Show ai BY AMY ADAMS NECKING ISN'T FATAL BUT Dear Dar Amy I would like to know how you feel about with my girl of Ive I've been dating her steadily for about a year Im I'm In my th thirty's and very norm normal In ever every wa way but she sn says s 's Im I'm ab- ab abnormal abnormal normal Do you ou see anything wrong In If it I Just a Guy near lear Guy It Y ml not he be fatal but It has ha put an end to many I IC tIC tIC Dear Amy I would like to know what do you YOli do o with tine the letters ou receive because your business sounds wonderful and Im I'm really inter inter- Interested ested Joan P F Dear Joan Every letter I receive I read and give Ive say my personal attention Many Inny are arc used d In the column Many more are gIven personal replies I have never looked upon my undertaking IlS IL u business It Is I hIghly d specialized n requires q a great den deal 0 of study research cx- cx an understanding of people and work work and more worK nut But It t lu isis Us its sno mo- of extreme satisfaction for which I am grateful tIC S C S Dear Amy Amyr Im I'm 19 years old and I have been going steady with u a boy for over a year ear Lately Ive I've been bearing about him and andone one of his girlfriends ex lIe He Is supposed to have had two chii with thIs girl lIe me these things arent aren't true but I know that they are Im I'm sure Inc's hes In love with both bothof bothof of us and I dont don't want It this way I 1 love him too much to break up with him What do o you think Is I U should dol do Sallie near Dear Sallie If the stork stories you hear hrar about aboul tM boy are In fact true Irue see see- lag Ing muss him It Its It's not issn how much you Jove muss him abuts what's important Is how much he loves lovell youlIf youl If Inc he tins hns two Iwo children with wills another sans Hanl marriage li- li license II cense cease II i Hounds to me like you are ure his conquest Dear Amy I have a son whom hom I love very much but at tImes Umes he pro pro- provokes vokes me to the point that we words mainly over money lie He owes us more than we can afford or I care to state For Forthe Forthe the past six years we have been helping him support a filling falling business which he refuses to gIve up he blam blames s all his on everyone else but never him self saying no one ever helped him In any way Recently we refused him a large sua of money for the first time lime and In not getting It he be- be became became came very angry and saId that he was all the other debts he owed us liS My question is how do I get through to n a 28 year old ld man eye had It ill I still love my but Im im i'm tired of buying his love and being used Weve We've Had t tt t Dear Had It Unfortunately your son hicks icks confidence In himself l Immature und cad obviously hall baa not learned to stand standon on his his- hi own two feet The Themore Themore more you indulge hurt the he worse It wm will get Give hIm advice if isa he asks for It but no more money He must learn to think ad act like a man even If It necessitates getting professional ional help S 5 Dear Amy its Jt's that old problem again Doing homework a 0 r watching television I feel my parents are too strict in not letting me enjo a few favorite shows each nigh They Insist that I do my home home- homework work worle first and If it takes me un ill til its it's lt time to go to bed Im I'm to togo togo go to bed Im I'm entitled to some relaxation also arent aren't 11 I Too Much Homework Dear Too Much You are arc too much Many a sl student u d Q n t wise who watches television for Lour hours will go down Ia history not to mention ArithmetIc Eng and Geography oil See Address all letters to AMY ADAMS c o TillS NEWSPAPER For a 11 personal reply enclose a self d envelope |