Show BY AMY ADAMS SPEAK UP LP OS OR STAY STAi HOME Dear Amy I am happily married to a aswell aswell swell guy and we have 3 lovely children Our problem Is this How do you plan one weekend with your our husband and children when the laws in-laws come early every week week- weekend end We love these people ver much and do not want to hurt them Yet we still want and need a free weekend to fulfill the promises we make to our girls for trips to the shore and other places I How can one be nice about this and still be friends Tired Dear Tired I Simply by telling your laws In-laws of your plans as nicely as you know how Every family needs a weekend at least once a month to fulfill their desires I think you will find that your in In- In laws will not create creale a hitch when I they hear your pitch Dear Amy I read your columns re regularly and I really like them But as most letter writers writers I have my problems and I seek eek your our help 1 have two problem parents Whenever I leave the house they ask me very suspiciously where I am going Whenever Im I'm wrong they'll snake make sure that I dont don't for for- forget forget get it but whenever Im I'm right they very seldom give me credit U if any at all Often times Ive I've heard adult authorities counselors principals principals pals etc say that today's teen teen- teenagers teenagers agers have a great many more pressures than those of 30 years ago They also say that the teen teen- teenagers agers of today are no better and no worse wore than those of 30 years ago I could very easily be wrong but I dont don't think my parents real real- realize realize ize this Now I know that you may tell teIl me they provide food shelter and clothing but I honest honest- honestly honestly ly believe that I 1 than they appreciate me Unsettled I Dear Unsettled If your problems with your yourI I parents seem scent Insurmountable its it's only because there Is a lack hul of communication and understand understand-I understand understand- understanding Ing Its It's true that the teenagers of J today have more pre pressures than I I those of years gone by bv but today's parents are arc also subjected to more pressures pr's ures You ou cannot hope to see your parents view unless your views turn anew Is II Dear Amy Can you please tell me on the little finger of which hand n a man a It should wear a pinkie ring My Iy husband says the left and I say the right lie He has his ring on the left hand and says that's why he cant can't wear his wedding ring So If you can answer this question he said he would take your ad- ad advice advice vice Question Dear Question There Is no set sd rule on which pinkie Ii a ring is ii to be worn But since a wedding band takes precedence over a pinkie ring he should wear the ring on the right Dear Amy I am 12 years old going on 13 and I am In Junior HIgh school There Is a boy In my homeroom class who always talks to me and I answer him Everyone sees this and they think that we both love each other so they spread a rumor that I love him Now almost the whole school believes that and everywhere I Igo Igo go they keep singing a love song about us But I dont don't love him And he doesn't love me We just like each other Frightened Dear Frightened Teasing is n a common pastime for your age set Continue you your friendship if you desire and let your classmates sing Its It's excel excel- excellent lent exercise for the vocal cords when one has nothing else to do 5 t PERSONAl TO Buddy from Berkeley A dean is a person who doesn't know enough to be u a pro pro- professor professor fessor but who is too smart to 10 be bea bea a president S Adress all letters to AMY ADAMS c u THIS TIlIS NEWSPAPER For It a personal reply enclose a tamped stamped self addressed envelope |