Show dt BY AMY ADAMS 1 J PURSUE THE TOPIC Dear Amy Ive I've been going oln with a real wonderful guy for about n bout six months lie Ile said hed he'd he I get my engagement lI a ement ring In December and we would be married sometime after Christmas Sin Since c e the time lime he proposed hes he's never said more murt about It it Im I'm too bashful to bring up the subject Could you tell me what to dol do Too Bashful Dear Bashful The Bashful Bride e went out with the horse and bu buy buggy y Pursue this topic further and find out If there Is u a ring of truth In what LIE II F proposes S e Dear Amy We are a one one- one car ar family and my husband has to use It to go goto goto to work however I do have a neighbor who offers me a rIde every time lime she goes shopping or orto orto to the beauty shop One day a astore astore store downtown was having a terrific sale on chicken my hus- hus husband husband band loves chicken and my neighbor called me up and told me to be at her house b by one and that we would go together At one I was coming up her front walk when her door opened up and there she stood still In her night clothes her hair In curlers saying good good-by to an an- an another other neighbor I 1 was quite dis- dis disturbed disturbed and angry and it must have showed because when I ex- ex exclaimed claimed Youre not dressed yet she said So and slammed the door In my face Now Amy I have always been very nice to this woman for the favors she did for me I have bought her small pieces of jewelry and aud have taken her and her hus- hus husband husband band out to dinner I dont don't think I deserved that kind of treatment Do You Disturbed Dear Disturbed No I dont don't think prink so either Perhaps your friend was annoyed at being held held up by her neighbor so your remark added fuel to the fire and she exploded Uy By now she's probably as sorry forry about the Incident as you are arc Ul Unless ess you learn harn to become your own chauffeur or have hubby run you around you must overlook a lot accept even more and complain very little S Dear Amy J 1 have been going steady WWI with my boy friend for 2 2 1 months now Just recently he started talk talk- talking Ing about getting married next September I 1 love hilp him a lot and I want to 10 marry him too tool Ill I'll be beIG IG 10 In March Hell He'll be 18 in January I haven't spoken to my par par- parents parents yet et but I will eventually Ill I'll be graduating In 2 years Irs and andI I could finish my last year after Im I'm married Is there any reason why I shouldn't get married married- Cheryl near Dear Cheryl Off hand I can think of about 20 reasons reason why you F shouldn't There Chere me are very few fely If any uny young people your yOU yOUage age who are ready to take the big step tep If you were ready you wouldn't ask k me meI I for reasons why you shouldn't S S S Dear Amy Every year ear the married couples in my mr neighborhood throw a New Tears Tear's ears ear's Eve party and we all I chip hip In time and money to make it a gala evening There Is one couple that we weare weare are still trying to collect from for last years year's affair She was the first to call me up and ask where we weare weare are having this years year's party arty I told her that as yet it had not been decided upon but actually I would like to discourage her from coming How can I do this without starting trouble Peeved Dear Peeved What bat you want to 10 do will certainly create hard feelings I sug sug- sug suggest gest that you forget about last years year's cars car's party and inform your friend friend that this year the party Is Ison ison on a You Pay plan You pay as you go INI PERSONAL TO Mixed Up Los Angeles Calif Intimacy not sanctified by a marriage license license is WRONG no matter matler what n a boy tells you A girl your age needs a mother Please tell your father so S S Address all letters to lo AMY ADAMS o c THIS NEWSPAPER Fur For a personal reply enclose a stamped self addressed envelope |