr. and tweeds are worn to provide small independent grocer disap- ing. school with a teacher Mrs. Dell Carrol of Ogden and that casual look that is so popu- nursery A firm which sells rug and and the supermarket lar now. To complement this hint that may prove useful to pearing of One the over. chains upholstery cleaning equipment fashion feel, keep in mind that mothers of small children. lushest taking to explore is the looking for new outlets. Arons fields vividness in color accents is When walking across a busy services field. And the number said the firm in its 30 years played down. Line your eyes street with three or more chil- of home owners increase and in business estimates it has "inas usual but use brown tones of dren, use a rope on which loops they are steadily the need for fluenced" 40,000 people to go inA frock with a skirt that r. To complete the over- have been made. One small service increases. to this service field. has all soft, healthy, natural look, hand-siz- e swings from the loop will do for each A health food chain looking Job Opportunities becoming boat neck and just a apply pastel rouge to your child. Have them hold this. of he added, "think for additions; suggestion of a sleeve. No. cheeks, forehead, and chin The children like this and one "Or," school A travel agency the fits into which 3201 comes in sizes 12, 14, 16, areas in a shade that harmon- mother can handle up to six or leizure field electronic golf which trains a person in how to 18, 20. Size 14 takes 4 yards of izes with seven children easily. MRS. H. your lipstick color. ranges, for instance." operate a travel agency; fabric. DEAR POLLY If you are driving A manufacturer of the maksaid that in the service Arons Send 35c plus 5c postage for kit for field there buying a model-makin- g will a be ings of costume jewelry kits. this pattern to IRIS LANE (The a young friend, you will make need for thealways handyman, the Make and sell your own. him happy by including a roll Daily Herald), Box 1490, New the plumber, the rug Initial Outlay York 1, N. Y. Add 15c for first of waxed paper and a cookie painter, and upholstery cleaner, the Arons said amount of capital class mail and special han- BELLE MERE sheet with the model kit. The landscapes required to start any business At Mrs. Reed Bailey Thursdling. Our Pattern Book is 50c. painted pieces will not stick to "And with the shortage of varied. Initial investment for day at 2:30 p.m. Mrs. J. E. the waxed paper as they dry dressmakers, I'm sure any the jewelry kit is about $25. Goates will give discussion. and the assempieces being I A rug and upholsters cleaning woman who's half a seamstress X bled can be easily moved and will have others beating a path service could be put in operaOREM WOMEN'S CLUB tion from the home for as little Wednesday at 3:30 p.m. at kept together on the cookie to her door," he added. will sheet. This make mother To Arons, the opportunities in as $500; the doughnut kitchens the Scera Park School. Members of the Alpine School Dis- happy, too. MRS. C.Z. the service field are "endless anywhere from $3,500 to $10,000, When knit- and boundless." And it helps to trict board will explain the DEAR POLLY depending on location rental of double-pointe- d with four elecnot ting think up a service generally site and such. And if you have proposed bond and leeway I had trouble needles, tion. The public is invited. keeping available. He cited one instance the money to invest, you can the stitches from slipping off the Long Islander who started open a complete To get the most for your the needles. I continually had in business with a pickup truck dry cleaning and laundry center money when buying either nat- to go back and pick up stitches. and a set of clippers. Instead for $250,000. ural or synthetic blankets, Now I use the rubber-pointe- d of owners having to take their Arons warned against anyone check the blankets by holding protectors available in stores to dogs to kennels for clipping, he plunging into them up to the light. If thin do just what the name says. drives to the owners' homes to "on a wing and a prayer. "Lack of knowledge of the spots show through, the blanket They really keep the stitches trim the Rovers. Anin store. the from slipping off the ends best remain Arons is managing director business you're going into is other good check is to pull the MRS. S. M. of Enterprise Expositions, which the big pitfall," he said. "nap" or surface fibers of the blanket. The nap should be firm and not pull out easily. 'Own' Shelf w frW Out-of-to- Makeup Tips For Flattery With Tweeds j great-grandmo- 1 v-- th J, rnnlnrr Ji in uuucu To Start Your Own Business 3 multi-colore- 14-1- 9. self-employm- ent Pretty In Print eye-line- hip-yo- ke self-employm- 35-in- ch Club Notes coin-operat- ed when you approach him and his father, so will a thumb-suckstrike out if he believes ' we are approaching to remove his thumb from his mouth. If you can stop thinking of Timmy's preference for his father as evidence of greater "love" for him, your objecting feelings wili begin to subside. Instead of approaching him when he is enjoying his father's comfort, you will happily permit him to enjoy it. You won't intrude when his father is holding him. Instead of offering him your personal help when he falls down, you'll offer him a hassock or chair by which he can help himself to get up. What Tirnmy needs now is the constant reassurance that you are a happy giver of helping things to him. Those things include his father. You have not yet become a heipful object to him. Right now he regards you as a begrudger of helpful objects. To correct this, you'll have to stop trying to force him to regard your person as helpful, and happily make available to him other objects he can consider helpful. This is difficult. But parenthood IS difficult. In your situation, it requires you not only admit your resentful hurt but to understand that it represents a demand for "love" from a baby who can't deliver it. By MRS. MURIEL LAWRENCE Dear Mrs. Lawrence: Tirnmy is almost 2. The year after his birth, I was ill and my husband took over his care. Now if Tirnmy hurts himself, he runs straight to his father for comfort. But if his father isn't at home, he will crawl under the table rather than let me near him. Neither will he let me approach when his father is holding him. He pushes me away and sometimes even tries to hit me ANSWER: He believes that you begrudge him his father. He has interpreted your hurt (and perhaps your irritation) at his preference for his father as your desire to deprive him of the comfort his father represents to him. So your hurt and possible irritation is the problem. Perhaps I can ease them by reminding you that children of Timmy's age are incapable of what we think of as "love." Your baby has learned to turn to his father for comfort for the same reason little children turn to their thumbs, stuffed animals and blankets for it. Mother's comfort was not available. er ... We can't properly say that they "love" their thumbs. They have just learned to rely on these objects when they have felt lonely and uncertain. Just as Tirnmy strikes out Vertiya Club Has Election Of Officers Old Saws Are Hazard to New Marriages, Say Sociologists n, reporter. The approaching bond election for Alpine School District was discussed by the group after which the hostess served refreshments to 21 saws like the one that every minor doubt or hesitancy says "the course of true love about the future is a danger never did run smooth" form one signal. of the major hazards for young "A certain measure of hesipeople contemplating marriage. tancy is natural for any thoughtSo states a University of Cal- ful person making a lifetime deifornia sociology team. and cision. But many people teenof true this particularly The reason: seem to be almost comagers Such products of folklore sometimes blind, people to dan- pulsive about the idea of 'getger signs that should wave ting marired.' them away from mismatched 'They rush into marriage on the grounds that they're in love, marriages. should get marSociologists Judson T. Landis and therefore What they often fail to and Mary G. Landis suggest ried. that proper interpretation of recognize is that you can be in these danger signs could pre- love with many different people you couldn't possibly live vent some unhappy unions. Landis says, for example, that with. "The more research I do and true love ought to go smoothly. the more I work with young "If a love affair isn't running the more convinced I smoothly," says he. "It's a people, am that they should approach danger signal. Constant disbecause slowly agreement in other life situa- marriage of most serious some the danger tions is usually recognized as a in not show do up early signals sign that a relationship simply at all." relationships isn't workable. to a it love when comes "But affair, the folklore, the romantic illusion, misleads young people completely, so they tend to ig- nore the implications of the Old Vertiya Club met with Mrs. Harold Maag Friday evening when they elected new officers. Mrs. Lawrence Palmer, outgoing president, conducted the elections during which the following were selected: Mrs. Charles Rohbock, president; Mrs. Fenton Prince, vice president; Mrs. M. Alvin Rowley, secretary; Mrs. Leo Poul-so- members. Group Meets For Potluck Supper A potiuck supper was held Friday night at the home of Mr. and Mrs. John Weenig for the "Young at Heart" in the Edgemont Second Ward of which they and Mr. and Mrs. Charles L. Murray are chair men. Prizes went to Mrs. Fava Rig- by and Reed Izatt as game win ners. Later in the evening several of the couples attended the East Sharon Stake dance. To avoid a twisted neck while washing underneath wall cabinets, place a large mirror flat on the kitchen counter so the reflection shows up food splatters and grimy spots which need to be sudsed off. This trick also adds cleanliness when washing the undersides of lower shelves. LOCKHART'S Mow Low Rate (J!iarrels picasuic a"d upon Jhe sl marling up aiiti- - wards. "They thing everything will be perfect after they get married. But their quarreling should tell them that there's something wrong." Another danger signal, often unrecognized, is the constant breaking up and reuniting seen in some affairs, Landis said. If couples break up and then make up one or more times during courtship, he said, this is a sign of potential trouble. "Now the evidence does not suggest," Landis said, "that Call Lockhart Co. 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