Show r tY AMY ADAMS D MOM DESERVES MORE THAN EXCUSES Dear Amy Now that her bachelor son died my husbands husband's wants us All I Nape hae are 3 bedr bedrooms oms and they are aU ail taken two boys and a girl Besides we live upstairs and the climbing would be too much for lor her since she must go to tl the doctor every day She has bas a daughter who who just built a new 9 3 bedroom house and has no children daugh ter is a widow with two grown grown- IP girls One son has a nice new Iome Lome and ami the other son Is still stilla a 3 bachelor So why pick on us We are only renting If she goes to a home we will all have to pay for lor her support and we will have to cut expenses to meet these payments Why cant can't she use her property properly to pay part of 01 her bill Hoping you youcan youcan can answer this in your column soon Annoyed Dear Annoyed Why does your mother law have to pIck on you Obviously because her lIer other 4 children concocted excuses why she cant can't live with them Just as you have I 1 think she should go to a home borne Living with any of 01 you WOL woid d be anything but pleasant ller lIer property might be sul dent to take care of 01 the costs II If It Isn't the five of you are reo re- required by law to pay for lor her keep By the Ule way what plans have YOU In mind for lor your old age Dear Amy What do you do when your boyfriend loses his job job My boy boy- boyfriend friend has been out of work for 3 months now and I am always afraid of him not having any money when we go out some someplace someplace place I know that jobs are hard to find but I dont don't think it Is a good time to be be- going steady do you Should I date other guys from school without telling him himor or should I tell him that I just dont don't think we should go steady any more more Please let me know what I 1 should do Confused Dear Deir Confused And yop YO are If you really cared carro for this boy his lack of money wouldn't alter your feel leel tugs Tell TeU him him the truth its it's its it's the and least you can do and until you youl l learn arD to be more than a lair fair weather friend dont don't disillusion another boy by becoming his Dear Am Amy My husband husband ha has a son in Europe from a former marriage lie hasn't seen thIs boy since he now was 6 weeks old ne lie is now 35 35 married and the father of 01 2 chil dren and for the last 10 years my husband has been sending him sizable packages lie asks for ny ny Ions dress dres material babushkas and just about everything else lie even asks for lor things for his laws in-laws The packages cost so much to send that I could buy myself a good pair of shoes with the postage When my husbands husband's parents died my husband sent his share of the Inheritance which amounted to 1200 to his son Now to top It all In the last letter he asked my husband for lor money to buy an automobile We dont don't even have one lie wrote he wants to be a sport and he wants to show his friends that he has a acar acar car that Is if my husband will send him the money money Do you think Im I'm wrong In reo re- re refusing fusing to send thin thi money and also the packages The things they hey ask for I dont don't even have myself because we cant can't afford It My husband thinks we ought to send him some money towards the car anyway Mrs K E Dear Mrs K E Es Your husbands husband's son Is demand demand- demanding ing unappreciative and spoiled But since your husband Ls is sable sible for lor spoiling him dont don't ex ex- ex expect things to change hange now U H he heis heis is is really In need of these pack ages continue to send them As Asfor Asfor for financing his sporting ven ven- ventures tures do not Dear Dear Amy r like a boy who is pretty pop ular among girls How can I get notice me Would It do any good if I got other boys not quite so popular to notice me first I will be 15 and he is 17 Please tell me any suggestions you have J LB B B To get a boy to notice you Ignore him lie will wonder why youre youre you're different Then he will pursue you to find out outi i Address all letters to AMY ADAMS o c TIllS NEWSPAPER For Fora personal reply enclose a stamped serf addressed envelope |