Show I IBY J BY AMY ADAMS 4 COLD NEIGHBORS CAN BE DEFROSTED Dear Amy My husband and I just bought a new home bome wa new develop develop- development development ment We were as were our two children We love the new newhouse newhouse house but there is one thing that makes me v very ry unhappy I have failed to make any friends This doesn't seem to matter to my hu husband band as he is at work aU all day But even he has noticed the cold cold- coldness ness which our neighbors have shown towards us I have gone up to aU all of them first and introduced myself and my children We get geta a geta a big hello from everyone but that's all 1 For or instance they have started a card party every Thurs Thurs- Thursday day night which I have not been asked to join They had swimming parties and cook outs cook outs this sum mer and not once were we asked to j join ln in the fun This has bas me worried because we always had friends before I have invited them to my home They say sometime but never come Mrs Benson nearl Dear Mrs Benson Try again But this time Instead of 01 inviting them to come visit sometime make it definite Plan Plana a get together and extend them theman theman an Invitation which includes date time etc Serve th the specialty of 01 the house or bake your our favorite cake A 1 warm Invitation should melt the Ice e Dear Amy I 1 am In the ninth grade and eighteen years old already My last years year's average was 66 I 1 want ant to Gr quit school but my par wont won't let me I am old enough to quit without their permission What should I do Stupid Veal Bear Stupid Dont Don't he be stupid altogether Go Goto Goto to a vocational school If you cant can't se your brain learn to use your hands s Bear Oear Amy What do I 1 do with aU all the neck ties that I 1 received for Christmas They're horrible Tom Veal Bear Tom Throw a necktie party Dear Amy My widowed mother Is quite young 36 and attractive It is very embarrassing for me when on Saturday nights I find my mother at some of the night spots my date takes me to On these occasions she insists that I ta iu traduce her as my older sister To add Insult to injury many of my boyfriends have bave taken her herout herout out believing she is really my sis sister ter ler Whets When I ask sk mother to stop beha behaving ving like this she tells me meto meto to grow up and stop being a child Amy isn't what she's doing wrong lIer IIer Daughter r Dear Daughter There Is something very wrong with your Y mother If 11 she he desires the company of 01 boys young enough to be her bel sons You Vou can help her by enlisting the aid of 01 a close member of 01 your family or a favorite aunt and hereafter dont don't take part In this deception Introduce her for what she really your is-your mother I e b Dear Amy I 1 work in a lingerie shop part time Theres There's a friend of mine who never misses an opportunity to get a bargain if you know what I 1 mean The other da day she said to me that shed she'd do me a favor and stop in n and pick up a slip or gown when the boss wasn't around but I should make the price right Just let her know when I didn't answer her because t 1 was so angry She brought It up again and I ignored her again But I know her and I 1 know shell she'll I ask again What should I say to her Fran Dear Fran You have bave such sueh patronizing friends Tell her Dont do me any favors and I 1 wont won't do you any PERSONAL TO WorrIed from Laurel Ia Springs Whether the police will become becom involved or or not hot is not nearly h at Important as th the medical atten lion tion this youngster requires The junk will kill kUl him Get help 1 S b Please address all letters to AMY IY AIM ADAMS o c For a personal reply enclose a I II stamped seU addressed envelope I J |