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Show Th in class or around the campus, I don't be a bride by June, the traditional consider it forward of her to extend month for weddings. Couples may the first invitation. Because of my long marry in June, but they meet and start hours of study, and scant opportunity wending their way to the altar around Jor outside work, I welcome an invita -tion to a girl's home, or some social this time of year. affair planned by friends or family. I The odds favor rinding your spouse-to-at an office Christmas party, in can't compete with the fellows who offer your neighbor's living room, at a more glamorous and costly dates." Commercial decorator, church dance, or a football game. So you may well be dodging shoes and C2l Chicago Merchandise Mart: rice come Summer if, you make a few Flattery moi with yoor lotorost. "A humorous letter or get-wcard, plans now, remembering never to let your ulterior motives show. a timely note of congratulations on his But just how far can you go in promotion, or even flowers if he has How aggressive can you be? been seriously ill are simple ways to For answers, we went to some bach- - spark a man's curiosity. A decorator aemsol air deodorant still plenty of time to be - g mmim date-baiti- Jit I iAOYs I ell ng man-huntin- g? . $CK ooiy to take the tab. These little things create a feeling of good companionship that make a man ask to see a lady again," Corporation lawyer, Washington, D. C: Offor to iMtr Us tetters if ko will writ. "Never ask a man you've met on a vacation or holiday trip to write you, no matter how attentive he has been. If you think hes interested but needs encouragement, try the 'If you write me, HI be glad to answer' routine. 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"Never, never offer a vacation Romeo High school mathematics yi J I teacher, Brooklyn, N. Y.: your photograph as a remembrance. coocort or show. Isvito yoor moo to (Things have a way of looking very different at home.) Instead, take group "I think a girl occasionally can provide tickets for -- some entertainment, - pictures of your- - vacation fun together -and offer to send him a duplicate. Don't asking a man she knows to join her. It's the way she does it that counts. look too eager! Candid snaps which inMy first date with my fiancee was to clude him can be an irresistible reason an outdoor Summer concert. I really for getting together." never noticed her at school until she Advertising space salesman, said:tickets - I've got two lor simply Pittsburgh newspaper: tf tomorrow's concert. Would you like to lavito Un for om of yor moots too. otfcor kovo . bvt hear Levant?' I've been buying concert goosts "If a girl has marriage in mind, she tickets happily ever since!" Television technician, shouldn't advertise it, and there axe some things she ought to recognize as Cincinnati, Ohio: Ask klm for advlco. obvious Raiting. One is to invite a beau "A smart girl can telephone a man for an 'evening alone at home, even if first, -- if . she does it with taste. She he has promised to leave at a reason- should have a good reason to call and able hour. It ups her rating and shows her conversation should be short and good taste to arrange for parents or friends to be present" charming, leaving" the fellow wanting J e ' more. My girl, who works in our office, Department-storbuyer, ry7 had been friendly but formal Then one U Detroit, Mich.: Moooy: koodlo witli coro! evening she phoned me to ask my opinHi-ion of a set the family considered "A woman should know how to nancue money suuauons. one must re- buyiligrlasiafraidnshe'd hangup"be fore I could ask. her for a date. It was member the average American man the nicest railroading I ever got" doesn't like, her to pay the bill If she Medical student, must be hostess, her payments should be in advance. If there is an unex- Long Island College: lo coosldorato of his clrconstaacos. pected meeting in a restaurant or dining "If a girl and I have been congenial car, she should reach for her own check, -- Fi Family Weekly Magazine, December 2, 1956 "The deciding factor in the social acceptability of a Woman's advances lies solely in the manner of her approach. It is not so much a matter of what she suggests as the manner in which she suggests it An attitude that is friendly and casual but betrays no romantic interest is a safeguard against seeming prematurely aggressive. Of such is the siren." Nflrr'e man, State House, JLlbiJs Trenton, N. J.: Lot oatart tako ovor. "Relax, boys. If she wants you, she'll get you in the end!" That's it straight from the mouths of the males. The summary? Don't let your marriage ambitions stick out all over, but if you sit by passively twiddling your thumbs, watching the dates go by while you feel sorry for yourself, you've only yourself to blame, The little white lie that your Aunt unexpectedly gave you two tickets to the theater may be a pardonable pre- tense, if you never try it twice on the same target The planned holiday party, prearranged for the purpose, of finding friendship, can be fruitful, too. The card can open new thoughtful get-wavenues of mutual interests- - A well- umea pnone cau or laayiute maneuver can clinch a comfortable comradeship, In other words, you may stoop to conquer, but don't ever chip your self-maesteem. It has a way of showing. If he won't take the bait, cast your line in other waters, and come up smiling. ell de |