Show aD i iBY BY AMY ADAMS CONSULT A LAWYER Dear Am AmI Amy Amys I am asking your hap Because I d dont don't f know who to turn r to My problem Is We were married In InJune InJune inJune June of 1967 and we had a big weddIng with all ell the trimmings Just recently I found Hound out my husband hus hue band was married before by a Justice of or the Peace I further found out that the divorce was not final until August of 1967 What I want to know is If I Iam Iam am still legally married to him nS hal hals even though his s divorce wasn't a final until after arter we were married Troubled Dear Troubled A long lone time nn ago I agreed with the members e of the Bar my y son and his peers not to give I legal advice d If they wouldn't I lf give marital advice So I urge Urie you to toe consult a lawyer e I II Dear Amyl Amy I am a tired grandmother I raised a big family of my own and I dreamed med that some o day I IJ g Tree eto would be free to come and go a aI as asI asI I pleased But I am more tied down now than ever Now the children expect t me to raise their children I wC When the ree grandchildren n get gt too much for my husband he gets in his car and runs But nut what am I supposed to do Just Tired Dear Tired Who tells tell you to give your children everything they expect If you dont don't want to be tied down tell tel rou your children to face up to their responsibilities I Only offer y t-y your services when YOU really want to e e 0 Dear Amy i iMy My sister and I share a beet beef room Every Everyday day she comes home and because nobody likes her she sits around and moans does her homework and then for two or I three hours she plays the record player so ap loud that It deafens me ma What would you do Getting GeltIng Deaf Dear Dealt do dont don't If t you Id let her care sit about around g l your and mope sister Since you are obviously well-liked well and popular pass on your trade t d secrets to her Then sister will be too busy t to play lay records record i h BO so a often and you w will regain your hearing I De Dear Amy is 16 he We have been ben married for 16 years yearl and I have a not so little problem problem b that I Im thought fv perhaps perhaps you could help me solve I go to b bed at night before my husband does and he stays up to swat files flies to the tune of or Ive Got Get Rhythm This is aggravating enough but to top It all off at breakfast when he eats his cereal he slurps it up This worries me because our children are learning to slurp What would you suggest suggest sug- sug gest Stymied Dear Dear Swatting flirt files Is not so hard to take lake especially If yon you try using rood good old fashioned ear plugs lut f Slurping I is another tune Re Remind mind your husband a gently bl that his for uncalled eating eh habits at atthe atthe t the toll In breakfast a brood table of ul Is taking If ft this Its doesn't help I suggest you serve him r before ph the children ft or after Then he can slurp to his hearts heart's content and no one will have haw to listen 0 e Dear Amy t I am 15 5 years yeara bid so Is my nty boyfriend d. d Weve We've ve known each other since May and we like ea eats each other very much h. h r rHe He is always buying me ms presents presents- Is IB Is' It It oil all right if I I buy him presents on the spur of the moment too Ifor i t iMy My f family and I W went away for the he weekend once e and when we came back he gave me me- mea a welcome home present I feel odd not giving him anything I wo would wod d greatly appreciate an all answer to toe this small problem t Uncertain Dear Uncertain I wouldn't dt advise you yon o buying him gifts m or accepting his I This is too costly a pastime m f for young oa s 's teenagers e to I indulge in Prom Promptly discourage him Encourage nun to send cards or personal notes notts and you do the same 55 Please address lJ all aD letters tot AMY ADAMS o c THIS NEWSPAPER For a personal reply enclose A tamped self addressed envelopes envelope |