Show e r BY AMY ADAMS r- r TIlE HIE lIE AU GOT COT AHEAD OF HIM Dear Amy Ala Im I'm a man of 32 married to a ise and loving woman We e leave 4 lovely boys whom 1 never up- up till We were married when I got ot out of the All AIr Force although h I Iwas Iwas was really too young to marry After 3 years ears of mar ni a r ria r La t g e I started going to larS bars 3 and 4 times a week I love beer and n c lu K LULU a u 0 U jJ J drInking My ly wife objected but butI I Ignored leer her Last year she stop stop- stopped ped arguing over it hen I home be it 1030 pm or 2 am she Just wouldn't talk to me and acted arted as though she hart had WEn even stopped loving me Inc Can n is wife stop loving her husband nd Now ow Im I'm trying my 01 best to tomake tomake make up for my lii foolishness I Iwas IWas was never one to show my love for her even though I know she yearns for attention I never tell her tellI I how much I 1 love her eve cv ei n though in the past Ive I've told her that 1 didn't love her I 1 was wrong ng 1 Amy what In this world can canI canI I do now to show her Ive I've been wrong as I wish Ish to get back Into Inlo her Hood good graces and those of our chIldren Dear Bewildered You know tile the answer to your problem I Stay on the wagon and dont don't fall oft oIL Show that wise and loving wife of yours your by giving her hr all your attention and love lov loud lii In turn tuna she will vill give you all ull of hers P S Yes Ves a wife can stop lov loving Ing when a puts beer before everything lie he should hold dear Dear Amy For 3 months I have been dating n a 60 year old man I have learned to care a great deal for him but about 3 weeks ago a 25 year old girl moved into his home with him and they are living together Common Law This man still comes to see sea seame me and he has said he likes me mea mea a lot loL ruly ly problem Is that Im I'm 38 quite lonesome and I want the company of this man but I cant can't feel free knowing that he has someone else What shall I do Troubled Dear Troubled Next time he comes calling tell teU him you are not lIot reedy Ing because lIE HE Ita made IllS HIS choice And frankly being 38 Is no problem You can do better and younger lear Dear Amy deferring to bins 1 F Rs R's let let- lettel letten ten tel I agree with you that she's sing dOSS tog bridges before she comes to them r I am an i 7 years older than my husband and so I shall be 71 when he retires Weve We've been mar mar- married nod ried 32 years and our age dU- dU ference has never made a bit of difference lie He turned haired grey-haired ilu dam The en e a e m y of retirement is boredom bondom mind and It Is amazing how many persons e especially men do donot donot not develop hobbles hobbies and outside Interests during their productive years ears that they can then enjoy after retirement We Ve know u a number of retired persons who are jolly happy and really thoroughly enjoying their retirement years Many lany of them look years younger than they are arc because they are making the most of life while they have it To be happy In retirement one s Ii h o 0 u I Ici d ci prepare for those years B BEFORE they arrive There mire are many things that a per per- person person son can do to keep In good physical cal shape which includes eating nourishing food for the body and keeping the mind alert and active a and nd above all retaining lt i n 11 t In i v thing i gt It is q quite te amazing i g t to me e how many persons even young ones go through life with an and an unseeing at- at attitude attitude They never note the in- in incredible incredible credible beauty of about them they never wonder about the why and wherefore of things they do not read books or articles that stimulate their minds they show little interest In history literature poetry music or art I wonder if Mrs F H IL has ever thought of writing to chil- chil children children dren In hospitals hospitais sending them cards milking them scrapbooks or to older persons who are all alla alla a lone 1 o a e having can certainly widen ones one's horizons es- es especially penally If some of these friends live In other countries Today roday when most people have ro ni dozens o r e s of leisure i varied red t diversions i iii e sl there never e are 1 even dreamed of a few decades ago and aud I agree aglee with Amy that so some m e people create fantastic problems because they have nothing else to do Mrs Russell S Address all letters to AMY ADAMS o c TiltS TillS NEWSPAPER For a 1 personal reply enclose enclosed a I stamped self addressed envelope |