| Show i RY BY AMY ADAMS STATISTICS CAN LEAD TO CONFUSIONS Dear Amy After several years of marriage I 1 filed for a and under temporary court orders received custody of our 8 month old daugh ter Shortly afterwards my wife and I re reconciled our differences and moved to another state Eventually I had to divorce my wIfe but I retained custody of our child I now wish to remarry and have havea a family and home life lite but with willi a af f 63 3 divorce rate here and a very high average nationally I feel I have a 50 chance of a happy marriage I go to church and my daughter goes to Sunda Sunday School liS as many people do yet do-yet yet this doesn't lower the national or local average divorce rate I was thinkIng that my chances for a successful second marriage would be for me to marry a young woman from a foreign country where the home and family are still respected Many of my close friends think Im I'm wrong What's your respectful advice Dear From your statistics you have drawn confusions Marriage may maybe maybe be It a gamble but only a gambler plays percentages When you find finda a nice re respectable woman who loves you and your daughter marry her regardless of where she he comes from Successful marriages mar are not impossible when hen one Is willing to gIve more than SO 50 percent when the other falls behind Dear Amy There iss is a busybody busy In my neighborhood She Sil accused me of oC sneaking a boy Into my room at atone atone one o'clock in the morning Ever since she accused sed me she has watched me from her upstairs window She has gotten Jotten me into serious trouble with my mother What should I dc 1 Belg Watched Dear Dur Watched If j you ere are innocent you have nothing to worry worry about If you are are guilty you 1 0 are not being watched close enough 1 1 Dear Der Amy 1 I I read ad your column I think have some pretty retty good goodan an ans s is But Dut heres here's one I wish you would ld an answer tr for me Differ eat people kept telling me about my husband ke keeping ping company with this woman at work and tak lag Ing her home Also that they tilt would go across the llie road from work and he would buy her ber the best of steak dinners and yet ct at home borne he would blow his stack stacIe it if 1 would buy a few extra cans to 10 have on hand But what I 1 heard I didn't be lieve At a 4 1 4 1 fair Cair there were werl two couples who boo when they saw me started to whisper about this I affair So that put me to thinking and I followed him home on one night and I 1 saw it it And what I saw was enough to shake m my mind loose yet he tries to act so honest honest I how shall I 1 approach him to I tell him that I followed him and know about it Or shall I him again and let him see me and the kids lie Ill works nights lIe Ife always said there weren't any women working there Since hes he's such a two I dont don't know U if UI I want him or even en love him any anymore more bear Grill GnU You Ilont dont need Id I'd an approach Present the facts and watch th the worm sq squirm 1 I am 14 years ears old I have II a girl girlfriend girlfriend friend who Is about 13 We are going steady so she says All we do Is talk on the phone every night We never r do anything just talk Should I let Jet this girl go and start going out with other girls Worried Dear Worried Your girl sounds like a live wire Dont Don't sever the connection You never know when the number might come In handy PERSONAl TO I print them as I see them If you have It a change of heart Ill I'll print that too t PERSONAL TO Mrs C Los Ios Angeles Angel s I cant can't solve 3 years or of lems In two lines Send me your our name and address Please address all letters to AMY ADAMS o e TillS NEWSPAPER For a personal reply enclose a stamped envelope |
