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Show Sunday, May 18, 2003, THE DAILY HERALD, (wwwJ4ariTheHHald.com), OpiTUARiES, Marten J. Clark Mari Clark, 86, was born July 13, 1916, in Morgan, Utah, to Ella Jean Boyce and Wallace Rich Clark. With the lunar eclipse, he departed this life the evening of May 15,2003. His childhood was filled with all the usual joys and hazards of farm life. Marden and his buddies were pranksters, according to stories he passed down, and decades later recorded in Morgan Triumphs. He drove truck during the Depression, mostly hauling "spuds." He also drove the new ear, three Morgan families shared, into a light pole after his first kiss with Bessie Soderborg. While working as a draftsman for Lockheed in Los Angeles, he took a bus back to Salt Lake and married Bessie on October 25, 1941, in the Salt Lake Temple. They checked into Hotel Temple Square, where one brother each called often enough that the young couple told the desk "no more calls." He earned a master's degree from BYU in 1948 and a doctorate a few years later from the University of Washington. Marden and Bessie settled in Provo where, over the years, they built three homes. Marden taught English at BYU until retiring in 1981. He was a high councilor for a BYU stake and became Bishop of the BYU 29th Ward in 1979. Marden and Bessie loved working with young couples, and it helped him move out of academic life. "I miss my students, but I don't miss grading papers at all," he said. After retiring, Marden and Bessie both taught English at the University of Qing Dao in China, traveled to the Holy Land, India, South America, Bruce L. children, two sons-in-laCampbell and Brian W. Shoenberger, three brothers, and three sisters. A memorial service will be held Tuesday, May 20, 11. a.m., at Oak Hills Stake Center, 925 E. North Temple Dr., Provo. Friends may call an hour prior to the service at the church. Interment is in East Lawn Memorial Cemetery. The family suggests that, in lieu of floral arrangements, people donate to the Food and Care Coalition of Utah Valley (60 N. 300 West, Provo, UT 84601), plant a row for Share the Harvest, or bring to the memorial service from their gardens. G. Kent Hendrickson St. George, UT - G. Kent HenMcArthur) Hendrickson, and Suzette (Andrew G.) Hendrickson McBride. He was the proud grandfather of 13 grandchildren. He is also survived by two brothers, Blaine E. Hendrickson and Boyd W. Hendrickson, Funeral services will be held Monday, May 19, 2003, at 2 p.m. at drickson, age 68, passed away Wednesday, May 14, 2003, in St George, Utah. He was bom on August 23, 1934, in Payson, Utah, to George Welton Hendrickson and Jean Menden-hal- l the Spilsbury Beard Mortuary Chapel in St George, Utah. Friends may call on Sunday, May 18, 2003, from p.m. and again Monday, Hendrickson. He married 4-- 6 Lorna Anderson, March 3, 1955, in the Manti Utah Temple. Kent's early years were spent in Eureka, Elsinore, Payson, and Provo, Utah. He graduated from BY High School and attended Brigham Young University. Most recently, Kent was a small business owner in downtown St. George, Utah. He is survived by his wife and children whom he dearly loved: Bryce Kent (Sandra Johnstone) Hendrickson, Lynne ( Douglas B.) Hendrickson Moore, Mark W. (Holly May 19, 2003, from 12:30-1:3-0 p.m., prior to services. Interment will be in the Tonaquint Cemetery. Arrangements are made under the direction of Spilsbury & Beard Mortuary, (435) 673-245- The family would prefer that memorial contributions be sent to Primary Children's Medical Center Foundation in Salt Lake City, in lieu of flowers, 100 North Medical Dr., Salt Lake City, UT 84113. Friends and family are invited to offer their condolences at www.spils-burybeard.coClick on the dove. Suzanne Tooke Lewis for life and her caring nature toward Suzanne Tooke Lewis, loving wife, mother, sister, daughter, and friend to many, passed away others. She is survived by her husband, Sterling, and their children: Jonathan S. Lewis, Bill E. Lewis, and Jessica S. Lewis, all of Orem; by her parents of Orem; by siblings, William D. Tooke, Spanish Fork, UT, Mrs. May 16, 2003. She was born 7, 1956, in Provo, Utah, to William Howard July Earl (Julie) Christensen, Alpine, UT, Michael D. Tooke, Orem.UT, and Heather Delaney, Roy, UT, and by many nieces and nephews. Funeral services will be held and Shirley Davis Tooke. Suzanne married Sterling R. Tuesday, May 20, 2003, at 11 a.m. at the Berg Mortuary Drawing Room Chapel, 185 E. Center Street Provo. Friends may call Monday evening from 6-- 8 p.m. at the mortuary, as well as Tuesday morning, one hour prior to services. Interment will be in Lewis, October 17, 1979. She received her education in Orem Schools and graduated from Orem High School. Suzanne has lived in Orem most of her life and she is a member of The Church of Saints. Jesus Christ of Latter-da-y Suzanne was known for her zest Page A9 More on A8, A10 Charles William Pecht Australia, New Zealand and Africa, and were arrested while protesting at the Nevada Test Site. Marden wrote column, Matter Unorganized," tor The Daily Herald in Provo. The column was a celebration of nature, people, family and the world generally as witness of God's love And there was his garden. He wrote about it, drew sustenance and joy from it, brought his ward members to raid it, and taught his children to grow green and living things. He was an avid supporter of Mormon literature and culture, and read, papers many times at Association of Mormon Letters conferences. He was the first person named as a lifetime memberj)fAML Marden leaves behind his beloved Bessie after nearly 62 years of marriage; six children: Diane Campbell Glendora, CA; Dennis Clark and wife, Valerie, Orem; Sherri Clark, Salt Lake City; Kevin Clark and wife, Susan, Yelm, Washington; Harlow Clark and wife, Donna, Pleasant Grove; Krista Clark, Midway, 19 grandchildren; eight greatgrandchildren; two sisters, Jean Christensen, Salt Lake City, and Mildred McClellan, North Ogden. He is preceded in death by two grand- Prove, Utah Patriarch, Father. Gardener Our beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, Charles William Pecht, passed away May 15, 2003, at the age of 73, after a courageous 10 year battle with sales goals. He was a member of the Advisory Committee at the Utah Lymphoma. Provo. He He was born September 6, 1929, to Irene Inez Bartell and Charles W. Pecht, Sr. He looked opened his own store in 1978 in the Foothill Village called Gold 'N Diamonds where his honesty, humor and generosity earned him the love" and respect of his many customers. He served as President of the Foothill Village Merchants Association. He also served as a member of the Board of Directors of the Intermountain Jewelers Association. He enjoyed working side by side with his son, a third generation jeweler. Chuck was truly a gem whose sparkle will always remain in our hearts. He enjoyed indoor and outdoor gardening. You could always find him puttering in the yard planting flowers or repotting plants to create an forward to a reunion with his parents, especially his mother who passed away when he was only eight years old. He married Shannon Leone Clawson on July 29, 1955. Their marriage was later solemnized in the Salt Lake Temple, He recently served as a veil worker at the Jordan River Temple. He attended Uintah Grade School and graduated from East High School in 1945, at the age of 16, after which he attended the University of Utah. He later spent two years in the military stationed at Fort Jackson, South Carolina. His professional career began with Decker Jewelry in 1943 as a second generation jeweler. He worked for the Zale Corporation Z Club in 1969, awarded for excellence in diamond marketing and outstanding achievement of trade Tech- - JT meal Insti- tute at I 1 1 atmosphere of beauty for his family whom he loved and served diligently every day of his life. The family would like to thank the many kind and devoted doctors and nurses at the VA Hospital who cared for Chuck during the many weeks he spent in, their care. He is survived by bis wife, Shannon; and five children: Natalie Pecht, C. Matthew Pecht and wife, Denise; Spencer B. Pecht, Julianne Wallace and husband, Barry, and Lance W, Pecht; his sister, Marilyn Schafer, and three nieces-- , and 10 grandchildren who gave him a lot of joy and happiness: Kellen, Madison, Matthew J., Braeden, Dylan, Aleigh, Dalton, Mackenzie, Jonathan, and Dallin. We love you Grandpa Chuck! Funeral services will be held Tuesday, May 20, 2003, at 12 p.m. at Jenkins-Soff- 1007 e, W South Jordan Parkway, South Jordan. A viewing will be held Sunday, May 18, from p.m.; and Tuesday, two hours prior to services. Interment to follow at Wasatch Lawn Mortuary, 3401 S. Highland Drive, Salt Lake City. 5-- 7 Ociss May Marie Lucas Boise May Murie Lucas, age 73, of West Valley City, died May 15, 2003. Mom has left this earthy life to join Daddy. We will miss her, but we "know that she is happier now. Eloise was born May 13, 1930, in Colorado, to George W, and Edith May Murie. She received her education in Provo, and graduated from Provo High. She furthered her education and graduated from UTC and went 'on as a medical secretary at Utah Valley Regional Hospital. She was a lifelong member of the Community of Christ Church, formerly known as the RLDS. Eloise married William "C" Lucas on April 22, 1949. He preceded her in death in July of 1987. She was also preceded in death by her youngest daughter, Pauline, and by her parents, and brothers. She is survived by a son, Daniel "B" and his wife, Dixie Lucas; by daughter, Kathleen "E Lucas, and and good friend, Arnold; by 3 grandchildren: Sabrina Lucas Alfred, W. Shane Lucas, and Ashley N. Lucas; and by 3 Gentrie Lucas, Harlie Pearmain, and Dalton Alfred, all of West Valley City. Graveside services will be held Wednesday, May 21, 2003, at 11 a.m., at the Timpanogos Memorial Gardens Cemetery, 1000 N. 400 East, Orem. Friends may call on the family at Berg Wednesday morning from 9:30-10:3- 0 Mortuary of Provo, 185 E. Center Street. Royce Evon Morley Johnson Moroni: Royce Evon Morley Johnson, 79, died May 15, 2003, in Provo, UT. Born ft April 18, 1924, in Moroni, UT, 9 toWilford LeRoy&Edna Olson Morley. Married Aden V Johnson, Feb. 3, 1944, in the Salt Lake LDS ,3, Survived by husband, Aden, of Moroni; children: Judi (Brent (deceased)) Ogden; David (Linda) Johnson; Peggy (Allen) Bossa; Randy (Betty) Johnson; Kim JohnKim son; Polly Johnson; flpfcrwn gafcf &W)W Poulson; sisters: Bernice Worthing-ton- ; Ethelyn (Dern) Chapman; 18 grandchildren; 30 great grandchildren; preceded in death by parents, daughter, Jeanie Poulson; 1 granddaughter, 1 great granddaughters; 2 brothers & 1 sister. Funeral services Monday, May 19, 2003, at 11 a.m., Moroni Stake Center. Friends may calf Sunday from p.m. at Mortuary in Mt. Pleasant, 6-- 8 Magleby-Ras-muss- & Monday from 9:30-10:3- 0 a.m. at the church, prior to services. Inter- -' ment, Moroni City Cemetery. 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